Name: Quiz: Is it Lust or Love? (self test)
Uploaded: 2025-07-23T18:55:40.000Z
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Hey Psych2Goers, so question, have you seen that clip from the married at first sight reunion where someone basically says, I was in love with the idea of her, but I never actually knew her?

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Yeah, that hit a little too close, didn't it?

We text all day, but struggle to say what we really feel.

We hook up first, then wonder if it means something.

And sometimes we end up confusing heat for depth and loneliness for love.

If you're not sure what this thing you're feeling is, whether it's lust, love, or some limbo in between, this quiz is for you.

And maybe, just maybe, to help you hear yourself more clearly than before.

You'll get 10 simple but revealing questions, each one paints a real life moment, and then pick the answer that feels most like you, right now.

You might feel called out, and that's okay.

One, I feel this rush, my chest tightens, I want to kiss them or touch them.

Two, I replay our flirty combos and laugh at their jokes again in my head.

Three, I wonder how they're doing and hope they're okay.

Or four, I think about how we fit together, not just today, but long term.

One, I panic a little, like, did I do something wrong?

Two, I get annoyed, maybe they're losing interest.

Three, I feel a bit anxious, but I try to respect their space.

One, I want to break the silence with something physical.

Three, it's kind of nice, like being wrapped in a soft blanket.

Like we're still communicating just without words.

Two, I try to make a joke or change the subject.

Three, I reach out even if I don't know what to say.

Four, I feel their pain and I want to hold space for it.

Imagine a future without sex in this connection.

Two, I'd miss it, but maybe we'd still be fun.

Three, we'd still have deep talks, inside jokes, late night walks.

Four, honestly, I still want them in my life.

One, I compliment how hot they look while doing it.

Two, I feel proud, but mostly just want to celebrate with them.

Three, I feel genuinely happy for them, even if I'm not involved.

What scares you most in this relationship?

One, hunger, playfulness, maybe jealousy.

Two, hanging out, memes, late night cravings.

And question 10, deep down, this connection feels.

Add your points, one to four per question.

If you scored 10 to 17, could be lust or obsession.

You're drawn to this person, hard, like gravity.

But when you sit still, when the noise settles, there's not much to hold on to.

Dopamine hits, adrenaline, the thrill of what if.

This could be limerence, a state of obsessive infatuation driven by reward seeking, not mutual love.

It feels urgent, but it's not the same as emotional closeness.

You're not broken, you're just hungry for connection, for meaning, for more.

So try this, journal, what do I really want from this person?

Slow it down, skip the next flirt, ask a deeper question instead.

Notice how your body reacts when they're near, and whether your heart feels safe too.

If you scored 18 to 26 points, situationship or emotional limbo.

And yet something always feels missing, like you're reaching but not quite touching.

This isn't just about them, it's about how your emotional needs are meeting your current reality.

The space often aligns with ambivalent or anxious attachment.

You're craving connection but afraid to be too vulnerable.

Ask, if this person couldn't give me anything physical, would I still feel fulfilled?

If you scored 27 to 34 points, it's growing love.

This is something real, not perfect, not always stable, but real.

You're starting to understand them beyond the surface, and maybe you're letting them see you too.

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Quiz: Is it Lust or Love? (self test)

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