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  • You know what I love?

  • Oh my god!

  • High five, girl!

  • Yes, self-esteem is great, but even more than that I love hanging out with my homies.

  • So, when I go on Facebook and I see that they have all hung out without me, I get sad.

  • Sometimes my feelings of being left out are totally justified.

  • Why wasn't I invited to the family reunion?

  • And sometimes they're not.

  • Why wasn't I invited to your bachelor party?

  • You're not a dude.

  • I get so worried about being like excluded from something or forgotten about that sometimes I try to pre-emptively get myself invited into things.

  • Oh, yeah. I heard about this really cool place in Malibu where you can do Go-karts.

  • Oh my god! That sounds like so much fun!

  • We should do. We should all go together like, as friends and hang out and do that. Let's do it!

  • Why don't we put it on the books right now?

  • Like, I have Tuesday night free, what about you guys?

  • Get out your phones. Look at your schedules. Let's make a plan!

  • But then, I realize how stupid this is because none of my friends are gonna intentionally exclude me from anything.

  • Like, if they don't invite me maybe they just don't think it's my jam or maybe it was a mistake.

  • I know these things can happen, people just forget.

  • 'Cause I forgot 2 days ago.

  • I was throwing a party and my friend heard about it and messaged me and she was like, "Hey, I heard you were having this party and I'm not invited.

  • Totally understand if you don't want me there, but I think you just forgot about me?"

  • And she was right.

  • I totally did and I felt so bad and I apologized and invited her but it kind of change the way I think about it, you know.

  • I was like, oh, now instead of feeling sad and left out when people forget to invite me to things,

  • I'm just going to plan as many activities as possible, so then I'm constantly hanging out with people as much as I can stand them.

  • Is this good advice?

  • I don't know, but it's really working for me right now.

  • I'm Anna Akana.

  • Stay awesome. Gotham....

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  • Currently, I'm listening to "Hidden figures".

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  • The story of how they overcame their struggles is like totes inspiring and empowering for me as a woman.

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  • Yas, yas!

  • That is

  • Yas, girl!

  • Bye, girl!

You know what I love?

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