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  • The biggest reason people are unhappy right now is because they value somebody else's opinion more than they value their own

  • Have the conversation with the person that's holding you back. The reason most people who are listening right now

  • are not doing that thing is they're worried about the opinion of somebody

  • Am so devastated that you actually let your grandma's point of view your mom your dad your sister your aunt

  • You still let somebody else dictate based on their opinion?

  • Every action you do and it's your life

  • The reason I'm super happy is nobody can tell me nothing my wife mom and daughter could walk into my room right now

  • Tell me on a piece of crap and I would be 100% unfazed that is some gangster emotional structure

  • If you're not feeling it

  • Find new friends. I'm being dead serious about this. This one is real big for me

  • The only way I've seen now that I'm older that you can build confidence is if you surround yourself with people that are optimistic

  • Start trimming your friend group and start adding to your friend group

  • predicated on what you want to be. Like it's unbelievable what happened to me

  • when I got into the Silicon Valley world and started meeting like Mark Zuckerberg

  • And like F Williams and like Travis like it changed my life

  • Everybody in this room needs to cut out as much of the noise and time with people that are negative and

  • spend as much time with people that are positive. The people you spend time with are the ones that dictate your mindset

  • You can limit your time with your mom. You can limit your time with your best friend

  • You could tell your girlfriend or husband to go fuck themselves

  • Yeah, you fucking roll up in your dad your mom your sister and say fuck you. I'm out because you're fucking toxic

  • I'll see you in six years. You can figure out why the fuck I left. You're accepting to be in that relationship

  • If you feel motivated by this conversation or you're intrigued by it add one new winner friend

  • Like, you know what? I mean? I had one new winner friend and cut one loser friend

  • I felt like even when I give it away and I don't speak to them the chatter of them talk like that means it's like

  • That means you value their opinions

  • Yeah. I don't. Yeah

  • Please let this be the video that drills through your head

  • That your life is predicated on when you get real quiet and you can't hear another

  • fucking person's two cents that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with where there are in your life

  • are you really gonna let those eight or nine people dictate your life because you are so fearful of

  • judgment from others that at the end of the day when you're 87, you will not give a fuck about

The biggest reason people are unhappy right now is because they value somebody else's opinion more than they value their own

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#1 LIFE HACK for Motivation & Happiness | A Gary Vaynerchuk Original

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    劉家均 posted on 2018/10/25
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