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  • Hi!, I' m Bruce Muzik and I am a relationship coach.

  • If you're watching this video I assume you're facing some kind of

  • challenge in your relationship that you're not sure how to solve

  • or you're looking to take your relationship to the next level

  • and you feel that getting some coaching from a relationship

  • expert might be useful to you. So, over the next couple of minutes

  • I'm going to answer all of your questions about relationship coaching so that you are

  • empowered and informed

  • to make a choice about relationship coaching that is right for you.

  • Every now and then we all face challenges and problems in our

  • relationship that are more than just

  • bumps on the road of your relationship journey.

  • They are more like roadblocks that bring our relationship screeching to a halt

  • and this is when relationship coaching can be really useful.

  • When you need someone to work one-on-one with you, someone who can

  • see the blind spots that you can't see

  • and help you work through them to resolution so that you can get back on

  • the road and on your journey of loving and living life together.

  • So, you may be wondering who relationship coaching is for

  • and the kind of people that come to relationship coaching.

  • Well, usually when my clients come to me for a relationship coaching they're

  • experiencing any of the following symptoms in their relationship:

  • They're very often experiencing power struggle issues

  • Issues associated with that stage of relationship that comes after the

  • romance has worn off,

  • after the feeling of being head-over-heels in love fades away,

  • we enter into a stage relationship known as the "power struggle" stage...

  • where you end up fighting for your independence and autonomy in the relationship.

  • If you think falling in love as a process of merging together on coming

  • together as one the power struggle stage is the stage

  • where you reclaim your independence and autonomy again.

  • So, often couples in the stage complain of things like

  • fuzzy communication or feeling of constant anxiety and tension between the two of you

  • or constant fighting or arguing or perhaps having trouble in setting

  • boundaries of feeling like you've just lost your sense of who you are,

  • you've lost your self inside your relationship.

  • Very often, couple who come to me with intimacy issues and

  • issues of not feeling connected or not getting their needs met

  • or perhaps you feel like your partner just doesn't see you;

  • just doesn't meet you face to face soul to soul head on and you want to figure that out.

  • Other times people come to me with issues of broken trust or betrayal;

  • for example, infidelity

  • and then other times people come to me when the're preparing for marriage

  • and they want to make sure that they're prepared for what lies ahead

  • or they're thinking of getting married and I want to make sure that

  • this is the right relationship for them.

  • Whatever your situation is

  • I can assure you it's not unique and you're not alone.

  • There's a part that has been proven for any of the relationship issues that

  • you're currently dealing with in your relationship

  • and that's what I'm here to help you find.

  • Now you may be wondering, how relationship coaching actually works?

  • Well, the way I work is over the telephone

  • and this is a couple of hidden benefits for you: Firstly you don't have to jump

  • in airplane to come visit me here in the Dominican Republic.

  • You can be on your relationship coaching call with me from the privacy of

  • your own homes. You can choose a space that is comfortable for you to be in,

  • where you know you're not going to be disturbed.

  • You don't have to drive anywhere so that saves you time

  • and if you and your partner are in different sides of the planet;

  • perhaps, one of you travels for work.

  • The two if you can still dial into coaching call even if you're on the opposite sides

  • of the world. In case you're wondering phone coaching is just as effective as

  • face to face coaching. I noticed absolutely no difference since I shifted

  • from coaching face to face to coaching over the phone.

  • The service I use for our private relationship coaching calls

  • is a US base conference call company. So, your gonna get a US number to dial into.

  • If you're outside the USA you can dial in for free using Skype

  • or if you are using Skype in credit you can dial in for something like 1 cent a minute.

  • It's really affordable to dial this line it's completely confidential and private.

  • If you choose to, we can also record your calls if you like to use that you

  • can listen to them later and keep it for future reference.

  • Now relationship coaching

  • is completely customized to where the two of you are as a couple and what you need.

  • During our initial call, what we're gonna do is: look at where you are right now,

  • what are the challenges you face, where you wanna go

  • and what are the obstacles in the way of you getting to where you wanna go.

  • It's my job to make sure that you get to where you wanna go

  • and it's your job to make sure that you show up to every call with an

  • open mind and with a willingness to grow. So, you may be wondering "Bruce

  • how many coaching sessions will we need?" Well, it's really hard to say untill we have

  • actually spoken with you. Some couples

  • stay for two or three coaching sessions others stay for two or three years

  • because they enjoy the structure of continually growing and evolving

  • their relationship in growing closer and closer together.

  • In our initial session though I'll give you a recommendation,

  • based on my experience on what I think would be a good number of sessions to

  • get you through whatever you're dealing with.

  • A question I get asked a lot in my practice is "Bruce what's the difference between

  • relationship therapy and the thing that you do, called relationship coaching?"

