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  • You are not your thoughts.

  • Every day, we have thousands of thoughts, emotions, urges, memories, and feelings.

  • From the time we wake up in the morning, all throughout the day, to when we lay down to sleep at night.

  • No matter who we are, we all have thoughts swirling around in our heads.

  • We even think and feel in our dreams.

  • Often, we don't realize how many thoughts we are having, and we get lost in them.

  • Sometimes, we're not even aware that we're thinking.

  • We seem to be swimming in a sea of our own thoughts.

  • When we are surrounded by our thoughts, it's easy to get caught up in them and react automatically, sometimes in ways we don't even mean to react.

  • We might hold onto some thoughts, even when we don't want to, and it can feel like our thoughts are overwhelming.

  • But thoughts are not facts, and they are not always true, even if they seem to be.

  • Next time you feel caught up in your thoughts, try paying attention to them with curiosity, and not judgment.

  • It doesn't matter if they are true or false, right or wrong; just notice them.

  • How fast or slow are they?

  • Are they are all very different from each other?

  • Or perhaps youre having the same ones over and over again.

  • Maybe they're even focused on one theme.

  • Some of these thoughts may be unwanted.

  • But instead of reacting to them, notice what happens to your body sensations and your emotions when you have these thoughts.

  • Perhaps you will notice if they are bringing you closer to or further away from what is important to you or the goals you have for yourself.

  • Observing your thoughts is a skill that takes practice, like playing an instrument.

  • Sometimes it'll be easy for you to be able to notice and respond to your thoughts.

  • Other times, you might have to work really hard to get some distance from them.

  • You might even have to keep letting go of the same unwanted thought over and over again.

  • But don't give up; keep trying.

  • Like waves in the ocean, thoughts are always passing through our minds, and can affect how we feel and what we do.

  • But they are not us, and we are not our thoughts.

  • Learning to be aware of our thoughts can allow us to respond with more choice instead of reacting in ways we may regret.

  • Observing our thoughts gives us some distance to see how our thoughts make us feel.

  • We can then choose to act in ways that bring us closer to the things and the people that are important to us.

  • Remember: You are not your thoughts.

  • Try observing your thoughts with curiosity.

  • Try it right now.

You are not your thoughts.

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