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hey guys its practical psychology here and after my video on how to tell if a
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girl likes you a lot about a lot of great feedback i decided to make a video
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on 10 psychological ways to get a girl to like you
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first off I want to say that these are ethical and aren't manipulative but will
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in the end make a girl subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you
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more
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so number one have your own life this is like literally the foundation of
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starting a great relationship and will give you the starting base to make her
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like you think of it like this if someone tries to sell you this amazing
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new book with all kinds of secret life formulas that will make you rich happy
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get a six pack in 3 days and become a new world leader in the marketing and
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packaging of the book looks great but then you open it and read it and all it
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says is life is short you don't need these things buy more books for better
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advice when you're trying to get a relationship or make a girl like you and
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you have a boring life this is literally what you're doing
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imagine having amazing life and doing awesome things that you say hey girl i
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really like having you around you want to stick around and that's all it takes
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make your own personal life interesting and girls will flock tip number to have
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an interesting hobby or passion
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here's another super interesting tip that is hard to find elsewhere on the
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internet literally having just one passion will make you see more
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interesting plus it adds respect to tip number one you're starting your own life
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your hobby can be anything that you're passionate about just make sure it's
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true passion and not faked if i said i love chainsaws and carving chainsaw art
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in my free time but i actually didn't the sparkle wouldn't be there in the
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girl won't see it when you are actually passionate about something
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your girl will notice there's something infinitely sexy about a guy with an
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intense passion towards something it could be programming motorcycling
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cooking drawing reading playing an instrument and anything else that suits
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your fancy just put in the time bonus point to be create something in the
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process
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tip number three have great hygiene ok guys number one tip to instantly make a
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girl attracted smell good
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I don't even mean smell amazing you just have to smell decent go take a shower or
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a body soap all over you twice shampoo your hair dry yourself off apply good
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deodorant put clean clothes on in your set no need to douse yourself with half
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a gallon of Axe body spray you just have to smell presentable you can tho by some
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cologne and spray one squirt two squirts max i recommend one on the wrist and one
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near your neckline this is all it takes the smell great and girls fall for great
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smelling guys
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all the time tip number 4 ask her to do things for you so this is definitely a
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secret tip and maybe even a bit manipulative but definitely not anything
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evil or negative just ask her to do something for you
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there's a psychological effect called the Benjamin Franklin effect that goes
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like this you ask a girl to do something for you
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she does it and in the end she subconsciously likes you just a bit more
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you might be asking why though
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well when we do stuff for people our brain thinks since we're doing something
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for them we must like them now Benjamin Franklin uses techniques on his rivals
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and political opponents to get them to like more
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also there's something called the consistency bias after someone has done
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something for you a couple of times they're more likely to do more just
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because they don't want to look inconsistent tip ask for things like
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picking up a pencil for notes in class giving someone a paper or even small
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errands but don't overdo it though where she'll feel like you're using her tip
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number five make her laugh this is a great tip and you may not think you're
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funny but the truth is everyone can be funny if they try you have to put
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yourself in enough situations to get used to the opportunist of telling an
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unfunny joke enough that you have the confidence to tell more jokes around
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people the more you tell the better you will get girls love laughing and the
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more that you can make them laugh the higher up in their social change you
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will seem it proves that you're intellectually strong and humerus which
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is a desirable trait and future mate
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also this will give you the chance to see where her eyes are going whatever
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she laughs to see if she's interested in you at all
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tip number six be her friend there's a big difference between being her friend
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and being friend zone also i want to note it's been proven and totally
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acceptable to be in the friend zone for months at a time and then move in and
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start dating so go the extra mile and do stuff that makes her smile do things
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that other guys wouldn't do stuff like leave little notes in her car centre
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good morning text talking through problems and sympathize with her
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in fact in doing these you're practically half way already dating her
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you just have to tell her that you wanted for the rest of your life in your
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basically set right
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tip number 7 break the touch barrier here's a good subconscious psychological
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hit that works amazingly well in many situations touch your shoulder ask her
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for something and grab it out of her hand or make up some game that requires
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the touch and play with her like rock-paper-scissors come up with a cool
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handshake if you have to the idea is to make her know that you're willing to
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touch her in a non-sexual way because you feel comfortable around her and to
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get a reaction if she seems disgusted or scared
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don't touch her anymore number eight tell her secrets
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telerik secret about you something personal that not very many people know
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this will open the door for trust and as you tell her more things about you she
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will notice that you trust her and in turn she will trust you more
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psychologically we like and trust people who trust us first because we have a
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natural instinct to be wary of new people and not to trust them so when you
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prove that you trust her she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion and i
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recommend telling her secrets that you'd be okay with other people knew just in
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case she tell someone but make sure their personal and make sure they would
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be considered a secret bonus points if they're things that are slightly
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embarrassing something like you have 11 toes or you're voting for Trump should
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do fine tip number 9 give her all of your attention in a world where your
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attention can go anywhere it is one of the most valuable things you can give a
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girl if you want her pay attention to her and not just for a couple minutes
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look her in the eyes when she's talking to you and make mental note of all this
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up she's talking about if you can mention it in later conversations so
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feel special and start to enjoy your presence this works with anyone
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the last tip is to beef up your confidence game i'll be making a video
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soon on some amazing secret tips that you can do each day to boost your
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confidence game this is a lot to do with being self-aware and knowing what makes
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you awkward and insecure and working on yourself and improving this to become
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more secure and confident who you are as a person
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the best general advice I can give you to become more confident and make a girl
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like you is to work out regularly if you're in middle school or high school I
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suggest three days a week
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arms legs and core / cardio now near the end of high school and during college
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you can get into more advanced schedule and supplements and i might go into that
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kind of stuff and topics and future videos thanks for watching guys and
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click the like button if i should make more psychological tip videos i hope
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