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  • BEN FRIED: We're here today to talk to Angela Duckworth, whose

  • book, "Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance"--

  • today is the official publication day, right?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Today is the official publication day.

  • BEN FRIED: Congratulations.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • [APPLAUSE]

  • Thank you.

  • BEN FRIED: And incredibly gracious of her

  • to fit time in at Google with a really, really busy publicity

  • tour, which I was getting exhausted just hearing about it

  • a few minutes ago.

  • So for those of you who aren't familiar with Angela

  • Duckworth's work, I'll try to briefly read a biography.

  • Angela Duckworth is professor of psychology

  • at the University of Pennsylvania

  • and the founder and scientific director of the Character

  • Lab, a nonprofit whose mission is

  • to advance the science and practice of character

  • development.

  • In 2013 Angela was named a MacArthur Fellow in recognition

  • of her research on grit, self-control,

  • and other non-IQ competencies that predict success in life.

  • It's a very impressive resume.

  • Prior to her career in research, Angela

  • founded a summer school for low income children

  • that was profiled as a Harvard Kennedy School case study.

  • She's been a McKinsey management consultant, a math and science

  • teacher in the public schools of New York City, San Francisco,

  • and Philadelphia.

  • She has degrees from Harvard, Oxford,

  • and the University of Pennsylvania

  • in neuroscience and in psychology.

  • Did I mention she's a MacArthur Fellow, 2013 MacArthur Fellow?

  • All right, I'll stop there.

  • And "Grit" is her first book, it says.

  • So welcome again, Angela.

  • Thank you for coming.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you, Ben.

  • Thank you for having me.

  • I'm delighted.

  • Thanks.

  • [APPLAUSE]

  • BEN FRIED: So let's get right into it.

  • If you're not with her work-- the TED talk, the book--

  • I guess, hopefully it's fair for me to summarize the thesis

  • as that the power, as you put it,

  • the power of passion and perseverance

  • are at least as strong indicators and contributors

  • to success or achievement as things like IQ

  • and talent, which are what societally at least

  • we've traditionally focused on.

  • And that resonated enormously for me,

  • because I think at Google we spend

  • a lot of time thinking about talent, IQ, raw talent.

  • It's kind of baked into this crazy hiring process

  • that we have.

  • And which brought me to the first question I had for you,

  • which was, do you think that-- I mean,

  • from what you know about Google-- do you think that we

  • or do you think that organizations in general

  • select for the wrong things in the hiring process?

  • And would organizations be better off

  • if they looked for grit plus fit,

  • as opposed to attempting to measure innate talent?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: You know, I think the interests that we all

  • have in talent-- and it's not just Google, it's me too.

  • I wish I were more talented.

  • Talent's great.

  • And if you could give me five more IQ points, I'd take them.

  • So I don't think it's wrong to think about talent.

  • I don't think it's wrong to think about potential.

  • I do think it's useful to think about what we really mean

  • when we say the word talent.

  • And if you force yourself to write down

  • on a piece of paper in a sentence that

  • ends with a period, talent is, it's really hard

  • to actually fill in.

  • What do I mean?

  • Potential?

  • I mean, we start to use metaphors.

  • Here's my definition of talent, and I

  • think it reveals that I do think it's important.

  • Talent is the rate at which you increase in your skill

  • with effort.

  • Some people are going to increase their skills faster

  • than others.

  • And I think it's legitimate to say

  • those are the quick studies.

  • Those are the talented people.

  • I think it's legitimate for Google to look for them.

  • Why not?

  • Why not try to hire the more talented people?

  • But in my data I find two things.

  • One is that more talented individuals don't always

  • keep showing up.

  • Woody Allen famously once said, "Eighty percent of success

  • in life is just showing up."

  • He was later asked by William Safire of "The New York Times"

  • how he got to the number 80.

  • And Woody Allen, who is not exactly a scientist,

  • said, "Well, you know, I was going to say 70,

  • but it had one extra syllable."

  • BEN FRIED: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Nevertheless, 70, 80.

  • I think his point was is that his experience as a writer,

  • which was the context of the quote, there

  • are many people who could write a great book

  • or who are talented in the sense that when they write,

  • they get better faster, but they'd never

  • finish what they begin.

  • And so what I find in my data is that talent

  • is no guarantee of actually showing up and finishing

  • the things that you start.

  • The second thing is, characteristic

  • of high achievers really in any domain,

  • whether it's Google or outside Google,

  • is this kind of daily discipline of trying to get better.

  • BEN FRIED: Yes.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: In sometimes microscopic,

  • infinitesimally trivial ways.

  • All those little details add up to excellence.

  • And it's not always the people who

  • are the quick studies who are willing to put

  • in those hours and hours of behind the scenes unglamorous

  • work.

  • So sure, Google should hire talented people.

  • But I do believe that you want people

  • who are going to stick with things when they're hard

  • and who are going to daily submit themselves

  • to the Japanese principal of kaizen, continuous improvement.

  • BEN FRIED: So on that subject, continuous improvement,

  • you talk in the book about practice

  • and the difference between-- I think

  • you use the words directed practice

  • versus regular undirected practice.

  • And it reminded me of in running there's a phrase junk

  • miles, which maybe indicate-- I've never actually

  • been a runner, so I can only hypothesize what it means.

  • But I guess it means kind of running that doesn't really

  • contribute to your improved conditioning.

  • And what is the difference between direct practice

  • and undirected practice in this spirit of kaizen

  • and self-improvement?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: So let's keep running as actually

  • the perfect example.

  • So when I started to try to understand

  • the science of achievement beyond bumper sticker

  • wisdom-- what do we really know as a science about experts

  • and how they got that way-- I quickly

  • found myself at the doorstep of Anders Ericsson, who's

  • the world expert on world experts.

  • He studies what experts do that make them

  • different from the rest of us.

  • It's a great job.

  • He goes to the sudoku tournaments

  • and he studies World Cup soccer players.

  • And he refers to it actually as deliberate practice.

  • BEN FRIED: Right.

  • Deliberate practice, yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And he would like

  • to say that deliberate practice is different from anything else

  • that we do in four important ways.

  • And I'm going to come back to running as an example.

  • But the first thing when you're doing truly deliberate practice

  • is that it's extremely intentional.

  • It's problem solving something in particular.

  • Not like I'm going to come into Google

  • and be a better CEO, whatever it is.

  • It's like I'm going to say that the first 15

  • seconds of my presentations are going to be a little sharper.

  • I mean, it's extremely, extremely precise.

  • That's the first thing, a very specific goal

  • that you're working on.

