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  • Hi friends I am Niharika and welcome back to a new lesson. Today we are gonna look at

  • five body language tricks that would make anyone instantly like you. Now definitely,

  • It's important that people should like us. It kind of boosts up our confidence. So most

  • of the people that I meet are very much in love with themselves, very much interested

  • in themselves. So how do we capture and hold their attention towards our conversation or

  • towards us without saying a word. Well, its a wonderful body that would help to capture

  • and hold their attention. So we are gonna look at

  • these ways to win friends and to influence people.

  • The first trick that I have for you is, The flooding smile. Please do me a favour, please

  • smile. Definitely It's very important to smile. Now of course this doesn't mean that you keep

  • grinning all day long, keep grinning that would not help. That would not impress people

  • either, because they would think that you do this for everyone. So not that impressive,

  • what you need to do is the moment you greet people, give a very positive warm responsive

  • smile. So the smile should flood over your face and that would stipulate good feelings.

  • It would give a very positive feeling to the opposite person and will show that you are

  • really happy and your'e feeling very glad to meet this person. So do smile, because it works

  • The second trick that I have for you is, Sticky eyes. So what are sticky eyes? Well, eyes

  • are the most important part of our body and here what I mean is don't break eye contact.

  • Now when you are talking to someone pretend that you are completely glued to the conversation.

  • Like your eyes are completely glued to the conversation that you're having with the opposite

  • person. So this brings a little bit of confidence in the opposite person, that Oh yes he's listening

  • to him, to me and he is very interested in what I am saying, so this would make him or

  • her to like you instantly. Now even when the conversation ends, do not just look away.

  • What you need to do is reluctantly or slowly look away from that person that your'e talking

  • to, so which means that don't break your eye contact instantly.

  • The third trick that I have for you is the, Big baby pivot. Now here what I mean is people

  • are very concious that how a person would react to them, so when you meet someone make

  • sure that you turn completely, turn your body, keep your head straight and your tore sell

  • straight, when you are meeting someone. You don't have to just look back and say hello

  • to him, that's not right. So give a completely undivided attention like you would do it for

  • a baby. If a baby crawls up to you and you know is trying to seek attention, of course

  • with open arms and with a straight body, you are gonna give him that undivided attention.

  • So that's what even every adult likes. He will be highly impressed, if you do that,

  • complete attention is what everybody loves.

  • The forth trick that I have for you is, Limit the fidget. So here what I mean is, if you

  • want to appear credible, do not move much, when you are having a conversation with someone,

  • not professional and definitely not appreciated by anybody, so do not move much. Also stop

  • fidgeting with your hands, like stop wiggling or even stop scratching like many people have

  • a habit of scratching, while they are talking or you know scratching in this manner, doesn't

  • look good at all. So please stop that, also even if you are really tempted to look at

  • your phone to see what emails have you received or what messages have you received. Stop multitasking,

  • please give or please be attentive to the conversation that your'e having, this would

  • impress the opposite person.

  • The fifth and the last trick that I have for you is, Use your hands. Hands the most important

  • part of a body, do use them. Well, do not cross your hands, crossing your hands or your

  • arms shows disinterest or boredom. Are you really bored of a conversation? Well, yes

  • then you can cross your hands, just kidding but do use your hands, when you are talking

  • to someone. In fact I read it somewhere that when you use your hands, while you are talking.

  • It helps active speech production, which means it helps you to take those words out, you

  • know your mind is set that you have to use these words or use this vocabulary. So it's

  • the hands that help you to take it out of your mouth, so do use it. Do not stand straight

  • or do not cross your hands, while you are talking to someone.

  • So this brings me to the end of this session. Do use these tips, because

  • our body language definitely speaks out better.

  • People will like you, if you end up using these tricks, if you end up using all your

  • body gestures in a wonderful manner and of course, do subscribe to my channel and you

  • will be posted with lots of videos. I'll be back with a new lesson for you. Till then

  • you take care.

Hi friends I am Niharika and welcome back to a new lesson. Today we are gonna look at

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