I want a cheeseburger.

This is a special soup called pho.

You told me not to say that word.

It is delicious.

This is the food of your people.

Can I get you anything else?

Actually, we're just trying to teach our daughter about your country.

And as I'm saying that, I'm hoping you're from Vietnam.

I was born there.

So was Lily.

Oh, it's a beautiful country.

My family still lives there.

I hate Vietnam.

Lily, honey, we don't hate.

I hate Vietnam.

OK, um, we need just a second.

Lily, that was rude.

I want to go home.

No, it's important that you celebrate the culture of your ancestors.

You are Vietnamese.

No, I'm not.

I'm gay.

I'm gay.

Honey, no, you're not gay.

You are just confused.

Oh, my god, what is wrong with me?

It's like I'm, oh, please, we have tons of lesbian friends.

Odd that you would reference our friends and not us.

I know. I know. - Also gay.

We should just go.

No, nobody's going anywhere until she finishes the whole soup.

No, Gloria, it's fine.

No, no, no, it's not fine. - We don't wanna push her.

That's the problem with this country.

Nobody cares where they come from.

They just want cheeseburgers and prep school, and they have forgotten about Colombia.

OK, I can't help but feel that maybe you're bringing something to the table that's possibly not at all about Lily.

I think you're right.

It's just that I feel like I'm losing my children to America.

They're just going to grow up and become boring old white people.

Most of our friends are white, actually.

OK, can everybody just calm down and go back to their own conversations?

Just... thank you.

Hey, hey, what's going on with you?

Manny has forgotten most of his Spanish, and Joe, I'm sure he's not even going to learn it.

I know this is silly, but I just don't like feeling like I'm so different from the rest of my family.

Oh, honey.

It feels so lonely, yes.

Oh, wait, just a second.

Lily, is that why you want to be gay, to be more like your daddies?

Oh, honey, no, the three of us are a family, even though we come from different places.

You know, you were born in Vietnam, and I grew up in a city.

And even though he never talks about it, your daddy grew up on a farm.

The point is, is that we're a family because we love each other.

OK.

And you know what?

You just caused a scene in the restaurant, and you can't get any more like your daddies than that.

Maybe I'll just take Manny and Joe to Colombia this summer.

I think that's a great idea.

I really think that keeping in touch with their heritage only enriches our culture.

Absolutely.

I think we would all be better off if people would go back to where they came from.

I... - I'll pull the car around.

Yes.