  • And often it's a weakness, not a strength.

  • Second is 100% focus.

  • Or as some coaches would say-- like Pete Carroll

  • at the Seahawks-- practicing with great effort.

  • Third is feedback.

  • Ideally, right away and ideally information rich.

  • And fourth, the kind of refinement that you reflect on

  • and you try the whole thing over again.

  • In fact, these four things are incredibly straightforward.

  • And you might wonder why only world class experts do it.

  • But let's come back to running.

  • So when I heard about this research on deliberate

  • practice, I asked Anders, why is it

  • that I have gone running pretty much every day for years

  • and I'm not a second faster than I ever was?

  • Isn't that evidence that you're wrong,

  • that it's not thousands and thousands of hours of practice?

  • He started asking me questions like, well,

  • when you go out for a run, do you have a goal,

  • like a certain time?

  • Or are you trying to run hills?

  • No, no.

  • I'm taking the same route every time

  • I go out around my neighborhood.

  • And he said, OK well, that's great.

  • What do you do when you're running?

  • I was like, well I listen to NPR and any other podcasts

  • because I'm trying to distract myself.

  • And he said well, that's interesting.

  • Because people who are trying to improve

  • their running are actually concentrating

  • on their running and their strides and their breathing.

  • All right.

  • And he said, so how are you getting feedback

  • on your running?

  • I mean, are you keeping your times?

  • Are you measuring your heart rate?

  • Do you have a coach who's looking at your form?

  • No.

  • No.

  • And no.

  • BEN FRIED: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And then he said, are you

  • going back every time when you run

  • and thinking to yourself, what can I refine here?

  • Before this next repetition what is there

  • that I can do differently?

  • No.

  • And he said, well, then I can tell you why you're not

  • getting any better at running.

  • And that is, those thousands of hours

  • are not thousands of hours of deliberate practice.

  • So I think this idea that we should be getting better

  • at things, we can unpack that a little.

  • It's not just going out and trying hard.

  • It's actually trying hard in those four very specific ways.

  • BEN FRIED: So on the subject of deliberate practice

  • and coaching, I thought it's an interesting question.

  • In the organization, do you have theories

  • about what roles managers can play in helping

  • people develop in the same way?

  • Or do you have opinions on how professional development works

  • in organizations versus how it should work?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: One of the things

  • that's really important to know about human beings

  • is that it's not that we stop growing up when we're 18.

  • And if you look at the etymology of the word parent,

  • the word parent really means to bring forth.

  • So after we leave our own parents who've

  • tried to bring forth our-- we leap

  • into other situations which frankly,

  • are parenting situations.

  • I mean, I had teachers, I had professors.

  • I still do, you know, mentors who, in a very authentic way,

  • are parenting me.

  • All right, now what does it really mean?

  • What does it look like?

  • I think that really, really great leaders

  • do a couple of things.

  • One is they model the character that they

  • want other people to emulate.

  • And there are two schools of thought about leadership.

  • Some people say the leader doesn't really matter.

  • Swap out one, put in the next one.

  • Really culture's going to happen without them.

  • I'm in the other school of thought.

  • I think that's absolutely wrong.

  • Everybody watches the leader.

  • The leader sets the pace for the entire organization.

  • And when the leader is nice to other people--

  • You know, when I go and visit famous people like you,

  • I watch them and I watch how they talk to the people who

  • aren't famous.

  • I watch them when they order their food.

  • Do they look the person in the eye?

  • And all those little things are being watched by all the people

  • who work for you.

  • No pressure.

  • And they're emulating you and especially if they respect you.

  • And that brings me to the next thing that leaders do.

  • I mean, a leader is respected when

  • they provide both the kind of demanding, challenging,

  • it's not good enough, it's still not good enough,

  • I need you to do this differently, bring it

  • back to me again.

  • It's that in combination with support.

  • And it brings me all the way back to the parenting metaphor

  • because that's what great parents do.

  • They're demanding.

  • They're challenging.

  • It's not good enough.

  • I'm occasionally disappointed in you.

  • But at the same time, genuinely care about you.

  • I want you to be successful, and I respect you.

  • BEN FRIED: So on the subject of mentoring and parenting,

  • I thought it was-- I don't know where I read it--

  • but that you share your peer review.

  • When you submit papers, you share the negative peer reviews

  • and grant proposal rejections with the people

  • in your lab and your students.

  • Is that true?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: It is all true.

  • And here's the thing about it.

  • When you interview someone whose-- whatever, they

  • win an award, or you just you read off someone's resume,

  • and by the way, you only usually read the good parts.

  • Like how about the time that you completely screwed up and made

  • this wrong decision?

  • I didn't put that on my resume, so you couldn't read it.

  • But I think a lot of my work is about demystifying things

  • like excellence.

  • People who succeed fail all the time.

  • In fact, I think they fail more than anyone else.

  • That's what makes them so successful,

  • because failure provides an opportunity for information.

  • In academia when you submit an article,

  • even when you're very good, odds are it's going to get rejected.

  • And in my world, rejection comes with a 13 page

  • single spaced review letter about exactly how you suck.

  • Like, I can't believe how badly written this is.

  • Like, oh my god, does this person not

  • know the meta-analysis done in 2000?

  • BEN FRIED: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And I send those letters out as

  • soon as I get them to everybody who's working in my lab,

  • so that they can see all the imperfection that eventually

  • will lead to some kind of achievement.

  • I want them to know the truth as opposed

  • to the shiny, polished myth that I think is easy to fall into.

  • BEN FRIED: Which feeds into the myth of talent.

  • There's some people who are just so good,

  • they appear on stage one day never

  • having thought about what they might say and perform

  • "King Lear" flawlessly or whatever the case may be.

  • Whereas in reality, it was direct practice and failure

  • and so on that got them there.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And again, that person

  • may have been-- so take your favorite actor, Judi Dench, I

  • mean, take whoever you want to think

  • of as somebody who's a paragon of masterful performance.

  • It's not that I'm saying that anybody

  • could have been that person.

  • I'm not saying that we all could have been Einstein.

  • But even Einstein wasn't born knowing anything about physics.

  • Even Judi Dench had to learn how to be an actress.

  • Skills, because we are human and we are not

  • horses or other lower order animals who

  • are born with a lot of stuff hardwired-- horses don't really

  • have to learn how to run.

  • Hours after they're born, they run.

  • Human beings are born knowing nothing.

  • The only thing that we're born knowing is how to learn.

  • And so skills are acquired over a lifetime.

  • Sure, the talented progress faster if they stay with things

  • and if they continue to work at it.

