Name: How Childhood Trauma Distort Your Perception on Life
Uploaded: 2022-11-11T21:01:30.000Z
Duration: 4 min 46 s
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Well, for most of us, childhood was a simple and carefree time.

Not everyone is lucky enough to have that.

Some may have experienced trauma at an early age, robbing them of their sense of safety and security.

Defined as "the experience of a single or multiple event by a child that is emotionally painful or distressful",

studies showed that childhood trauma often leads to serious lifelong damages to one's mental and physical health.

Have you ever wondered how such experiences could impact a person?

Well, there are a lot of ways childhood trauma can impact you.

Here are the main ways that can shape your view on life.

Number one, it makes you more pessimistic.

Many studies have proven that people who have experienced a traumatic event, especially when they were younger, are more likely to be pessimistic.

They often generalize their traumatic experience into a generalized negative expectation of the world, which makes it more difficult for them to see the positive side of things or trust that good things will happen.

Instead, they internalize their unhealed trauma until it manifests as either self blame, passive helplessness or a pessimistic worldview.

Number two, it makes you feel more alone.

A lot of research tackles the detrimental effects childhood trauma can have on a person's mental and emotional well-being,

but what we don't often realize is that these detrimental effects can trickle down to impact our view of not only ourselves but of the world in general, too.

Well, childhood trauma is known to increase a person's likelihood of developing depression and anxiety, as well as making them more vulnerable to feelings of guilt and shame.

This negative self-view then makes victims more socially withdrawn and, as a result, suffer from lower levels of social and emotional support and poor quality of interpersonal relationships.

Number three, it makes you self-sabotage.

Similar to the previous point, a person who's experienced childhood trauma may be more likely to self-sabotage, especially when it comes to their relationships.

In fact, studies have shown that a large majority of those who have suffered abuse or violence related childhood traumas go on to develop adult attachment disorders.

Most of them have a hard time maintaining long term relationships, be it platonic or romantic because of how their trauma has distorted their view of human nature.

Instead of believing in a person's innate capacity for good, they've learned to fear their capacity for evil and deceit,

which makes them less trusting and more likely to self-sabotage, creating problems where there might not even be one.

Number four, it takes away from your sense of safety and security.

Have you ever wondered why some people who've experienced trauma, end up struggling with it for years, even long after it's already over.

Trauma of any kind can have lasting physiological damage.

And when you experience it at such a formative time of your life, such as in childhood, it can take years to unlearn and undo.

Being traumatized, takes away a person's sense of safety and security, which is crucial to a child's development

because it's what bonds them to the significant people in their lives and encourages them to explore the world and fulfill their potential.

Without their sense of safety and security, they might grow up to become overly timid, anxious, fearful, or overly attention and approval-seeking.

And number five, it hinders your ability for meaning making.

Some of the most widely used psychological treatments given to victims of trauma include cognitive therapy, narrative therapy, and logotherapy.

All of which focus on helping clients make sense of the trauma they've experienced and create positive meaning out of it.

Because victims of trauma struggle with this the most, it's often what keeps a lot of them from moving on and healing from their painful past.

Even though traumatic experiences are usually unexpected, uncontrollable and seemingly random, we still try to make sense of it anyway.

But in doing so, it can distort our way of thinking so much that victims often either victimize themselves where they take away their own sense of agency and being able to do something about their trauma

So have you or someone in your life experienced a childhood trauma that's changed the way you view life?

If you are struggling with your mental health in any capacity, please don't hesitate to reach out to a mental health care professional today and seek help.

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