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  • Hey, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV the place to be (isn't this place

  • awesome?) to create a business and life you love. And today is Q&A Tuesday and that means

  • we have a question and I'm gonna A it. Here we go.

  • This comes from RP and she writes, "Marie, the wisdom you put out there through your

  • videos is life altering. It's really created a positive shift in my thinking." You're welcome.

  • "However, there is one thing that you keep on referring to that I don't quite get yet.

  • Listening to my gut. Everyone talks about it. For instance, when someone tells me, 'I

  • just knew he was the one,' there are crickets chirping in my head. I've never experienced

  • this whole 'I just knew' phenomenon. I'd certainly like to get on the gut feeling train. What

  • are some actionable ways to tune into your gut? Thanks so much, RP."

  • Wonderful question, RP. Whether you call it listening to your gut or tapping into your

  • intuition or following your instincts, understanding how to pay attention to your natural knowing

  • is a vital skill for success in business and life. In fact, notable people like Sir Richard

  • Branson and Miss Oprah Winfrey always talk about the power of using your intuition. And

  • if you've been watching for any time, you know that using my intuition is a huge part

  • of how I run everything.

  • Now, you may not think that you have the intuitive gift, but that's just not true. All of us

  • have what I call natural knowing. I mean, it's how our species has survived on this

  • planet. We all know when danger is present even if it's not right in front of us.

  • Now, everybody has the potential to tap into this wisdom as long as you know how. So here

  • are 4 action steps you can take to get on the gut feeling train.

  • Number one is go on a historical dig, so here's what I mean by that. I want you to look through

  • the mental file folders of your past. Take a look at a situation where something went

  • wrong and in hindsight you can realize that some part of you said, "I knew it," when it

  • all went to crap. So maybe it was a relationship that went south or a business deal that just

  • turned sour. I'll bet if you really look you'll notice there were some red flags that you

  • missed and you probably dismissed them because you didn't have proof.

  • I want you to take a few minutes and actually write down every instance from your past where

  • you had that funny feeling and it turned out to be true. Why? Because of this here tweetable.

  • "Seeing that you've had a gut instinct in the past will help you pay closer attention

  • to it in the present."

  • Number two is meditate. You wanna know why most of us can't hear our intuition? It's

  • because our minds are filled with this guy. Meditation is one of the most powerful practices

  • that I think every human being on the planet should take up. I meditate on the daily. I

  • sit in my cross legged position, I set my little iPhone timer for 10 minutes, and I

  • slip into what Deepak calls The Gap.

  • Now, you may think you're not the meditating type just like you think you're not the intuitive

  • type, but let me tell you, you want to get that gut feeling train going choo choo? Get

  • your meditation on.

  • Number three is ask for guidance. So whether you call it God, spirit, the universe, creative

  • consciousness, each of us has access to an unlimited, infinite source of wisdom. So if

  • you find yourself stuck in a certain situation, ask for guidance.

  • Pose an inner question to yourself and really ask, "Is moving ahead with this person or

  • project the right decision for me right now?"

  • But seriously, once you ask for guidance you have to actually listen to hear the answer.

  • It's very subtle, it's like a whisper, and you have to tune in to pay attention.

  • The other thing is, you might get your answer after a full night's sleep or perhaps after

  • you get yourself distracted with another project. In fact, research shows that when you give

  • your subconscious mind a little bit of a break and give it time to process, it will come

  • up with the perfect intuitive answer.

  • Number four is pay attention to your visceral reactions. So this is how my intuition speaks

  • to me and, I have to tell you, it is really loud. So I'm talking about the physical things

  • that you feel in your body whenever you're considering a decision. What are the physical

  • sensations? You have to ask yourself, "What am I sensing? What am I feeling right now?"

  • Do you feel an immediate sense of dread? Are you getting tight in your chest? Or do you

  • feel tired or do you feel reluctant? On the other hand, do you feel a sense of openness

  • or lightness or a sense of relief? I'm not talking about thoughts, I'm talking about

  • physical sensations in your body.

  • Now, if you have no idea what I'm talking about, then you need to make like Olivia Newton

  • John and get physical.

  • Why? Because intuition lives in your body, not in your mind. Now, if you're having any

  • trouble at all getting in touch with your visceral reactions, you need to get those

  • buns off the couch and do what he's doing.

  • So there you have it RP. 4 concrete ways to get more in touch with your intuition. Now,

  • I would love to hear from you. You got some concrete ways to build your intuition muscles?

  • Or, if you'd prefer, you got a great story about when you really listened to your intuition

  • and how it impacted your life? As always, the best discussions happen after the episode

  • over at MarieForleo.com, so go there and leave a comment now.

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  • Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams because the world needs that special

  • gift that only you have. Thank you so much for watching and I'll catch you next time

  • on MarieTV.

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