  • BEN FRIED: On the subject of learning,

  • do you think that the educational system is set up

  • to support and recognize grit, perseverance?

  • It seems like the academic cycle is

  • short with immediate feedback.

  • And it's easy, for example, to move on

  • from one subject to another after three or six

  • months of study if things don't go well.

  • Are the standards we've set for academic success

  • hurting our ability to develop grit in people, obviously

  • all of whom could benefit?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Well, if you think

  • about younger kids, the kids who are still in elementary school

  • or middle school and high school,

  • one way in which our system doesn't

  • do a great job of encouraging grit

  • is there's a kind of a narrowing of the focus on what it means

  • to be successful to essentially mean

  • what are your scores on the annual standardized tests

  • of math and reading?

  • That's incredibly narrow.

  • It not only leaves out a lot of things

  • that I care about-- grit, for example-- for something

  • you find meaningful.

  • And I haven't yet met the 16 year-old

  • who finds their standardized test scores

  • a meaningful life goal.

  • It also leaves out the kind of interest

  • where a lot of us probably in this room

  • would say that that's what they really did care about.

  • Their sports team, being on the baseball team,

  • writing for the school paper.

  • The things that kids do outside of the classroom that

  • are unmeasured, that policymakers-- not only are

  • they not measuring and caring about them,

  • these things are getting cut from schools left and right.

  • Then we talk about university education.

  • Well, you do have to have a major in most schools.

  • So that's gritty in the sense that grit

  • means doing something in-depth, as opposed

  • to being scattershot.

  • But I'll tell you a story.

  • I was once on a committee to decide

  • who was going to be elected to Phi Beta Kappa.

  • And as you may recall, this is the honor society

  • that there are people like me, faculty

  • who say OK well, this kid's really

  • extraordinary as a budding academic,

  • and this kid maybe not so.

  • So the first kid gets on Phi Beta Kappa, the second kid--

  • So I remember looking at this one kid's record.

  • And it was very clear to me that it was grit

  • and the passion for this kid was biochemistry.

  • You could see in his transcript that all of his classes

  • were taken in biochem at the med school.

  • Every summer he was doing internships.

  • And even before he was going to graduate,

  • he was going to be a published author, which

  • is a very hard thing to do for any kind

  • of scientific publication.

  • Committee gets to discussion, and people are like,

  • oh you know, I don't really see much humanities here.

  • Oh you know, this isn't a very good grade

  • in his writing class.

  • I was like, look, this kid's going to win the Nobel Prize.

  • OK, I exaggerate.

  • But this kid has a passion.

  • Let's reward that.

  • And I argued hard enough that he did get Phi Beta Kappa.

  • But I think that there is this kind of averaging.

  • People don't care about the average ability

  • that you have across all things.

  • Most of us in life are going to become,

  • if we're lucky, good at something.

  • And it's that one thing that actually

  • matters and not the other things that you didn't invest in.

  • BEN FRIED: Do you have a favorite grit story?

  • I mean, your book is full of great stories

  • of people who demonstrated so many facets of passion

  • and perseverance and interest and commitment over time.

  • Is there a favorite one?

  • Is there a--

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: You know, it's a great job that I have.

  • So like Anders Ericsson, I go around studying experts.

  • And you see it everywhere, by the way.

  • It's not just that you have to go to the Olympics

  • or to a chess tournament.

  • You go into a great restaurant-- and this

  • is a very trivial example, but I think

  • it resonates for me-- you go into a restaurant,

  • you ever had a great waiter or waitress?

  • I mean, they're just considerate.

  • And I was like, that is a pro.

  • That is somebody who loves what they do

  • and who seems to be trying to get better at it,

  • and that is grit just as much as a famous story.

  • I do have a story that I've recently been re-reading,

  • and that is Julia Child and her autobiography.

  • And you may or may not know that Julia Child took

  • until her late 30s to really figure out

  • that she wanted to do anything at all related to food.

  • She grew up in a wealthy family that had a cook.

  • She said she had, and I quote, "Zero interest in the kitchen."

  • When she was a young woman going to college,

  • she thought she might want to be a writer, a novelist.

  • Then World War II happened, so she went to-- I mean,

  • this is not a story of grit so far.

  • She marries Paul Child, and for his job, not for hers,

  • they go to France.

  • And she has a really memorable meal.

  • It was sole meuniere in a little restaurant outside of Paris.

  • And that was the beginning of a journey.

  • Not by the way, an epiphany that she

  • knew that she was going to revolutionize the way Americans

  • cook and introduce them to French cuisine.

  • But one step in a journey where, in the next meal,

  • she noticed that was also different than anything she'd

  • ever eaten.

  • Then there was a bistro they went to.

  • She started wandering around Paris

  • and looking at this beautiful produce and this bread

  • that she had never tasted before.

  • She got more interested.

  • Somebody gave her a cookbook.

  • Her husband gave her her second French cookbook.

  • She found out that there were classes

  • that she could walk to and learn French cooking.

  • What I want to say about these stories of grit

  • is that one, that is accessible.

  • When you actually dig down into the details of how people

  • became great, suddenly it becomes something

  • that you might actually aspire to.

  • And it's never really a snapshot.

  • It's always a movie.

  • And it's a long movie.

  • And you might not want to see all

  • of the scenes that could be edited out to make more drama.

  • But in a very real sense, I think

  • excellence is a long story that has parts that are not

  • suspenseful, parts are mundane.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • It's like practice.

  • It happens every day.

  • You do it all the time, it gets better.

  • So how measurable is grit?

  • I mean, you actually did a bunch of pioneering work

  • to measure it in West Point cadets.

  • But I mean, when we think about talent and IQ

  • and so on, there's a rich, if somewhat

  • colored history in the measurement of intelligence.

  • Is grit equally measurable in your opinion?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I think scientists

  • have a much better grip on how to measure intelligence

  • than they do how to measure grit or so many

  • other things that you could say are under this broad umbrella

  • called character.

  • And we've had these IQ tests really for over a century

  • continually being refined.

  • And in 45 minutes, I can give you your IQ score.

  • Well, in two minutes, I can give you your grit scale score.

  • So what's the difference?

  • The difference is that my questionnaire

  • is completely fakeable.

  • My questionnaire-- I mean really.

  • Like, I'm a hard worker?

  • BEN FRIED: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: It's not hard to think

  • about what the answer is to that if you want a higher score.

  • In an IQ test, you can't really fake it.

  • I mean, you can't say, I'm going to guess C 'cause

  • I know it's the right answer.

  • But I don't really know, but I'm faking.

