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  • How To Get A Girl To Like You

  • it's actually a very simple three-step

  • process but of course i'm going to delve

  • deep into each step so that you have a

  • full understanding of what is going on

  • and why the first step is to exhibit

  • value this is what causes the initial

  • attraction so let's imagine that

  • everyone has a number floating on top of

  • their heads this number correlates with

  • how much you can offer the world the

  • amount of money you have your looks your

  • network your popularity your knowledge

  • and so on and as shallow as it sounds

  • we're attracted to people with higher

  • numbers than us

  • people who are of higher value because

  • simply they have more things to offer we

  • believe they can make us happier

  • however we can actually see this number

  • we can look through someone's wallet or

  • find out exactly how many people they

  • know

  • so instead we use our senses to estimate

  • what a person's value is in order to get

  • her to like you you have to exhibit high

  • levels of value now this doesn't

  • necessarily mean you need to have tons

  • of money or a nice-looking car or a six

  • pack all of those things do scream value

  • and the absolutely will help but there

  • are two traits that scream high value

  • more than any other trade out there and

  • the first is social proof

  • let's say you see someone with a ton of

  • friends you think to yourself wow he

  • must be a great person and we see him

  • with a ton of girls that he's always

  • hanging out with you think wow he must

  • get laid

  • often this is what people see from a

  • third-person perspective if you want a

  • girl to like you you have to show her

  • that you're well liked by others and

  • there's no shortcut to this this means

  • you have to hone your social skills to a

  • point where you have an abundance of

  • friends to a point where you can give

  • off an incredible first impression

  • check out some of my videos on

  • communication skills and start talking

  • to everyone

  • nothing catches the girls or frankly

  • anyone's eyes more than a guy who walks

  • into a room and he's interacting with

  • everyone and everyone is just happy to

  • see him

  • the second is confidence someone who

  • projects confidence through their body

  • language comes off as someone who is of

  • extremely

  • I value if you look at men who have

  • tremendous amount of power and wealth

  • will notice that they walk and talk

  • certain way in general their movements

  • are slower and they take up more space

  • slower because they know they have

  • control over their world they're not in

  • a rush and they take up more space

  • because they aren't scared of being

  • vulnerable because it's a biological

  • instincts for us to close up our body

  • when we feel threatened or scared and

  • when you see someone acting this way you

  • assume they have something you assume

  • they are of high value and the great

  • thing about confidence is that you don't

  • need to be the CEO of a company or the

  • leader of a gang

  • all you have to do is learn how to

  • imitate this body language if you can

  • just mimic their body language you give

  • off the same or a day do you might say

  • well I can't fake it i don't want to lie

  • to myself I don't want to pretend that

  • I'm confident in myself when I have

  • nothing to be confident about while

  • confidence is a state of mind there's no

  • prerequisite that you need to me in

  • order to be confident or act confident

  • you could be a starving unemployed kid

  • who lives at his mother's basement and

  • have a ton more confidence than someone

  • who makes six digits and upon meeting

  • you

  • people will find you more attractive of

  • course only if you teach yourself how to

  • do it I'll do a video about confident

  • body language and how you can adopt it

  • and i'll put a link here

  • the second step to getting a girl to

  • like you is to exhibit desire and this

  • is what causes the seduction this step

  • is actually the make-it-or-break-it step

  • for most guys out there so you don't

  • have to have sky levels of value for a

  • girl to find you attractive

  • what you do need however is the ability

  • to show her that you're interested in

  • her see a woman will separate every man

  • she meets into one of three different

  • categories the first is the yes category

  • this is for men that she's willing to

  • sleep with and date the second category

  • is the no category this is for the guys

  • she is not willing to sleep with your

  • date if you ever got friends on by a

  • girl

  • this is the category that you landed

  • yourself in and the third and final

  • category is the maybe category

  • how it works is if a girl meets you and

  • she finds you attractive she will place

  • you into the maybe category in order to

  • enter the yes category you have to show

  • her that

  • desire if you don't and there's only a

  • short window of time in which you can

  • you'll automatically get thrown into the

  • no category this is why so many people

  • who try to text or talk to her way into

  • a girls pants get friend zone because

  • you're not showing desire by acting like

  • their friend

  • however there are two very effective

  • ways to show her that you desire and

  • they are number one to tell her that you

  • find her attractive and this is a more

  • upfront approach and it works very well

  • because it's very rare in today's

  • culture now you might say well what

  • about all those guys were just cat call

  • woman all day that doesn't work well

  • yeah of course because they skip the

  • first step when someone who hasn't built

  • attraction tells you that you're

  • attractive it comes off as creepy but if

  • you've already been introduced and she

  • does find you attractive it becomes

  • charming

  • the second way to go about exhibited

  • desire is through touch touch is

  • significantly more powerful than words

  • think back to a time where somebody

  • accidentally strokes your hand and just

  • sent tingles all over your body

  • there is no better way to show girl that

  • you desire her into touch her

  • now of course you can't just jump in and

  • start groping a girl there is in order

  • of what is acceptable

  • there's something called the Kino

  • escalation ladder and i'll leave a link

  • right here for you to take a look at it

  • but essentially it's an order of which

  • you can use touch to exhibit your desire

  • now in order for you to exhibit desire

  • you have to do it in person always

  • always in person which is why i highly

  • suggest you to use text to get her to

  • come out on a date with you then exhibit

  • desire from there a key thing to

  • remember is that the longer you wait the

  • more likely she'll put you into the no

  • category and when you do finally come

  • about telling her that you do like her