Name: Why You Can’t Stick To Anything (The Polymath Advantage)
Uploaded: 2026-02-07T04:59:52.000Z
Duration: 10 min 25 s
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You probably have a graveyard in your house.

Maybe it is a dusty guitar in the corner that you haven't touched in months.

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A stack of language books you bought with so much hope but barely opened.

Or a half finished coding project sitting on your laptop.

And every time you look at them, you feel a little twinge of guilt.

They call it flaky, they call it lacking grit.

Or the most famous one, jack of all trades, master of none.

You consume the information greedily and you feel like this is finally the one.

And then right when things get serious, the feeling evaporates, you get bored, you quit, and

After a few years of this cycle, the self blame sets in.

You look at your track record and ask, why can't I just stick to something?

But today I want to offer you a different perspective.

One that is a little kinder and a lot more scientific.

It is easy to feel like being a dabbler is a defect, but

you actually share the exact same foundation as a genius polymath.

You have a high drive for novelty and curiosity.

The difference between you and a master isn't your personality, it is your strategy.

It comes down to the conditioning of a specific part of your brain.

But to unlock that potential, we need to understand the glitch that makes you quit too early.

Let's start by looking at how your brain handles new information.

Cognitive scientists call this the knowledge instinct, which is the drive to reduce uncertainty.

It cares less about having the knowledge and more about the speed of acquiring it.

Your brain is highly sensitive to what researchers call reward prediction error.

Here is what that feels like when you start learning something new, say photography.

You go from knowing nothing to knowing something very quickly.

Because the rate of information gain is massive.

The world is full of possibility, but this is a trap.

Then you reach a point where you understand the core logic.

Suddenly the novelty drops, the learning curve flattens.

You enter the plateau, and for your specific brain type, that means the dopamine shuts off immediately.

A master pushes through this plateau because they are looking for a deeper pattern.

Without fuel, your brain is going through dopamine withdrawal.

Your subconscious realizes the energy required to learn this final 20% is no longer worth the reward.

But we need to have an honest moment here.

Are you quitting because you truly mastered the skill?

A dabbler quits because they hit the first obstacle.

And the reason you give in to that fear is because a specific muscle in your brain is weak.

We often talk about grit or willpower as if they are magical character traits.

But neuroscience shows that tenacity is physical.

It lives in a specific brain region called the anterior midcingulate cortex, or amcc.

You can simply think of the AMCC as a muscle inside your head.

Research shows that this area engages when you do something that you do not want to do.

If you hate the task, but do it anyway, the AMCC fires.

If you let this muscle bear weight, it grows.

For a dabbler, the AMCC is often like a weak muscle that cannot even lift a water bottle.

Every time you felt a moment of boredom or frustration in the past, you quit.

So now even a tiny inconvenience, like a difficult chapter in a book or a confusing line of code is enough to trigger a give up decision.

It's like asking someone who's never run to suddenly sprint a marathon.

This feeling of weakness isn't a moral failing.

But the good news is that this brain region is plastic.

Studies on superagers, older adults who maintain incredible cognitive function show that they have AMCCs that are just as thick as young people.

Because they spent a lifetime overcoming challenges.

So even if you are young, your willpower muscle might be weaker than a 70 year old who has lived a hard life.

Just like a real gym, you don't walk in and try to deadlift £500.

When you are practicing your new hobby and you feel that familiar urge to quit, that moment when the dopamine fades and the frustration starts.

Do not quit immediately, but also do not try to force yourself to work for another four hours.

If you plan to read 10 pages and you want to stop at page three, read to page four then stop.

That tiny gap, that small moment of doing what you did not want to do is the rep.