  • You know, that doesn't work.

  • Second thing is when you're taking an IQ test,

  • there's no subjectivity.

  • There's no judgment.

  • You take the test, you get a score.

  • With the grit scale, if I gave it to you

  • and you said to yourself, hmm, am I hard worker,

  • I can only imagine the people that you

  • would be comparing yourself to.

  • When I talk about finishing whatever I begin on the scale,

  • you're going to compare yourself to your peers, who are all

  • probably extremely gritty.

  • So in addition to faking, there's

  • what in science is called the frame of reference bias.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And that is your standard

  • for comparison can vary.

  • And here's one concrete example.

  • In high performing charter schools like KIPP--

  • these are schools that are in New York,

  • but all over the country-- kids are,

  • like in many other schools, brought to a very high standard

  • of excellence.

  • When kids rate themselves on items like I just read you,

  • their mental frame is different from kids

  • who could be just down the block at a different school that

  • doesn't have those standards.

  • So that distorts the scores to some extent.

  • As a researcher, I know about that.

  • I know how to adjust for that when I run statistics

  • and so forth.

  • I also know that there's error.

  • I know that there's the possibility of faking.

  • What I worry about is employers or schools

  • or government agencies who make the mistake of thinking

  • that you can take a grit scale score

  • and make those high stakes decisions that the grit

  • scale was never designed for.

  • Don't hire with the grit scale.

  • BEN FRIED: No, I'm not proposing--

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • OK, good.

  • BEN FRIED: I'm not proposing that we--

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Didn't want that to be the headline.

  • Didn't think it was going to be.

  • BEN FRIED: But I do wonder.

  • I mean, it seems to me like we've

  • perfected a lot of ways of measuring a bunch of talent

  • in computer science.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Do you want me to tell you my best ideas that

  • haven't been tested yet?

  • BEN FRIED: Well, please.

  • Please.

  • Yes.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: OK, so I have one idea that has been tested.

  • When you look at the resumes of people

  • who want to be Googlers-- which I can also tell you

  • I think that's interesting that you use that term Googler,

  • and I think I know why you do.

  • But that can be for another question.

  • BEN FRIED: I would love to know why we do [INAUDIBLE].

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I'm going to tell you.

  • I'm going to tell you.

  • I think it's actually not trivial.

  • So I'll tell you.

  • But when you look at the resume of somebody who

  • wants to get in here, what I would look for

  • is evidence of grit.

  • I'm not saying that it has to be in exactly this domain

  • or even for the job that that person-- ideally, yes.

  • But sometimes it can be like wow,

  • this kid was on the tennis team for three or four

  • years in college and went from A to B in their accomplishments.

  • Whoo, this kid worked-- you know,

  • I'll tell you about my own husband.

  • This kid worked for Domino's Pizza as a delivery--

  • but they got promoted.

  • That there's progression and there's continuity

  • in a high grit resume.

  • Conversely, don't hire the people

  • who have these dilettante resumes of sort of a little bit

  • here, a little bit there.

  • You know, where is the evidence of passion and perseverance

  • applied to something before they got to my doorstep?

  • So I think you can look for the residue of grit, as it were,

  • in people's resumes.

  • What I don't think you should do is use the grit scale.

  • And also I don't think you can rely on interviews.

  • I am of the opinion that you can interview for charisma.

  • You can interview for social intelligence.

  • You can interview for confidence.

  • You can interview even for chemistry.

  • Like am I going to like to sit next to this person

  • and work with them?

  • But how are you going to interview

  • for that quality of a person where

  • the next day they're going to get up

  • and they're going to be the first into the office

  • or the last-- you know, when you give them the feedback that

  • says this isn't good enough, is that person going to genuinely

  • reflect on that and try to improve?

  • That's really hard to get out of any kind of short interaction.

  • And my best idea, which hasn't been tested,

  • is if there is something that people

  • are going to have to do at Google

  • and its particular obvious to their job, that is really

  • hard, where you can set up a mini grit experiment

  • where you're going to let them perform and learn,

  • get feedback, see whether they take that feedback,

  • see whether they come back for a second try,

  • see whether they come back for a third try,

  • I think that would be fascinating.

  • BEN FRIED: So assessment as opposed to interview.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Exactly.

  • But you know, it's like you're piloting the person.

  • I mean, give them a chance to display their grit,

  • as opposed to trying to guess at it.

  • Do you want me to tell you why I think you use the word Googler?

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • I would love to know why we use Googler.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: So my dad worked

  • for DuPont his whole life.

  • He actually retired with a gold watch.

  • I thought that was just a metaphor.

  • He got one, and it said, "DuPont, better things

  • for better living" on it.

  • He spent his entire adult life there

  • in automotive refinishing products, which

  • was his passion, by the way.

  • And you know, my dad did not talk about working at DuPont.

  • He talked about being a DuPonter.

  • BEN FRIED: Really?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • And people who go to West Point, graduate from West Point,

  • they call themselves West Pointers.

  • Kids who go to KIPP, they're not students, they're Kippsters.

  • At the Seattle Seahawks, you're not just a football player,

  • you're a Seahawk.

  • These are nouns.

  • They're not adjectives.

  • BEN FRIED: Right, right.

  • Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And when people have an extremely strong

  • cultural identity, they're usually

  • able to express that as a noun.

  • You know, I'm a Googler.

  • I'm not working for any other company.

  • There's a way that we do things here.

  • There's a language that we use here.

  • You probably don't use it where you are

  • 'cause you're not a Googler.

  • BEN FRIED: 'Cause you know, we also have an adjective, Googly.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Oh, what does that mean?

  • Just in the spirit of Googleness?

  • BEN FRIED: Well, I've been spending

  • eight years trying to figure out what it means, personally.

  • [AUDIENCE LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [LAUGHS] Yeah!

  • I think you should stick with Googler.

  • Googly sounds like those little eyeballs that go--

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah, yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah, yeah.

  • I mean, that's not--

  • BEN FRIED: Conan O'Brien on stage once made that comment.

  • "Oh, he's so Googly."

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Right?

  • Googly!

  • Yeah, I don't think that's the-- look, let the marketing

  • department decide.

  • But I don't think that's what you're going for.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • BEN FRIED: So sadly, Googly is pretty baked in already.

  • But I'm still not sure what it means.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Well, that does happen with culture too.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: But it probably--

  • but really, these words that you--

  • I don't know how many vocabulary,

  • 'cause I'm not a Googler, so I wouldn't know.

  • But at West Point they have this entire glossary.