  • Well, relationship therapy is focused on the past

  • and works purely on a psychological level; where as, a relationship coaching

  • is focused on what's going on in a relationship in the present

  • and where you wanna go in the future. It works so effectively because rather than

  • trying to fix the past

  • (which we can't change anyway) you get practical strategies that you can apply

  • in your relationship right away

  • to get your emotional needs met, to navigate

  • through conflict, through to the other side to get wherever it is you tell me

  • you wanna go. Now, if you haven't been exposed to any of my work before

  • I would'nt be surprised if you're wondering;

  • "Bruce what kind of qualifications do you have to be a relationship coach?"

  • so let me put your mind at rest I'm a qualified relationship coach

  • from RCI (Relationship Coaching Institute), which is the largest

  • relationship coach training company in the world.

  • I've been passionately coaching people for well over 10 years

  • and work with thousands of people in my private coaching practice

  • and in my seminars all around the world but when it comes down to it

  • what has my coaching clients keep coming back is that they're actually getting the

  • results that they want.

  • So, that you can get to know me a little bit more, I think it might be apt to let

  • you in on some of the beliefs and principles that I hold dear

  • in my relationship coaching practice. The first one I like to share with you is that

  • I believe that relationships are the greatest

  • training ground for personal growth. They're like the greatest personal

  • development seminar ever created if you consciously choose to use them that way.

  • They can also be one of the most painful experiences you ever move through,

  • if you're unconscious and you and consciously creating your relationship.

  • So, one of the first things we'll do together in our sessions is

  • begin to look at your relationship from the perspective

  • of an emotional and psychological training ground for you.

  • The second principle that I hold dear in my coaching practices is that,

  • fighting in a relationship or conflict in relationships is completely normal,

  • When you learn how to fight fair and fight for your relationship

  • (rather than fighting each other),

  • you can use conflict as a vehicle for your own personal growth

  • and move through it that much faster.

  • The third principle that I really hold dear is that anything that

  • isn't love is a misunderstanding and what that means is that,

  • behind every action you or your partner make is a positive intention

  • and when you can discover and expose that positive intention, conflict just dissolves.

  • I firmly believe that there are no bad people in a relationship.

  • They're just people with outdated strategies, for getting

  • their needs met and that's what we do in relationship coaching,

  • we help you create positive strategies that produce the results you want to get

  • your needs met, to move

  • through conflict and to create a lifetime of love together. By now I'm hoping

  • that you have most of your questions answered.

  • If you don't I'd be happy to answer any on our first call together.

  • So, you're probably wondering;

  • Bruce how much does relationship coaching actually cost?

  • Well, I have three different relationship coaching packages:

  • silver, gold and platinum (you will be able to see them now appearing below this video).

  • All you need do is choose a package that works for you.

  • Obviously the longer time you commit to, the less you pay per hour

  • and then click on the buy now button, beneath that package

  • and we'll schedule a time to get out of it call together. Now unlike some less

  • scrupulous relationship coaches,

  • I don't want to work with you, unless you're committed to being a success story.

  • I only want success stories that way I get to keep a high reputation as a top relationship coach.

  • We get have more fun together and you get to have the results you want.

  • My relationship coaching practice is by application only.

  • Here's how you apply for a relationship coaching

  • step-by-step: Once you have chosen one of the three packages below that works for you best,

  • click on the buy now button below that package and you'll be taken to

  • a payment page. You enter your payment details and then I'll send you an email,

  • where we'll get to schedule our initial consultation. During that consultation

  • it's less of an interview and more of an assessment of where you at your

  • relationship what you're committed to, where you're going and whether or not I feel

  • like I can help you and you feel like I'm and match.

  • Whether or not we end up choosing to

  • work together, I'm committed that you get

  • tons of value out of our first call so you really have nothing to lose

  • if we choose to work together great will schedule our first coaching call right there and then.

  • If we decide not to work together I'll refund all your money

  • immediately, no hard feelings no questions asked and you are still

  • getting value from the call so, you really have nothing to lose.

  • By now I'm hoping I've answered all of your

  • most important questions and you have a good sense of

  • what relationship coaching is, how it works and how it can benefit you.

  • If you still have any questions please feel free to bring them oo our initial

  • call and I'll answer them all.

  • All there is to do next is to choose a package that works best for you,

  • click on the buy now button below that package and I'll send you an email

  • we'll schedule our initial call out I'll talk to you then. I'm Bruce Muzik

  • thank you so much for taking the time to watch this video and for giving me your attention.

  • I'm really looking forward to working with you,

  • get to know you and help you create a relationship

  • that's filled with all the love you ever dreamed of. So go and apply now

  • I look forward to talking to you soon, bye!

Hi!, I' m Bruce Muzik and I am a relationship coach.

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