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  • Hi, my name is Reka Marvay. I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you about understanding

  • friendships between men and women. Now there is this longstanding cultural agreement that

  • real friendship between men and women cannot exist because of the sexual tension between

  • the sexes. This is a view that actually comes from an earlier ere when men and women's roles

  • were far more restricted and the only opportunity for them to meet was for romantic purposes.

  • Under those circumstances of course it was very very difficult for men and women to develop

  • real friendships based on their interests because women were stuck at home tending the

  • babies and tending the household while men were out working. However, today's society

  • is very different from this and there's plenty of opportunity for men and women to come together

  • based on mutual interests, maybe in sports, maybe in arts, maybe in politics, maybe as

  • a friend or a co-worker from your workplace or somebody that you met at school. There's

  • no such limitation anymore about the roles of men and women. So there is far more opportunity

  • for men and women to get together and share interests and develop genuine friendships.

  • There will always be the possibility of sexual tension between any two people who might be

  • sexually attracted to each other. But it need not cause an issue case of real friendship

  • between men and women.

Hi, my name is Reka Marvay. I'm a psychologist and I'm going to talk to you about understanding

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