  • BEN FRIED: Really?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And there are all these words

  • that you wouldn't know unless you go to West Point.

  • So a plebe, right?

  • A plebe, you know, a plebe and a firstie and a yearling.

  • What are those?

  • And booyah.

  • So at West Point they exclaim booyah,

  • which doesn't have an easy translation

  • but you say it when somebody does something really good.

  • It's like, booyah.

  • And then the whole crowd of cadets that you're in

  • will erupt in these words that you've never

  • heard in the English language.

  • And that's very important, because that's what

  • it means to be a West Pointer.

  • Every company has a culture.

  • And when that culture is really strong,

  • people identify with it in a noun form.

  • They speak the language.

  • They often wear the colors.

  • They follow the rituals.

  • It becomes part of your identity.

  • And when I heard about Googlers, I

  • thought immediately of all these other very strong cultures that

  • are very-- I'm not saying intentional in that one

  • person's writing the handbook-- but it really

  • is part of what makes the company great.

  • BEN FRIED: Now is there is there a connection between that kind

  • of cultural identity and grit?

  • Or non-IQ correlates with success?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I absolutely think so.

  • So you can identify with an organization or a culture

  • that itself is gritty.

  • I'll give you a national example.

  • Country of Finland has actually fewer citizens than New York

  • City has inhabitants.

  • It's small, it's cold.

  • What is there to know about Finland that

  • could be of interest to us?

  • There is a word in Finnish called sisu, which very roughly

  • translates to grit.

  • But quite literally translates to your insides, to your guts.

  • And if you're Finnish, you have the identity of someone

  • who when things are really hard and you've

  • given all you can and you still are falling short,

  • you reach down inside and you use your sisu

  • and you do it anyway.

  • Now it's anatomically impossible that the Finns

  • are walking around with this extra battery pack in them.

  • And if they did have that, why don't the Swedes have that?

  • 'Cause it's not that far and it's Scandinavia.

  • BEN FRIED: The Swedes invaded Finland, I think.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • They had this little bit of rivalry there going back.

  • But you know, I think what's important to learn

  • there is that you have an identity as a Finnish person,

  • and Finnish people do things that are hard.

  • And we have sisu and we prevail.

  • And I think that when you are part

  • of an organization like West Point

  • or on a team like the Seahawks or the Celtics--

  • they're another very gritty team with another very

  • gritty leader-- or you work at a company like Google,

  • that identity is very much part of why you often struggle

  • through when in a different context

  • with a different cultural identity, you might not.

  • BEN FRIED: Now I mean, expanding it to national identities

  • and national cultures is fascinating in itself.

  • Are there particular cultures or immigrant groups

  • that are grittier than others?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I'm sure there are.

  • I'm sure there are.

  • There are lots of countries and cultures in the world.

  • BEN FRIED: I'm not trying to race bait, you

  • by the way, or anything like that.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah, no, no, no.

  • Well, I haven't looked at the question directly.

  • But let me tell you why.

  • First, let me just acknowledge, I

  • mean anybody who wants to say that all cultures are

  • the same, that's naive.

  • I don't have any impulse to say that.

  • But it's really hard to ask the question are the Americans

  • grittier than the French?

  • And are the French less gritty than the Japanese?

  • And here's why.

  • When I give my grit scale to you,

  • you're going to answer it as you would with your comparison

  • group.

  • When I give it in Japan, they're going

  • to answer it with those cultural standards,

  • not only of their company and their family

  • and their neighborhood, but the whole country.

  • I want to tell you about a study that

  • was done of over 60 countries where they asked people to fill

  • out personality questionnaires.

  • They didn't give the grit scale, but they gave

  • a scale of conscientiousness.

  • Related, it's in the family.

  • Dependability, orderliness, I'm punctual, et cetera.

  • So now you have data on dozens of countries around the world.

  • And you can ask the question, which countries

  • are the most conscientious and which ones are the least?

  • Well, I'll tell you what the findings are.

  • The three least gritty areas in the world

  • were Japan-- this is conscientiousness,

  • by the data-- Japan, Korea, and China.

  • Really?

  • Really?

  • They're messy people.

  • They're not dependable.

  • They don't work hard.

  • Really?

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: So the researchers

  • in that study concluded that perhaps these data were being

  • influenced by the very high standard that

  • exists in those countries.

  • BEN FRIED: Right, right.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: That's why it's so, so

  • hard to make these comparisons.

  • Because two things go into your score-- what you really

  • are and then the frame of reference,

  • the standard to which you're holding yourself.

  • BEN FRIED: We should probably try to open up

  • to questions in the room.

  • And on the Dory.

  • I think it's given time.

  • We have about 15, 20 minutes left.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah, I'd love that.

  • BEN FRIED: Does that make sense?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • BEN FRIED: Do we have live questions?

  • AUDIENCE: Can you use peer assessments,

  • especially cross cultural or ethnic boundaries

  • to then get a more baseline grit comparison?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: So the problem with the peer assessments

  • when you're talking about the cross-cultural work

  • in particular, is that who are your peers?

  • Other people who also live in the same culture.

  • So I don't think peer ratings get you out of that.

  • But I do think that-- and you know,

  • I know Google is always trying to hire better-- you know,

  • triangulation is a great strategy.

  • In psychology we call it the principle of aggregation.

  • Whenever you have imperfect data from one source and imperfect

  • data from another source, what you do

  • is you put more and more imperfect data together.

  • The error cancels out, or the unsystematic variance,

  • the error.

  • And you get a stronger signal.

  • So yeah, get a peer rating and a teacher

  • rating and a performance task and look at their resumes.

  • You could even throw the grit scale

  • in if it's only one thing among many.

  • And when you get a consistent signal

  • that everybody thinks this person is gritty,

  • then you actually have a good bet that they are.

  • AUDIENCE: Thank you for coming, first of all.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • AUDIENCE: Also, I saw you have an audio book, so props to you.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I do.

  • AUDIENCE: And also guys, she read it herself.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I did.

  • AUDIENCE: Which is really sweet, yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: It was really fun.

  • AUDIENCE: I'm going to listen to it like sped up anyway, but--

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [LAUGHS] OK!

  • Oh really?

  • Like chipmunk?

  • AUDIENCE: Yeah.

  • Yeah.

  • Three times.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: OK, good.

  • AUDIENCE: No, but so my question is,

  • you talk about this example of the biochem

  • kid who is really, really, really deep into biochem.

  • I would call him pointy, so to speak.

  • He dug into that thing really hard.

  • And you're talking about how you can use grit-- the grit

  • property gets you to do that.

  • So people who can do that.

