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  • Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence dot com where I help the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves.

  • And in this super short video I'm going to be sharing with you the 5 signs that a dude you might have just started dating is seeing other women.

  • Keep watching.

  • The first sign is that you're not in a committed relationship with him.

  • If he hasn't said the words that, I'm not seeing anyone else, then don't assume he isn't.

  • Chances are, nowadays, if a guy is not in a committed relationship with you then he's probably dating and talking to lots of other women.

  • Just like you should be talking to other guys as well.

  • It doesn't mean you have to be sleeping with a ton of other guys. It means that you should be talking to other guys and keeping your options open.

  • Then of course, once you both declare that you are in a committed relationship, then it becomes exclusive.

  • The second sign is that he won't hang out with you on the weekend.

  • Let me tell you sexy confidence ladies something right now.

  • You do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.

  • I repeat, you do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.

  • If he's only hanging out with you during the week and then he disappears on the weekends, then chances are, he's going out and meeting new girls to fill his dating pipeline.

  • And you are the Tuesday night girl.

  • Don't be that Tuesday night girl.

  • Number three, is he freaks out even if you go near his phone.

  • Let me look it up on Yelp.

  • No!

  • Sketchy dudes are sketchy about their phones because that's where sketchy shit takes place.

  • But, ladies, please, don't be the NSA hacking into his phone to see what he's doing.

  • If you're not in a relationship with the guy, you don't have a right to know what he does with his phone.

  • And if you are in a relationship with a guy, and you can't trust him enough not to go ahead and snoop and go through all his text messages, then it's time to reconsider the relationship.

  • Number four is his answer is always "maybe," and he never really wants to commit to any plans.

  • If he's only saying maybe to you, then he's actively searching for some other girl to say yes to him.

  • And then when she says no to him, he says yes to you.

  • And finally, number five, is that you're always accusing him of seeing other girls.

  • Listen, relationships require trust, and if you constantly don't trust him and keep nagging about him seeing other women, then he's not going to put up with that shit.

  • So the moral of the story is, if you're just talking to the guy in a casual situation...

  • Then you know what?

  • Assume he's seeing other women.

  • If you're not happy with that situation, sit him down, have a conversation that he needs to be committed or you move on.

  • Finally, if you are in a committed relationship, it's going well, and he hasn't given you any reasons not to trust him, then you've got to trust him.

  • And if you enjoyed this video and you have questions like this that always come up in your dating life, I would definitely recommend you check out my Unity program right here where you can ask me any question in our private forum.

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  • Thank you so much for watching, and I'll speak to you soon.

  • Bye bye.

Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence dot com where I help the 21st century woman create a love life that she absolutely loves.

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5 Signs He's Seeing Other Women

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    Lian posted on 2019/12/05
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