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What's up ? This is J.T Jones from How2GetAGirlfriend.Org, and today we're going to be talking about brotherhood.
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There is a code among brothers, among men that must be followed.
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I've been getting some emails along the lines of this:
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"Hey Jade, I like...I like this girl but she's my best friends ex-girlfriend. Should I go out with her? Do you think he is gonna get mad?"
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"Hey, there's this girl that my brother likes, but she's not really into him, but she's into me.
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Should I date her? Do you think my brother is gonna mind?"
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What are you asking me for? Alright. Go ask your friend!
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What is this sneaky stuff man?
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Brothers always come before the girls. Alright?
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If you're ever gonna date a girl who your bro is interested in, you'd better damn well go and look him straight in the eye.
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Man to man, and ask his permission if he's okay with it.
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And if he's not cool with it, and boom, you gotta cut that girl off.
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Boom! She's off limits.
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If you‘re gonna sacrifice your... your best friend or your brother, someone close to you just to get a girl, then you are not being a true man, alright?
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A man is someone who puts his brother's first, so I just wanted to share that with you, this is very important.
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Always put your brothers first.
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If you ever have any situation, where you're gonna upset your friend for the sake of getting a girl—
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If you're doing anything deceptive or manipulative or you're lying or hiding something from your friend
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cause you think you're gonna... it's gonna hurt his feelings cause he likes that girl then you're not being his true friend.
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Alright? So be a true friend, a good person, be transparent and honest with your friends and always put your friends first, alright?
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Because your... your friends your brothers are the ones who give you strength the ones who are gonna be there when no else is.
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They're... they are the ones that encourage... encourage you or lift you up.
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And after years and years and years, they're the ones you gonna call.
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They're gonna be there whenever you need them.
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I have a very close band of brothers, a really close... you know, I don't even call them my friends, I call them my bros.
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Because I can call them up and ask them for anything and if they are able to do it, at the drop of a hat, they will be: "Jade, I got your back." And vice versa, I'm there for them.
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That's what you need to develop as a man and if you don't have that, I greatly encourage you to develop that area of your life.
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Don't be one of those guys that just has a girlfriend or fiancée or wife and that doesn't even if even have like any guy friends
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Alright? As a man you need to surround yourself with other men because they... will solidify your foundation.
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They will give you support and they always have your back.
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Alright? So very very important message.
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Don't ever stab anyone of your friends in the back, it's never ever worth it. Alright? It's never worth it. That's the message for today.
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