It is Chelsea Fagan.

And I am back with another episode

of The Financial Confessions.

This time, with an unusual guest, a man,

someone we rarely see the show, but also someone

who is an incredibly astute and-- dare I

say-- even funny expert on money.

So he should make for a very interesting conversation.

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So as I promised, we have a man in the studio.

Who let him in?

He is a CFP.

In fact, I've heard you maybe even referred to

as the millennial CFP.

I'll take it.

He's a New Yorker.

He is someone who loves a good tie.

He's an expert on money.

He tweets.

His name is Douglas Boneparth.

Hey.

Hi.

What's up?

Not too much.

Welcome to The Financial Diet.

Thank you so much for having me.

Tell our audience a little bit about you.

Sure.

Sure.

I'm the founder and president of Bone Fide Wealth.

It's a wealth management firm that specializes primarily

in now older high-achieving millennials.

So we don't care how much in assets you have.

We care about where you're going and what

goals you want to accomplish.

And I was one of the first people

to go out and say, hey, I'm going to work with millennials.

And if you did that seven years ago, you got

laughed at in the profession.

Right.

But look who's laughing now.

Is it you?

Yes.

Are you laughing person?

Not.

I'm not-- I think my wife's the one laughing really.

Mostly at me.

Uh.

Yeah, yeah.

We should have a little counter up for how many times you

mention your wife.

For those joining us, so Doug is a man who loves his wife.

Yes.

Mentions her a lot.

And so hopefully, we'll hear a lot more about this elusive

person.

She'll probably come up a lot.

A lot of her financial story is our financial story.

Oh, how nice.

We co-authored a book together.

So I guess that's the next part.

Look at you guys.

We wrote The Millennial Money Fix in the three months

she had off after having our first child.

Yeah.

OK.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We really--

I got tired just hearing that.

Right.

Right.

We really-- you know?

If we're not going to sleep, then we

might as well be productive.

So my wife and I wrote this story

to pretty much address the massive amount of student loan

debt that we've taken out respectively.

And we wanted to show you that if you do understand

personal finance, you can get organized enough

to get out of really precarious situations.

Right.

Something that was very unique to millennials

is the average amount of student loan debt on their heads.

And we wanted to show that you can still

achieve your great things in life

despite these financial realities and obstacles that

are kind of unique to our generation.

So she's an attorney.

Yes.

And you're an MBA.

Yes.

Got it.

So how much-- do you ever disclose how much

student loan debt you have?

Yeah.

Yeah.

We're very forward about it.

It's right in the book.

Right now outstanding balance is just shy of $300,000.

Woo, buddy.

Yeah.

Good gracious.

It's a lot of money, right?

That is a lot of money.

Goodness.

But if you work hard enough and are

deliberate about how you want to build your career

and go after your goals, and prioritize them right,

you can deal with stuff like that.

There's-- you know, humble brag, not really,

but you've got to have a lot of income to deal with that

expense and still put two kids through daycare,

and buy a house, and afford living in that house.

So for all the flak that the generation gets

around millennials don't own homes,

and they can't do x, or start families,

settle down, and get married, I'm

here to tell you that that's just not true.

And there's some real practical things

you can do to get on your way.

I think there are--

I think that's not totally untrue.

I think there is some reality to it

for a lot of people who maybe have similar levels of debt,

but perhaps not the earning potential to go with it.

But we can get to that in a bit.

I'm curious in your particular situation,

so that's quite a significant amount of debt.

Is there any element of your education

or how you took on the debt, how you went through school,

that you regret?

For me and my decision to go get an MBA here in New York,

I have zero regrets about that decision.

I think it was always a goal of mine when I moved to New York.

And I think it was necessary to acquire

a few things that I would need to continue

building my business.

It was a very calculated decision,

down to how many clients I would need

to acquire within graduating to make that student loan payment,

you know, a wash.

And then how to make money on top of that.

And granted, I went to business school

after Heather went to law school.