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  • High School Dating Advice: How to Turn a Friend into Your Girlfriend

  • Hey guys. My name is Shallon and I'm here to help you with all the questions you might

  • have about love, lust, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter

  • @downtownshallon or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com. Boys we all know

  • this, being in the friend zone sucks. It's the worst when you have a crush on one of

  • your female friends and you just don't know how to get her to see you as more than a buddy.

  • I'll help you. Number one; don't talk to her about other guys. If she is having relationship

  • drama or whatever, let her go to her girlfriends. You're a man and if you start talking to her

  • all about her relationship problems she's going to see you as a therapist and not a

  • potential boyfriend. Number two; be busy. Lot of guys think that the more available

  • they are the more a girl is going to like them and they might like you but not in the

  • way you're hoping. She won't respect you because no girl is really attracted to a guy who's

  • at her beckon call. Also, and this is the biggest one, ask her on a proper date. I can't

  • tell you how many guy friends I secretly have the hots for but I'm not going to make the

  • first move. That's a man's job. It doesn't have to be some huge, grandiose gesture with

  • you holding a stereo on her front lawn. You can simple say, ""Hey Jules, do you want to

  • go to dinner tonight? I'd like to take you out"". Suddenly she's going to start to look

  • at you as more than just one of the dudes and as a potential boyfriend. And if she says

  • no and gets creeped out, hey there's your answer and you won't waste anymore time pining

  • about her.

High School Dating Advice: How to Turn a Friend into Your Girlfriend

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