  • So I had a question that maybe it's

  • outside of the scope of the grit, but my friends and I,

  • we're actually very gritty people.

  • We dig into things very, very deeply.

  • But recently particularly after graduating college,

  • we had trouble figuring out what to actually be gritty into.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Mm, yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: Right?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: What to be gritty about, yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: Right.

  • In college it's very easy.

  • Or even in school, because you know, the metric is there.

  • You get good grades.

  • Maybe you pick a major, you do well in it, fine.

  • But then in the real world, I find

  • that my friends in particular, they have trouble being gritty.

  • Not because they can't be gritty,

  • but because they want to be pointy

  • but they don't know what to pick.

  • And then you can be really pointy in Russian literature

  • and then it turns out you need to make money or something.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [LAUGHS] Yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: You know, no offense.

  • I'm just joking.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: No offense to Russian lit majors.

  • AUDIENCE: Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: If there are any here.

  • AUDIENCE: But yeah.

  • So how do you actually go about deciding

  • what to be pointy in, especially when the cost of picking

  • incorrectly can be high?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I think that one

  • of the things that makes it so hard

  • is that we know the cost is high.

  • It can make us freeze up a little bit.

  • I was at McKinsey, and there are a lot of people at McKinsey

  • who like me, had basically spent their entire life opening

  • doors of opportunity.

  • If I do this internship, I can do anything.

  • And then if I go to McKinsey, anybody will hire me.

  • Well, you get to a certain point in life

  • where you realize that that's not the game anymore.

  • It's not opening doors of opportunity,

  • it's actually walking through.

  • And it's walking through and hearing the other doors

  • slam shut.

  • Now that's even more paralyzing in terms

  • of the anxiety that would produce

  • when you don't have this really strong inner compass.

  • You're like OK, follow my passion?

  • Where do I get one?

  • And here's my advice about that.

  • I do think that really really gritty, passionate people have

  • two sources of motivation.

  • And these are two questions to ask yourself

  • when you're going to ask yourself

  • what to do the rest of your life.

  • One is what are my real interests?

  • And they're still emerging.

  • You know, they develop over years.

  • But for many of you, there were things that you were interested

  • and things that you were less interested in that

  • were kind of boring for you around the time

  • that you were hitting adolescence.

  • So many gritty people will remember

  • that they started liking to do something at 12 or 13.

  • There are exceptions, like Julia Child.

  • But interestingly, her interest at that early adolescent stage

  • was writing.

  • Now if you think about who Julia Child really grew up to be,

  • it was not just a chef, but equally, if not more so,

  • a writer of cookbooks.

  • So first to think back down memory lane

  • to when you were a young teenager.

  • What are the things that you absolutely hated doing?

  • But what are the things that you kind of started

  • wanting to do spontaneously?

  • That's a clue.

  • That's a thread.

  • The second major motivational drive of passion is purpose.

  • You know, importance.

  • It really is almost moral for some people.

  • It's like what is the greater mission that my work serves?

  • And if you think about your values,

  • it can be I really want to help people become their best

  • selves.

  • Or I really care about the environment.

  • I mean, whatever it is that is for you of value

  • that you think is deeply meaningful

  • and isn't going to change.

  • If you can follow that and figure out where

  • it overlaps with interest.

  • You finally mentioned not becoming

  • an impoverished professional Russian literature critic.

  • You know, I don't know how many jobs there are like that.

  • You probably do need a third circle, which is reality

  • and trying to make a living.

  • But at least starting with the first two-- my interests

  • and my purpose or my values.

  • I think that's more helpful than just

  • saying like oh, well, go follow your passion.

  • Because most of us don't know what

  • that even means until we actually find one.

  • AUDIENCE: Cool, thanks.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • BEN FRIED: All right, why don't we go--

  • AUDIENCE: OK, great.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Hi.

  • AUDIENCE: I certainly enjoyed the topic and the presentation.

  • Clearly grit has a lot of value both in professional life

  • and personal life.

  • A different podcast I've been listening to recently-- maybe

  • you heard it on one of your runs--

  • by the "Freakonomics" authors was

  • about the power of quitting, and failing fast

  • we might say in engineering circles.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I think I was on that podcast.

  • AUDIENCE: Oh!

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I can't remember.

  • AUDIENCE: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I don't remember.

  • Maybe.

  • I don't really listen to them afterwards.

  • But go on.

  • Yeah.

  • And I love that podcast.

  • It's a great one.

  • Yeah, yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: So I was trying to figure out how to combine them.

  • Like from a personal life, taking off that last question,

  • you could try a lot of things until you find something

  • you choose as a passion.

  • Do you have any advice in the corporate world

  • of how to combine choosing when to fail

  • and when to stick to it?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: You know, let me use the metaphor of dating.

  • Because I am personally really happy that I did not end up

  • marrying my first boyfriend.

  • And so I quit on him.

  • I mean, every time you break up with someone, you're quitting.

  • And you know, is that a good thing?

  • Is it a bad thing?

  • I think that for me anyway, I was

  • dating to find my life partner.

  • I guess people can date for other reasons.

  • But I was like, oh we're not going to get married, over.

  • And it took a few dates and guys to kind of find the guy

  • that I'm with, that's my husband.

  • But I think it's actually exactly what we

  • do in our careers too.

  • I mean, you're exploring.

  • But there are some people who are exploring with intention.

  • And I was dating to get married.

  • I mean, I wasn't really ever intending to stay

  • dating forever.

  • I think that makes all the difference.

  • So sure, quit.

  • But for me quitting the White House speech writing

  • gig and McKinsey and being a teacher,

  • it was sort of a groping toward something

  • that I wanted to stick with.

  • I was only quitting those things so

  • that I could find something that I would never want to quit.

  • And when I was 32, finally after much exploration,

  • I figured that out, and it was to have the career I have.

  • But it's not a predictable, efficient process.

  • So quitting in the service of not quitting is, I guess,

  • my answer.

  • AUDIENCE: Thank you very much.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • AUDIENCE: Thanks Angela, so much for coming.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • AUDIENCE: This is really great.

  • There's something about grit that

  • seems very intrinsic or natural, almost unlearnable.

  • Do you have any recommendations for how people

  • can increase their grittiness?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: So I want everybody in this room

  • to watch their own language in the next day

  • or so for the word just.

  • Whenever we say, oh, they just have it.

  • Oh, they just are a natural.

  • Or he's just extroverted.

  • How does he do that?

  • He's just kind of a math guy.

  • We use that language, I think, when

  • we can't explain something.

  • I mean, that's when we use the word just.

