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  • Today we are going to end our Essentials series with a message on the topic, "How to Know

  • the Will of God." So let’s turn in our Bibles to Romans chapter 12. A couple of quick questions.

  • Does God still speak to people today? Is He interested in what happens to us as individuals?

  • Does the Lord have a master plan for our lives? Now these are important questions because

  • we all want to know the will of God. They are big things that we wonder about. Like

  • what am I going to do with my life? Who am I going to marry? Why did I lose my hair?

  • Well that is more personal me. But still. Here is the answer. In the broad sense yes.

  • God does still speak to people today. Yes God indeed does have a plan for our lives.

  • Someone asked me the other day do you think it is appropriate for a Christian to say to

  • someone, good luck. And my response is I don’t know if that is a bad thing, but as believers

  • we don’t believe in luck. We don’t believe in mere chance. We believe providence. We

  • believe in God’s will. To bless someone in the name of the Lord is one thing. But

  • to say good luck is another.

  • You see we don’t believe that we are mere victims of chance just groping through life.

  • We believe that God has a purpose for us. And the Bible clearly teaches that as a believer

  • we are to live by faith. I wish I could say to you I always know the will of God in every

  • set of circumstances but I don’t. The will of God is not always easy to discern. And

  • for me personally it is a journey of faith where I read the Word of God. I pray for direction.

  • And then I take what I hope are the appropriate steps in the right direction. Because the

  • Bible says the just shall live by what. By faith. It doesn’t say they will live by

  • feelings.

  • Remember that stupid song from years ago. “Feelings.” Nothing more than feelings.

  • Trying to forget my feelings of love. Feelings. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Feelings. Whoa, whoa, whoa.

  • Feelings here in my heart. Oh stop. You know and a lot of people will live by their feelings

  • and their fluctuating emotions.

  • No. Instead as believers we want to live by what His Word tells us to do. God does speak.

  • The good news is our God does not play hide and seek. He wants to lead you even more than

  • you want to be led. He wants to speak to you even more than you want to be spoken to. You

  • know why? Because you are a friend of God.

  • It was said of Abraham that he was God’s friend. And the Lord said, “Shall I hide

  • from Abraham that which I am about to do.” You might say, “Well that is nice for Abraham,

  • but I don’t have such a privilege.” Oh actually you do. Because Jesus said in John

  • 15:15, “I no longer call you servants because a servant does not know his master’s business.

  • Instead I have called you friend for everything I have learned from My Father I have made

  • known to you.”

  • Do you have any friends? Don’t raise your hand on this. But you know there are certain

  • people that we will all regard as true friends. There are high maintenance friendships. And

  • there are low maintenance ones. Right. I have friends that I have known for years and even

  • I haven’t seen them for a year or longer when I see them it is like we pick off where

  • we last left off. The friendship is strong. I have other friends well that relationship

  • needs more attention. But I have friends that I know that I can trust. A true friend is

  • someone that will keep your confidence. We all know people that if we say to them, “Don’t

  • say to this to anyonethey will say it to a lot of people. And if we say, “Really

  • it is important you don’t tell anyonethey will tell it to as many people as humanly

  • possible. And then we know other people who are friends that we will say, “Please keep

  • this to yourselfand they won’t breathe a word to anyone. You can reveal your heart

  • to a friend. You can tell a secret to a friend. You can trust a friend. You know a friend

  • will speak the truth to you. Even if it is not easy. Because Proverbs says, “Faithful

  • are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” A friend is

  • someone that tells you the truth. God is our friend. He will always tell us the truth.

  • And listen. He wants to reveal His secrets to us. Because in Psalm 25:14 we read, “The

  • secret of the Lord is with them that fear Him.” Yes God wants to speak to us. In fact

  • Jesus said, “You are my sheep, and my sheep hear my voice.” By the way, that is not

  • a compliment. God picked one of the most dimwitted creatures on the face of the earth to compare

  • us to.

  • I read an article in the newspaper the other day that said that they believe now that dolphins

  • are the most intelligent of all animals and some even say maybe we shouldn’t even regard

  • them as animals. Whatever.

  • But I will tell you what. Sheep are one of the dumbest of all animals. Jesus did not

  • say, “You are my dolphins and my dolphins hear my voice.” That would be nice. You

  • are my sheep.

  • Did you know that if you released most animals into the wild they can survive? If you let

  • your dog go or your cat or your bird they will in many cases learn to fend for themselves

  • and make it. But if you release a sheep in the wild it cannot survive. They have no survival

  • skills whatsoever. You release your cat. He is gone. Born free. You know he is loving

  • life. You release your sheep. He is just like what do I do now. Where am I? What is for

  • dinner? Oh no. I am for dinner. That is why there are no wild sheep. They are totally

  • dependent upon the shepherd. Just like we are. So the sheep come to know that when the

  • shepherd speaks they should follow because his plan for them is better than their plan

  • for themselves.

  • So God has revealed His will to us. Now before we get into how to know the will of God in

  • particular situations let’s talk about what the will of God is for everyone. We might

  • call the principles we are about to look at briefly so no-brainers But let me say this.

