Name: How to feel Love Again (even if you never have)
Uploaded: 2025-09-03T17:58:14.000Z
Duration: 4 min 39 s
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I don't think I've ever really felt love.

If that hits a nerve, this video is for you.

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How do you feel love when you've never really known what it feels like?

Here's something that might surprise you.

Love isn't just something you feel, it's something you learn.

And some of us learned early that love wasn't safe.

You can still learn it now, even if you're starting from scratch, even if you're 25, 45, or 65.

This is exactly why we tackle the hard stuff at Psych2Go with psychology, compassion, and real hope for change.

"Love is an action, never simply a feeling."

So how do you feel love again, especially if you've never learned what it was?

It starts with the smallest moments you've been overlooking your entire life.

Maybe I love you came with conditions or cruelty.

Over time, love started to feel like a trick.

That numbness you feel, it's your brain protecting you.

The ACE study shows early trauma rewires how we connect with others.

You may not recognize love now because what you experienced wasn't really love.

Love isn't fireworks, it's not obsession.

Sometimes love is more remembering your coffee order, a friend checking in, your dog waiting by the door.

Thinking, I'm glad I'm here during a sunset.

Dr. Barbara Fredrickson's research proves it.

Even micro moments of connection rewire our brains towards trust and safety.

When's the last time you felt that flicker of connection?

If you've never felt loved, start by borrowing it.

Watch shows where characters love each other well.

Read stories where someone is cherished unconditionally.

Listen to music that makes you feel held.

If you have depression or past trauma, emotions might feel blunted.

Therapy and time can help reopen those doors.

Next time someone compliments you, don't deflect.

Then sit with how awkward but warm that feels.

A smile, a kind word, being human together.

Try this, write down one moment of connection today, even tiny ones.

It just needs consistency, safety, and time.

You can water a plant like it really matters, pet a cat like royalty, or text a friend just because.

Love isn't just received, it's created through care.

Even if it feels mechanical at first, showing up builds emotional warmth over time.

You might not feel love like others do, maybe not yet, but you're here, you're looking.

Don't force anything, just notice the soft moments, the way your heart flinches when something kind surprises you.