  • Actually, when Nancy Reagan said "Just don't do it,"

  • or when Nike says "Just Do It," I always

  • find that deeply unhelpful.

  • Could you please tell me how?

  • Or are you just going to--

  • So this idea that when we see someone do something fluently,

  • particularly when we can't do it-- I mean,

  • somebody who dances really well if we can't dance, or plays

  • music really well-- we start to use words like just,

  • and we say things like they're a natural.

  • And I was actually giving a talk.

  • It was the pre-book tour.

  • Today's the first day of book tour.

  • But you know, I gave a talk.

  • And I give talks all the time.

  • I'm sure you do too.

  • And you get practice, you get feedback,

  • you make these little refinements, tiny little ones.

  • Like oh, that fourth slide, I totally

  • have to change the background color.

  • I mean, it's really that trivial.

  • I get off the stage and I'm talking to the person who's

  • handling it.

  • She's like, you are just a natural.

  • And I thought about the irony that I just

  • wrote a book about-- I should say I recently wrote

  • a book instead of I just wrote.

  • I recently wrote a book about the fact

  • that that is such an attractive myth.

  • That's like a seductive myth.

  • And I think the answer is this.

  • We can say that people-- you know,

  • Jerry Seinfeld would say that some people are

  • born to be comedians and some people are not.

  • I think there is a sense in which people

  • are born with different inclinations, things

  • that they find fun to do, things that hold their interest.

  • But if you ask the question of how they eventually

  • became Jerry Seinfeld, if they eventually wrote a book that's

  • halfway decent or they gave a talk that's reasonably fluent,

  • it's not just anything.

  • Except if you want to say it is just hours and hours

  • and hours of iteration with feedback

  • to get better at something which maybe I did just

  • like when I was a little kid.

  • AUDIENCE: My question is what conditions do you--

  • for a child, you're talking about kids--

  • do you set in order to breed grittiness?

  • So to give an example--

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Do you have kids?

  • AUDIENCE: I don't have kids.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: Thinking about them though.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [LAUGHS] OK, good.

  • I recommend them.

  • AUDIENCE: So I'm a Colombian immigrant to the United States.

  • I came here when I was five years old.

  • Eventually graduated West Point.

  • Low income household in New York City-- four

  • of us living in one bedroom.

  • Mom, Dad, sister, et cetera.

  • So I still don't know what conditions

  • were set for me to persevere.

  • 'Cause I could have been easily in that demographic

  • of Hispanics that end up in jail or whatever it is.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: Especially in this city.

  • So what conditions, what makes me different,

  • or people like me different than my peers

  • that I went to high school with that perhaps did not?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Do you have any hypotheses?

  • Do you have any guesses?

  • AUDIENCE: I mean, I think parenting definitely

  • had a lot to do with it as an example

  • of the hard working immigrant parents, et cetera.

  • But then outside of that, in the classroom,

  • it may have been teachers.

  • But at the end of the day, I still had to do the work.

  • And I just-- I don't know.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And you probably

  • see people who grew up in maybe not identical, but such similar

  • circumstances, and they didn't end up anywhere

  • close to where you are.

  • That is itself I think my life's work,

  • is to answer your question.

  • And I only have an incomplete answer.

  • But I will say this.

  • First of all, you did inherit DNA from your mom and dad,

  • and so when you see gritty little kids who

  • have gritty parents, you have to at least pause

  • and acknowledge the fact that half their genes came from mom,

  • half came from dad, they got shuffled up,

  • and in part, we are like our parents because

  • of our shared genetic heritage.

  • At the same time, it's absolutely unequivocal

  • that parents model certain behaviors.

  • It's usually the case-- not always, there are exceptions--

  • but it's usually the case that kids

  • are modeling the work ethic and the passion of their parents.

  • If it's not their parents, often there's

  • another strong role model like a particular teacher who

  • had a big effect, or a coach and so forth.

  • So that's maybe part of the equation.

  • I also think that a lot of grit comes down

  • to these virtuous cycles.

  • You start to find that you have a thing for a certain sport.

  • That becomes a source of pride and success.

  • People begin encouraging you.

  • It's an upward feedback cycle of motivation, effort,

  • and achievement, and it feeds itself.

  • I think there are people who then

  • are on the opposite spiral, which

  • is they get a little down about themselves, they stop trying,

  • they prove themselves right because things don't go well,

  • and they kind of spiral in the opposite direction.

  • And Einstein is quoted-- and I am not sure I can verify this,

  • but somebody at Google can-- as saying

  • that compound interest is what we all really need

  • to understand.

  • It's like, that is the mystery of the universe.

  • And I think this compounding of a little bit of grit,

  • a little bit of effort, a little bit of success,

  • a little more grit, a little more effort, a little

  • more success, if we could understand that compounding,

  • then maybe we could understand why kids like

  • you ended up where you are.

  • But we could also maybe understand why so many other

  • don't.

  • And I would like Google to help me figure that out, by the way.

  • So it would be, yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: Do you need a volunteer?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [LAUGHS] Great.

  • Thank you.

  • BEN FRIED: How are we doing for time?

  • I think we only have til 1:00, right?

  • FEMALE SPEAKER: Five more minutes.

  • BEN FRIED: Five more minutes.

  • And is Angela expected to sign books at the end too?

  • Oh, at the end?

  • OK, all right.

  • So we have five more minutes.

  • Shall we do a question on the Dory?

  • This is somewhat confrontational.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Oh yes.

  • BEN FRIED: I don't mean to be rude.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Oh, that's OK.

  • Yeah, yeah.

  • No, it's good.

  • BEN FRIED: I'll go back.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Wait!

  • BEN FRIED: I'll read it.

  • I'll read it.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Let's do the hard one.

  • Yeah.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah. "There was a study--"

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: I think there was a study, yeah.

  • BEN FRIED: "Of 4,000 UK students published back in February

  • in "The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology"

  • in which grit was not shown to be that predictive

  • of academic success."

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: "Instead intelligence

  • and conscientiousness were key.

  • Do you do any thoughts on that study?"

  • Yes, I do have thoughts on that study.

  • Actually one of the co-authors of that study

  • sent me the report before it was published.

  • And here's what I said to him.

  • So I'll tell you the full study.

  • So there are thousands of British kids,

  • about 16 years old, I think, who are

  • going through the British school system.

  • And there are grit scores on these kids

  • and there are also their standardized math and reading

  • scores on the UK test.

  • BEN FRIED: The A-levels or something?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: It's something like that, I guess.

  • Yeah.

  • Not British enough to know.

