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  • Oprah Winfrey once said, "Don't get confused between what people say you are and who you know you are."

  • How well do you know yourself?

  • If you clicked on this video, you probably want to gain some more insight into your own psychology and personality.

  • We've already covered the Myers-Briggs; today, we're talking about the HEXACO Personality Inventory.

  • The HEXACO was developed by Kibeom Lee and Michael C. Ashton in 2000 and measures the six dimensions of a personality.

  • All of the HEXACO dimensions are on a spectrum.

  • You can score very low, very high, or somewhere in-between.

  • Stay tuned to find out your HEXACO score.

  • Let's go.

  • H is for honesty and humility.

  • According to Lee and Ashton, if you have a high score in honesty-humility, you probably don't manipulate others to get what you want.

  • You aren't interested in breaking rules or achieving a high social status.

  • You see yourself as equal to your friends rather than above them, and you don't care much about having expensive things or living a luxurious lifestyle.

  • A 2009 study published in the "Journal of Research in Personality" showed that

  • people who are higher in honesty-humility are more likely to cooperate and act fairly when given a hypothetical choice in how to divide money between themselves and someone else.

  • They chose to split it equally rather than keep it for themselves, even if there weren't any consequences for taking the money.

  • On the other hand, people who have a low score of honesty-humility are more likely to break the rules and flatter others to get ahead.

  • They feel very self-important and are highly motivated by money and materialistic goals.

  • E is for emotionality.

  • Take a moment to think about the relationships in your life.

  • Do you heavily empathize with your friends when they feel down and lean on them for emotional support?

  • This is a sign that you are high in emotionality.

  • If you score high in this factor, you might also feel anxious, especially in situations that are physically dangerous, and have a hard time dealing with stressful situations.

  • But maybe you feel the opposite.

  • You don't really feel compelled to talk to your friends about your problems.

  • You don't form strong attachments with them.

  • And you don't get too worried in dangerous or stressful situations.

  • According to Lee and Ashton, these traits indicate that you might be low in emotionality.

  • Researchers suggest that emotionality may have an evolutionary benefit.

  • Those who score high in this factor tend to seek and give emotional support, supporting others in our tribe.

  • And getting this support in return allows us to form mutually beneficial relationships that increase our odds of survival.

  • X is forOK, this is kind of cheating, but extraversion.

  • Studies show that, out of all the HEXACO factors, extraversion is the most strongly associated with well-being.

  • According to a study published in "Personality and Individual Differences", the higher someone scored in extraversion, the more likely they were to report higher levels of happiness and life satisfaction.

  • Someone who is highly extraverted loves to go to parties and socialize.

  • They are confident, highly energetic, and optimistic.

  • If you're low in extraversion, you might not be too enthusiastic about going out and meeting new people.

  • You might also struggle to feel confidentespecially in large groupsand feel that you are not well-liked by others.

  • A is for agreeableness.

  • A high level of agreeableness means that you are forgiving, nonjudgmental, and cooperative.

  • You tend to get along well with others and don't get mad easily.

  • If you score low in agreeableness, you might find it difficult to forgive people who hurt you.

  • You may get angry quickly when someone doesn't treat you well, you strongly defend your point of view, and you can easily find flaws in others.

  • According to a study by DeFries and colleagues, interestingly, people who are low in agreeableness were rated by others as being less likable but more popular than those who are high in agreeableness.

  • This could be because the less agreeable someone is, the more money they tend to make.

  • So, their peers might admire them because they're successful but may find it difficult to get along with them.

  • C is for conscientiousness.

  • Highly conscientious people are disciplined and organized.

  • Some people might consider them to be perfectionists.

  • They are neat, manage their time well, work diligently to meet their goals, and are highly accurate in their work.

  • They also tend to think through all of their options before making a decision.

  • Does this sound like you?

  • If so, you might score high in this trait.

  • This also might be a Hermione type, you know, really good in school.

  • A study published in the "European Journal of Personality" found that people who are high in conscientiousness are also more likely to perform well academically.

  • People who are low in conscientiousness don't care as much about keeping a well-organized schedule or a clean workspace.

  • They don't enjoy setting goals that are hard to accomplish and aren't too bothered if they make a mistake.

  • They can be somewhat impulsive and quick decision-makers.

  • A real Weasley, if you know what I mean.

  • And finally, O is for openness to experience.

  • If you are high in openness to experience, you might be known as the artsy one in your friend group.

  • The one who loves nature, could spend hours in a gallery, and is very imaginative.

  • You may also be a very curious person who's interested in learning about new topics, especially if they are unconventional.

  • Can't relate to any of these traits?

  • Then you might be low in openness to experience.

  • You might not be very interested in doing creative things, and the idea of going to an art gallery just sounds boring.

  • You might not be particularly excited about learning new things or hearing other's ideas.

  • When looking for a romantic partner, you might want to consider whether the level of openness to experience and honesty-humility matches yours.

  • A study by Liu and colleagues found that, when partners are similar in these traits or at least perceived themselves to be similar, they have higher relationship satisfaction.

  • Wherever you fall in the HEXACO or any other personality model, remember that there are no good or bad personality types.

  • Someone who is introverted, for example, is no better or worse than someone who is extraverted.

  • They are simply different.

  • The variety of different traits that we possess is part of what makes human beings so fascinating.

  • Your personality is beautiful and contributes to the much-needed diversity of ideas and temperaments in the world.

  • We hope this video helped you understand and appreciate the things that make you you.

  • Want to take the HEXACO questionnaire for free?

  • Click on the link in the description box below and get your results right away.

  • You can go to hexaco.org/hexaco-online.

  • Share your scores in the comments section and see if you are similar to others in our community.

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  • Thanks for watching.

Oprah Winfrey once said, "Don't get confused between what people say you are and who you know you are."

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