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  • - One quick thing, though.

  • Do I have your consent to play with you?

  • (grunts)

  • - Yes.

  • - And do you know what your safe word is?

  • - Mercy.

  • - Josh Groban.

  • - John Stamos.

  • - Denzel!

  • - Why, does that hurt?

  • - It doesn't hurt, I just don't like it.

  • - We haven't even gotten to the actual contact.

  • (electronic dance music)

  • - I don't know anything about BDSM,

  • except I assume it's just a lot of hitting each other?

  • - I always skip past it on Pornhub,

  • which I don't go to often, but--

  • - Wait wait wait, hold up!

  • - I picture it as like a guy with a zipper

  • that goes over his face.

  • - Yeah, I associate it with weird porn stuff.

  • - I see you squeezin' them cheeks together!

  • (grunts)

  • - The whole thing with BDSM is that it's about consent.

  • The agreement that two people have made

  • that their both enjoying and getting the most pleasure

  • out of the experience.

  • (screaming)

  • - This is your job.

  • - Yes. - This is your profession.

  • - It is.

  • - What does BDSM stand for?

  • - Well, BDSM is bondage, discipline,

  • - Shut up!

  • - submission, domination, and sadomasochism.

  • - Aww, fuck.

  • (laughs)

  • - Which one are you? (laughs)

  • - I guess we're gonna find out.

  • - We're gonna find out really fast,

  • but I'm supposed to be the dom today.

  • - Okay.

  • - So, you're gonna have to kind of follow.

  • Do you have bad knees or any physical problems?

  • - Not yet.

  • What are misconceptions you think people have

  • about BDSM in general?

  • - My assumption is that it's usually during sex, right?

  • - So the line we don't cross with professional BDSM is

  • we don't have sex.

  • - What about "Fifty Shades of Grey"?

  • - I read the first book of "Fifty Shades of Grey".

  • Scandalized!

  • - Well, I read it with my wife.

  • - But it's very popular.

  • - So many people in America got turned on

  • by the same gross smut.

  • - Do you like it?

  • Is it accurate?

  • - What I love is that it's brought

  • the fetish/BDSM/kink community up close and personal to the

  • what we call "vanilla" general public.

  • - And we are going to read excerpts from it.

  • - "I turn, and he's regarding me intently."

  • - "He reaches between my legs and pulls on the blue string."

  • What?

  • "And gently takes my tampon out

  • "and tosses it into the nearby toilet."

  • Holy fuck!

  • - In a professional setting, the limits of BDSM would be

  • no exchange of bodily fluids,

  • no penetration, no sex.

  • - "As he makes his way around me, he flicks again,

  • "this time hitting my nipple.

  • "I throw my head back as my nerve endings sing."

  • - "'Okay, and what do I get out of this?'

  • "He shrugs and looks almost apologetic.

  • "'Me.'"

  • - BDSM is not just about pain.

  • It actually can be very connected and emotional and freeing.

  • - "'Oh, geez!' I can feel myself quicken."

  • - "'That's right, baby!'"

  • - "he rasps as he grinds into me."

  • (grunts)

  • - In your personal life, if you're practicing BDSM,

  • - Sure. - If it's consensual with you

  • and your partner, anything goes.

  • - I'm ready to be dominated in a way that is both respectful

  • but also very dominate-y.

  • - [Allison] "'The feathery thing has me intrigued.'

  • "I touch it, hesitantly.'"

  • - The feather can be nice for the sensation play

  • to get the skin all activated.

  • - Here we go! (Gabby screams)

  • Right in the pits! - Okay, hold on!

  • - Yeah. - How's that?

  • - Feels good.

  • - Ulch ulch ulch...

  • - This feels weird.

  • - [Zach] What does the blindfolding add?

  • - Well, if you're blindfolded, you don't know what's coming.

  • - So tight.

  • I can't see anything.

  • - I'm ready to sleep on an airplane.

  • - Don't talk!

  • - I don't even need to see you to dominate you.

  • Bam!

  • - And it heightens your sensitivity.

  • You're waiting for something to happen,

  • and when it happens, it's that much more intense.

  • (screams) (laughs)

  • - It's very freeing to just let go,

  • let someone else take over.

  • Handcuffs can do that for you.

  • - Here we go!

  • You're in trouble.

  • - It's like a traffic stop.

  • (rips Velcro) - Huh? What?

  • - This isn't fun, it just seems like work.

  • - You definitely know you're in the submissive role.

  • You definitely know that someone else is in charge.

  • (flogger cracks) - Oh, god.

  • - Now what?

  • Now what?

  • - "It's suede and like a small cat o' nine tails

  • "but bushier.

  • "It's called a flogger."

  • (flogger cracks) - Ah!

  • (flogger cracks) - Ow!

  • (laughing) Eugene!

  • - Quinta, I don't think you understand the concept!

  • - Give me a boner with pain, Ned!

  • (flogger crack) - Oh, f--

  • - The flogging's great if it's not on the tummy.

  • (flogger cracks) - Ow!

  • (flogger cracks) - Oh!

  • - "Swear to me!"

  • - I think in the book it was on the tummy,

  • which doesn't feel very good.

  • (flogger cracking) - Oh, god!

  • God!

  • - Put your butt up, bitch!

  • (flogger cracks) Bam!

  • - I guess it's okay.

  • (flogger cracking) - God, Ned!

  • - That's my knee!

  • - What? That's a sexy place!

  • (flogger cracking) - Move to another area! God!

  • (flogger cracks)

  • - It's not terrible.

  • - I kinda like it.

  • - Can I do it harder?

  • - Yeah.

  • - Do you want it harder?

  • - Eugene. - I'm sorry. (laughs)

  • - I'm not turned on.

  • I'm not aroused.

  • - [Zach] What is the purpose of this?

  • - A lot of people love the feeling

  • of rope being pulled across their skin.

  • - I'm gonna tie your wrist.

  • - Yeah! Tie it!

  • - Shh! - Tighter!

  • - So I'm getting spanked now. - Mmm-hmm.

  • - Is there a difference in paddle types?

  • - Well, yes.

  • When you're learning to spank someone,

  • or you're going to be spanked for the first time,

  • you wanna go with an over the knee hand spanking.

  • - Are you ready?

  • - Yes! - Do you feel safe?

  • - I feel safe. - You shouldn't!

  • - Shu-pow! - Spank it.

  • - Whap! - Harder.

  • - Whap! - Harder.

  • - Uh-oh, pancakes on your butt.

  • - Oh no-- Ow! - Ooh!

  • - Okay.