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  • I know a lot of guys have trouble picking up on the signs of whether or not a girl is into them.

  • So today I want to do a little quiz you can see if she actually does like you or even just how good you are at recognising signals that you might be getting.

  • Let's say you're in a bar, and you look across the length of the counter and you see a cute girl who glances at you briefly, does a quick hair flip and then turns back to her friends.

  • Is she into you?

  • Err, eye contact is obviously a good sign, but you really can't tell from this example.

  • She could just be adjusting her hair, and maybe she was looking at someone behind you.

  • So, let's say you're at the office and your cute co-worker is waiting behind you to make some copies of... whatever people make copies of.

  • And she says :"Wow! Do you think you could go any slower?" and then playfully punches your arm.

  • Is she into you?

  • Err, again, you can't really tell from this example either.

  • She might like you, but she might just be giggling and punching your arm as a sarcastic middle school throwback, so really no way to tell.

  • Okay, so let's say you're at the gym on the elliptical for some reason and Cutie McBooty comes in and gets on the exercise bike in front of you.

  • And then after five minutes she looks back and says "Wow, I'm so sweaty already. If only there were a way to get the same workout at home riding something else."

  • Then gives you a wink.

  • She into you?

  • Yeah, still can't tell with that one...

  • Um, exercise equipment is pretty expensive and maybe she lives in a small apartment and just doesn't have space.

  • So, maybe you find a good deal on rowing machines somewhere, you can show her the flyer.

  • Okay, so let's say you meet up with a friend that you've had coffee and drinks with a couple times and she says: "I had a lot of fun on the last few dates we went on."

  • That's a good sign because she thought those hangouts were actually dates, so suppose then she says "How'd you like to come back to my place and watch Netflix tonight?"

  • That's another good sign.

  • Err, it's usually a pretty good indicator when a girl invites you to do something, especially at her place.

  • So then let's say, later at her house, you guys are watching WALL-E or something like that, and she says "I'm getting pretty bored. Why don't you come upstairs with me?"

  • That's another great sign.

  • She probably has something pretty interesting to do upstairs if it's better than watching WALL-E.

  • So, then after you go up there, all of a sudden she pushes you onto her bed, dims the lights, rips off her clothes, and you start having sex.

  • Is she into you?

  • Yeah again, you really can't be too sure.

  • It's pretty dark in the room so she can't really see you properly, maybe she's from Canada and was just being polite.

  • Anyway, best bet is to just keep your wits about you and continue to look for signs.

I know a lot of guys have trouble picking up on the signs of whether or not a girl is into them.

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Casually Explained: Is She Into You?

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    Annie Huang posted on 2020/05/16
Video vocabulary

Keywords

properly

US /ˈprɑːpərli/

UK /ˈprɔpəlɪ/

  • adverb
  • In an appropriate or correct manner
  • In a correct or appropriate manner.
  • In a way that is suitable or appropriate.
  • In a correct or satisfactory way.
  • In a way that is morally correct or acceptable.
  • In a thorough or complete way.
flip

US /flɪp/

UK /flɪp/

  • adjective
  • Showing a lack of seriousness; glib or flippant.
  • noun
  • Act of turning your body in the air; somersault
  • An act of flipping something, especially a coin.
  • Movement of something from one position to another
  • verb
  • To turn your body in the air, as in gymnastics
  • To move into a different position quickly
  • To move a button or switch to turn on or off
  • other
  • To move or switch something with a quick motion.
  • To buy something, improve it, and then sell it quickly for a profit.
  • To turn something over quickly.
  • other
  • To perform a turning movement.
suppose

US /səˈpoʊz/

UK /sə'pəʊz/

  • conjunction
  • What if
  • verb
  • To imagine or guess what might happen
sarcastic

US /sɑrˈkæstɪk/

UK /sɑ:ˈkæstɪk/

  • adjective
  • Being rude and critical
bet

US /bet/

UK /bet/

  • noun
  • Act of gambling money on the result of a race etc.
  • An agreement to risk money on the result of an event or a competition
  • verb
  • To gamble money to win more money, e.g. on horses
  • Used to express certainty or confidence
exercise

US /ˈɛksɚˌsaɪz/

UK /'eksəsaɪz/

  • other
  • Physical activity that you do to make your body strong and healthy.
  • A military maneuver or simulated combat operation for training purposes.
  • A task or activity designed to test or improve one's knowledge or skill.
  • A task or activity designed to practice a skill or test knowledge.
  • A set of organized activities for training or practice.
  • other
  • Physical activity that you do to make your body strong and healthy.
  • The use or application of a skill, right, or quality.
  • The use or application of a faculty, right, or process.
  • The use or application of a skill, right, or quality.
  • other
  • To perform physical activities to stay healthy or improve fitness.
  • other
  • To train or drill in order to improve fitness or skill.
  • To use or apply a skill, right, or quality.
  • To exert influence or pressure.
  • To use a skill, right, or quality.
  • To use or apply a skill, right, or quality.
  • noun
  • Physical activity to increase health and strength
  • A task or activity designed to develop or improve a particular skill or ability.
  • Set of questions in a text book
  • verb
  • To work out to become stronger and healthier
  • To retain your ability or practice your skills
deal

US /dil/

UK /di:l/

  • noun
  • An agreement entered into, especially in business, to do something for someone else.
  • A large amount or quantity.
  • A business transaction.
  • The act of distributing playing cards.
  • other
  • To distribute playing cards to players.
  • To behave in a certain way towards someone.
  • verb
  • To cope with something - usually troubles
  • To give (something bad e.g. news) to
  • To buy and sell illegal drugs
  • To give out (cards, etc.) to; distribute
  • To do business with someone or to sell products
  • other
  • To take action to solve a problem.
contact

US /ˈkɑnˌtækt/

UK /'kɒntækt/

  • adjective
  • Touching or feeling something
  • noun
  • Touching or feeling something
  • A conductor allowing electricity to pass.
  • Exposure to a disease.
  • Object that allows electricity to run through it
  • Communication with someone or something
  • People who can give you information, introductions
  • other
  • To communicate with someone.
  • To communicate with someone.
  • To touch something
  • other
  • Communication or interaction.
  • The state or condition of physical touching.
  • other
  • Communication or interaction.
  • The state or condition of physical touching.
  • verb
  • To get in touch with someone
polite

US /pəˈlaɪt/

UK /pəˈlaɪt/

  • adjective
  • Showing good manners or respect for other people
counter

US /ˈkaʊntɚ/

UK /'kaʊntə(r)/

  • noun
  • A point in a discussion that puts an opposite view
  • A narrow table top for serving/preparing food
  • Person or device that adds the number of things
  • A token or flat piece used in games
  • prefix
  • Being opposite or against something
  • verb
  • To say or do something in opposition or resistance
  • To try to prevent, as by making a different point