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Hello friends, welcome back! Do you feel nervous and anxious when speaking on the
phone in English? when somebody calls you in English you're stuck, you're nervous,
because you're not confident speaking on the phone in English? or when you have to
call somebody... be that for work purposes or for personal purposes, you don't know
how to communicate what you want on the phone... Friends there is no need to feel
nervous or anxious talking on the phone in English! In this video lesson I will
teach you how to improve your confidence speaking on the phone in English in two
situations... the first being when you are receiving a call from somebody and the
second being when you have to call somebody to get something done... friends
please note this is not a vocabulary lesson... these tips will help you speak
more confidently on the phone... they will enable you to communicate more
effectively while you are on phone calls and enable you to get what you need to
get done, while you're on the phone....
Friends before we go through these tips, which you can use to improve your
confidence speaking on the phone and enable you to get things done, I would
love to hear from you! Join the discussion in the comments below this
video and tell me do you ever speak on the phone in English? So do you use Skype? do
you use landlines? do you use your mobile phone? Do you use WhatsApp? do you
communicate in English on the phone? tell me in the comments is it for work
purposes...so do you have to talk on the phone for
your job? or is it for personal purposes? maybe you are chatting to friends in
English, maybe you are booking an appointment.. whatever you're doing tell
us in the comments below this video... now friends I do understand that when you're
receiving a phone call from somebody in English, you may be panicking because
your level of English is not high enough... use these tips to calm down and to
communicate better on the phone... friends these tips I'll be sharing with you I've
used, using my second language. the Croatian language, and they work! Be
positive while we're going through these tips, as I know they will help you to
communicate to speak more confidently on the phone... let's begin by looking at the
first situation, that being when somebody calls you... now before you answer the
phone call, so you hear your friend ringing (bring bring) in the background and
you're starting to panic... before you even go to answer the phone, what I want you
to do is to smile :) Okay why do I tell you to smile? Smile and laugh... you want to
answer that phone call on a positive note... as English is your second language
and you're probably nervous and anxious because you're not confident using the
English language, let alone on the phone.. you want to break the ice, but you need
to break the ice with yourself... the best way to do this is to smile :) Smile and
laugh a little bit, so that when you answer that phone call, you answer it
happy... you're happy and you will not sound nervous and
anxious... by smiling when answering that phone call, the other person will notice
from the tone of your voice, they will notice that you sound happy, that you
sound interesting and they will be willing to talk to you... okay so you're
smiling, but before you answer the phone call... but what next you? you still have some
issues in communication... friends while on the phone call don't worry about every
single word... pay attention to key phrases and key topics.... questions that that
person is asking you... many English speakers when speaking on the phone ,they
connect words, they speak very fast and maybe a landline or the connections
simply cuts out... try to pay attention to those words, questions and phrases that
that person is saying to you... now something that I like to do when I'm
talking on the phone, is I like to have a piece of paper on hand and I like to
write down words or key phrases... so some important dot points... why do I like to do
this and I suggest that you do the same as well... because while you are on that telephone
call and you may not understand everything... you're taking notes so you're
organizing your ideas, and towards the end of that phone call you can ask
questions back to that person you're speaking to... remember friends you want to
be able to speak confidently, you want to communicate and you want to get stuff
done over the phone... asking questions back to the speaker is a great way to
make sure that you've fully understood what they're saying and that you're
doing what you need to do on the phone... you're getting that stuff done...
so for example I maybe call my dentist and I don't really understand my dentists
accent or they're speaking.. they are using strange words, but I want to make
an appointment at 12 p.m. tomorrow... and the dentist said bla bla bla 12:00... and
I'm like huh? I'm stuck... but I wrote down 12 o'clock and I will ask a question
back to confirm that I've fully understood what that other person was
saying... so I will ask the dentist, or the other person on the line... I'll say okay
just to confirm is the appointment at 12 p.m.... this way friends by asking
questions back using those dot points that you've written down, you will avoid
miscommunication on the phone and you'll get what you need to get done.. now what
about when you need to call somebody ,and you need to get some information, or you
need to make an appointment or do something? In these situations when
you are calling somebody to get something done, I suggest that you plan
your phone call before... you don't have to plan how your whole phone call... I'm not
talking about planning every single sentence or word you're going to say, but
write down the questions, the information that you need from that speaker.. so for
example, if you're trying to reserve a table at a restaurant...
write down, okay maybe when do you need to go?.. I need to go at 1 p.m. I want to
sit by the window... I want xyz--- whatever you need from that phone call
write those questions down before you even go to make that phone call... also
friends if you're nervous before making that phone call again smile... I know this...
I've said it a few times, but by you smiling maybe laughing a little bit.. tell
yourself a joke in your head before you go to answer or to call somebody in
English, you will portray yourself as being happy and interesting on the phone...
this will enable people to listen to you over the phone, but also give you that
information that you need... now friends, in both situations, be that
if you're calling somebody or if you're receiving a phone call, what I want you
to do while you're speaking on the phone is to open your mouth and speak slowly...
Now why do I say this? English is your second language and when
you're on a phone call, there may be some interference... be that because of the
network... whatever it is... but sometimes I can't even understand
some native speakers on the phone, because of bad signal! this really
frustrates people, these bad network and signal issues... I know it frustrates me
all the time... but even if I'm on the phone with a
native English speaker and we have bad network... bad signal issues... I speak slower
and I speak clearer.. why? because I want to get what I need to get done over the
phone... I want my message to go across... you
should be doing the same... while you're on the phone I suggest that you speak
slower, and you open your mouth, so that you are clearly pronouncing words and so
that the other person can understand you.. also you shouldn't be speaking with a
soft voice.. speak loud! Now when I say speak loud I don't mean shout on the
phone... don't shout while you're in a phone call
but speak loud, open your mouth, pronounce words clearly so that the other person
can understand you... a lot of the time when we are in phone calls there may be other
factors which may hinder your communication... this could be because of
bad network, bad signal and this is really frustrating... but it's even more
frustrating when you're on the phone with somebody and they're speaking
softly and they're not pronouncing words clearly... to overcome this open your
mouth! I know you can do it open your mouth and say words clearly out loud and
don't speak very fast... while you're in that call, you're calling that person
because you want to get something done... by you having prepared before that
information you want to ask, you've already done a lot...
you're already smiled... so you've already came to that call on a positive note but
it's not enough to be positive and to be speaking very fast and using a strong
accent which the other person can't understand... calm down a little bit speak
slower, open your mouth so that you can speak more clearly so that person can
understand... and so that they can help you! Friends I
would like to highlight these tips work... as I use them on a regular basis.. use
these tips, improve your confidence speaking on the phone in English and
avoid miscommunication! Have better and more meaningful phone calls using the
English language... friends I would love to hear from you! Have you used any of these
tips? are you speaking in the phone at the moment and why are you speaking on
the phone in English is it for work purposes... is it for private purposes? join
the discussion in the comments below this video... if you like this video lesson
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