  • But it's a standardized achievement test,

  • and we've all taken them so we know what they are.

  • The finding is this.

  • Grit does predict their standardized test scores,

  • but not quite as well as a measure of conscientiousness,

  • which we were already talking about.

  • Dependability, being able to control your impulses,

  • that sort of thing.

  • So yes, grit predicted but maybe not quite as much.

  • And also intelligence was a better predictor in that study.

  • I don't find that all that surprising.

  • I also don't question those findings for one moment.

  • I think they're very real.

  • For me, my complaint is that if you're

  • going to equate your standardized test scores when

  • you're 16 and things that, frankly most 16 year-olds

  • are not invested in-- it's not a meaningful personal goal--

  • if you're going to equate that with success or even

  • with academic achievement, grades for example

  • do not send all the same signal as your test scores.

  • Grades are a better predictor of college persistence

  • than your standardized test scores.

  • So they're not interchangeable.

  • There's information that's carried by grades that's

  • not carried by test scores.

  • There's information carried by your extracurricular activities

  • that's not embedded in your test scores.

  • My complaint is not with the finding itself, but the idea

  • that that is everything that we would need to know

  • about success for those kids.

  • So I guess that's the major thing

  • that I'll say about that study.

  • And I think that it's very important

  • to recognize that grit isn't the only

  • important thing in the world.

  • I study high achievement in challenging circumstances.

  • It's in those circumstances where the goal also

  • matters to you that I think re-emerges

  • as the most reliable predictor and not just

  • a moderately predictive one.

  • BEN FRIED: Shall we go back to a live question?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Hi.

  • Yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: I got a live question.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • AUDIENCE: What if you're applying your amazing grit

  • to the wrong thing?

  • Let's say I wanted to be a film star

  • but I have no grasp of what the world actually

  • wants from a film star.

  • When should I just say I should probably

  • stop trying to do that and apply my grit to something else

  • where I might actually be more successful?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • So for example, what if you're trying to be a film star

  • and you're just disastrously untalented?

  • There's nothing that you could do that you would ever be--

  • AUDIENCE: [INAUDIBLE].

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Right.

  • So that's one way that you could be wrong.

  • The other thing that you could be wrong in

  • is that you're picking an industry that is going

  • to melt like the polar icecaps.

  • The whole industry's going to go away.

  • And you know, that happens these days,

  • in ways that are faster than before.

  • So there's lots of ways that grit can get you into trouble.

  • I think the question is this.

  • You gotta take risks in life.

  • There's no getting away really.

  • Even if you do nothing, you're taking a risk.

  • What grit means is to put your left foot

  • in front of your right foot and then your left foot again

  • and keep heading in a certain direction.

  • And you're absolutely right that you

  • might end up somewhere that you didn't want to be.

  • But you can guarantee yourself that you'll never get anywhere

  • by switching direction every few paces,

  • or not walking forward at all.

  • So yeah, there's absolutely risk in being a paragon of grit.

  • But I'd say there's a guarantee of failure

  • at not being passionate and persevering.

  • BEN FRIED: So a related question to the one

  • he just asked is is grit in a continuum with obsession?

  • Is there a bright line between grit and obsession?

  • Or are they unrelated?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: No, I think there is actually

  • a strong family resemblance between grit and obsession.

  • One of the individuals that I interviewed

  • but I didn't put her into the book,

  • partly because I forgot to push record when I was interviewing

  • her, was Temple Grandin.

  • And I don't know if you know her work--

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah, of course.

  • Yeah.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: But she's famously autistic.

  • And she writes about her autism.

  • And in her words, "A little bit of obsession

  • gets a hell of a lot of work done."

  • BEN FRIED: [LAUGHS]

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: And you know, this idea that you wake up--I

  • mean, I'm obsessive.

  • If you woke me up at 3:00 in the morning, which sometimes just

  • happens to me, like you wake up and you

  • have to go to the bathroom, you know what I'm thinking about?

  • I'm thinking about grit.

  • I'm thinking about why did that person do that?

  • It's so interesting.

  • Like where did they get the--

  • I think about it all the time.

  • I think about it in the shower.

  • I think about it in yoga when I'm

  • supposed to not be thinking about anything,

  • but I'm thinking about grit.

  • Like Savasana pose, you're supposed to be doing nothing

  • and I'm like, I wonder where that, you know, is gonna--

  • It is an obsession.

  • The difference maybe between the way most people think

  • about obsessions and the way gritty people think

  • about obsessions is when they say, I love what I do,

  • they love that they love what they do.

  • There's no sense in which they would

  • trade that life for any other.

  • And that's how I feel about my own work.

  • BEN FRIED: Yeah.

  • I think we have time for one more question.

  • Should we?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Yeah.

  • Hi.

  • AUDIENCE: Hi.

  • So a lot of your examples of people

  • that have shown great grit, like Julia Child, she starts at 30

  • and then becomes this great success,

  • they all seem to be underdogs that then succeed.

  • Do they have to be?

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: You know, you don't have to be an underdog.

  • But I am fascinated by underdog psychology.

  • And I'll say these words to you and I

  • wonder if they'll resonate.

  • There is characteristic of many, many grit paragons

  • that I've studied a sort of I'll show you rebel-- you know,

  • you know what?

  • I don't think you're really cut out to be a programmer.

  • [GROWLS]

  • Just this fear.

  • It's an aggression almost.

  • And I felt that when I was failing my neurobiology class

  • my freshman year of college.

  • And my very well-meaning teaching assistant, my TA

  • said, you really should withdraw from this course

  • because you're going to get an F on your transcript.

  • And you don't know this yet because you're 18, that's

  • not a good thing to have.

  • And I felt a kind of a hot anger.

  • I mean, I marched out of that office

  • to the registrar's office and I not only

  • didn't drop the course, I declared my major

  • in neurobiology that very day.

  • What the hell is that?

  • The I'll show you response I think is fascinating.

  • I don't fully understand it.

  • But it's fascinating that the same exact experience

  • can either lead people to feel like I'm a loser, I give up,

  • or the precisely opposite psychological reaction.

  • And I think it's not necessary, but it's very, very common

  • to paragons of grit.

  • BEN FRIED: I think we're out of time.

  • Hey Angela, thank you so much.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you, Ben.

  • BEN FRIED: That was fascinating and phenomenal.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: [INAUDIBLE] I really enjoyed it.

  • BEN FRIED: Thank you.

  • ANGELA DUCKWORTH: Thank you.

  • [APPLAUSE]

BEN FRIED: We're here today to talk to Angela Duckworth, whose

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