  • Maybe one of the reasons we don’t know the will of God in particular areas is because

  • we have not applied what is clearly the will of God for all areas. Listen. Obedience to

  • revealed truth guarantees guidance in matters unrevealed. Let me repeat that again. Obedience

  • to revealed truth guarantees guidance in matters unrevealed. So before we stress about what

  • God’s plan is for you and for me as an individual let’s talk about His plan for everyone.

  • Let’s start with the simplest one of all. Number one. God’s will is that you be a

  • believer. Duh. But it is true. That is God’s will. The Scripture says in 1 Timothy 2:4,

  • God’s will is that all would be saved.” Scripture says, “God is not willing that

  • any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” So before we are ever going

  • to know the will of God we have to be a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ as our Savior and

  • our Lord.

  • The Bible is not merely a book filled with principles of truth, success, and prosperity.

  • It is not a book of magic formulas that work for everyone. The way some people teach the

  • Bible you would think they are like little things that we just apply and they always

  • work and we just release these faith principles.

  • But no. Wait a second. The Bible is a book authored by God to tell us how to know God

  • and to walk with God. And these principles found in, though true in a general sense,

  • are really for those that are walking in submission to God.

  • So first you must be a believer.

  • Number two. To live this life God has called us to live we need to be filled with and controlled

  • by the Holy Spirit. We need to be filled with and controlled by the Holy Spirit. Ephesians

  • 5:15 says, “Don’t be foolish. Understand what the will of the Lord is.” All right.

  • What is it? Ok. Here it is. “Don’t be drunk with wine, which leads to debauchery.

  • Instead be filled with the Spirit. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual

  • songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord always giving thanks to God the Father

  • for everything.”

  • But what does that mean to be filled with the Spirit. It means to be controlled by the

  • Spirit. The word filled speaks of permeation. It is used to describe salt permeating meat

  • to preserve it. The word filled also is used to describe wind filling a sail. And also

  • the original emphasis in the Greek would be constantly be filled. And finally it is a

  • command.

  • So put it all together. God is saying, “I command you to constantly be filled and controlled

  • by the Holy Spirit. Let His wind fill your sail. Let His power permeate your life. Be

  • filled with the Spirit.” And how is that expressed. It is expressed with praise and

  • worship to God. Singing and making music in my heart to the Lord. Giving thanks to God

  • the Father for everything.

  • That brings me principle number three. You are to have an attitude of gratitude. You

  • are to have an attitude of gratitude. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, “In everything give thanks, for

  • this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” This is simply the attitude that recognizes

  • that God is in control of all circumstances that surround your life. He is leading you

  • both to still waters and through stormy seas. It is all a part of the process of making

  • us more like Jesus.

  • Number four. It is the will of God that we live a pure life. That we live a pure life.

  • You don’t have to pray about this. It is clearly stated in Scripture. 1 Thessalonians

  • 4:3 says, “This is the will of God, even your sanctification that is that you abstain

  • from sexual immorality.” The word sanctification speaks of holiness and consecration and dedication

  • to God. Effectively this verse is saying look if you are a single person remain sexually

  • pure. No sexual relations with anyone until you are married. And once you are married

  • be faithful to your spouse for all of your life. That is the will of God.

  • Ok. So having established in a broad sense some of these principles I have clearly defined

  • as the will of God for everyone what about particular situations. Is it ok to go to God

  • and say, “Lord I need Your direction in my life.” Answer. Absolutely. In fact we

  • are told over in the book of James 1:5–6, “If you need wisdom, if you want to know

  • what God wants you to do, ask Him and He will gladly tell you. He will not resent your asking

  • but when you ask Him be ready to receive an answer.” So we should ask God for His wisdom.

  • All right. Now having established this, let’s look at our text together. Romans chapter

  • 12. And we are going to read verses 1 and 2. Very familiar verses. Verses that many

  • have committed to memory that really tell us how to know God’s will. This is what

  • we might define as a conditional promise. The promise is you will know the will of God.

  • The conditions are as follow. “I beseech you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of

  • God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which

  • is your reasonable service. Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing

  • of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”

  • Ok. That is the part we want to know. I want to know the good, acceptable, and perfect

  • will of God. But what do I need to do? Well according to Paul I have to present myself

  • to God. I want you to notice that he begins by saying, “I beseech you therefore.”

  • Whenever you read the word therefore in the Bible find out what it is there for. It is

  • always drawing upon what has previously been said. And in the first eleven chapters of

  • Romans Paul is talking about the fact that we are all separated from the Lord from sin.

  • There is nothing we could do to right our situation through our own strength. But God

  • demonstrated His love toward us in sending Christ to die for us and forgive us of all

  • sin. So in light of this, therefore, considering all that God has done for you, Paul says,

  • here is what you ought to do. Present yourself to Him as a living sacrifice. God is not asking

  • you a favor. He is saying as your Master, your Owner, your Father, “I command you

  • to give yourself to Me.”

  • Another translation of this verse says, “Here is what you need to do. Take your everyday,

  • ordinary lifeyour sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around lifeand place it before

  • God as an offering.” An offering. You are not being forced to do this. You don’t have

  • to do this. The language that Paul uses is I urge you. Beseech. It means I plead with

  • you. I am appealing to you. You could even translate it I beg of you brothers. Here is

  • what you ought to do. In light of all that God has done for you present yourselves to

  • Him as an offering.

  • Offerings are not taken. They are given. When we receive an offering we don’t reach into