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  • - Speaking secret number three:

  • condition yourself before speaking.

  • Now what do I mean by conditioning yourself before speaking?

  • Does that mean you grab a dumbbell

  • and then you kinda do some curl?

  • That's not what I am talking about, right?

  • I mean before, so we're getting to the actual speaking

  • and presenting part, but very important

  • before you go on stage, how you condition yourself, right?

  • What do you do?

  • So, think about, how do highly successful people

  • are able to stay consistent

  • with their results?

  • Think about top athletes, top performers,

  • what do they do?

  • Michael Jordan, Tiger Woods,

  • so many top performers, high performers,

  • what do they do to stay consistent?

  • 'Cause there are some days,

  • that they don't,

  • - They feel. - They're not at their best.

  • - They got the flu.

  • - That or they just don't feel like it

  • or they're not in the mood.

  • - They got some bad news

  • from someone. - Yeah, it's just

  • kinda under the weather a bit.

  • That happens to you, but when you're speaking,

  • again focusing on the audience,

  • you wanna be 100%, so, what do you do?

  • How do they condition themselves to perform at their best?

  • - They all did hypnosis, meditate, have strong rituals.

  • They have strong rituals.

  • Yes, definitely.

  • They all of strong rituals.

  • - Rich, it's a good question.

  • - Yup, Sifu, thanks for sharing these powerful insights.

  • Do you purposely try to interact with a few audience members

  • before the talk to gauge temperature

  • and build rapport with a few of the audience members?

  • - Yes, so,

  • two things.

  • I highly recommend

  • that before you go up onstage

  • that you actually interact

  • and establish some kind of rapport.

  • Especially, if it is a small audience that

  • if you have 10, 20, 50, 100 people.

  • "Hey, you know my name is Dan.

  • "I'll be presenting.

  • "I'll be the keynote speaker for today."

  • - Oh, really?

  • What's your name? - Oh, Desmond.

  • - Oh, what brought you here?

  • - I was curious to find out, learn more

  • about public speaking, and I heard that there's gonna be

  • several good speakers, and you're one of them.

  • - Oh thank you, thank you.

  • Yeah, in my speech I am gonna cover point A, B, C, and D.

  • - Okay, cool, I look forward to hearing it.

  • Okay, good luck up there. - Appreciate it,

  • appreciate it.

  • So, you can connect.

  • So now the audience, they feel a little bit warmer.

  • Versus, who is this person?

  • - Right.

  • - Sifu used to do that, now I actually can't do it,

  • not that I don't want, I can't do it

  • because when I do it, there will be no speech.

  • Right?

  • Now it's actually,

  • - You get mobbed.

  • - I get mobbed, and then I wanna be polite

  • you take photos.

  • Before you know it, that whole thing turns into

  • three-hour thing.

  • So, I naturally, because the brain,

  • I actually have to hide from people,

  • like I have to go use the back door,

  • - The green room. - The green room.

  • I have to deal with it because before I go onstage,

  • I don't wanna create a scene for people.

  • - actually get me to go out in the room,

  • talk to people, come back and report to him about

  • what's the temperature of the room.

  • - So, if you could do it, yeah, 100%, absolutely do it.

  • I just now get to the point, I actually can't do it.

  • - Everyone wants a piece of Sifu.

  • Okay, daily routines are prepared daily for the speech.

  • This is helpful.

  • Kanji, it'll get even more, find out, he'll explain how much

  • he prepares, over preparation.

  • - So definitely, do that.

  • So how do you do it?

  • The answer is simple.

  • They use what I call "Power Moves"

  • Say it with me, what is it?

  • Power Moves!

  • Power moves, right?

  • They leverage power moves

  • to get them into peak state.

  • And then they use that to perform the best.

  • So you look at Tiger Woods.

  • Sometimes he hits the ball and he's like "Yes" Right?

  • That's a power move right there.

  • And everyone has different power moves, right?

  • I remember one of my speaker friends

  • who is a professional speaker,

  • he calls it "the hulk"

  • So before he would go on stage, he would do like (grunts)

  • and he would imagine himself, like, turning green.

  • Being bigger.

  • That might work!

  • You seen maybe Tony Robbins, so if you seen his documentary,

  • you'll see, Tony does a few things.

  • First, he would jump on a trampoline.

  • You can see, he gets his blood flowing,

  • he would jump, jump.

  • You can see it from backstage.

  • All right, he would do this, and he would do this.

  • He would do this, right?

  • That's his power move, right?

  • And then he would do a turn, and then he would go onstage.

  • That's when he switch.

  • Gotta make that state change.

  • Whatever works for you.

  • But you gotta have something.

  • And it needs to be something very unique.

  • That when you do it, it becomes, kind of an on switch.

  • That power move, before you go onstage, maybe,

  • you're like, energy, remember, keep this in mind.

  • When you're speaking energy is very, very critical.

  • Not just what you say.

  • You need to learn how to manage the energy of the audience.

  • So, what I mean to say is this,

  • if you are five or six in terms of energy,

  • the audience will be three or four.

  • If you're a 10, they will probably be a five or six.

  • So you look at Tony, it's out of the ballpark.

  • He's like a energize bunny.

  • 20, audience is 10.

  • It doesn't mean you have, Tony has got his own style, right?

  • Phenomenal, got his own style.

  • But you need to have definitely more energy.

  • So, if you're presenting,

  • I'm just gonna tone down my energy by 50%

  • So if I'm gonna teach you to speak,

  • I'm gonna spend two hours talking at this pace.

  • It's kind of like energy like this and it's okay

  • but you will probably fall asleep.

  • Especially for those who are tuning in

  • from a different time zone.

  • And now it's late at night, yes.

  • - Sleepy, LOL, Zs, night night.

  • - That's like a two or three.

  • So I need to up my energy, right?

  • So that you stay awake.

  • So you're paying attention.

  • So you don't do the power moves.

  • So tell me what could be your power move?

  • What could be your power move?

  • Makes sense?

  • Give me something.

  • Chain punching!

  • That's cool, that's fine.

  • - Hard smack!

  • - Smack, yeah!

  • Like could be that?

  • - Shout, like a super saiyan power!

  • Sifu, do you have a super saiyan power?

  • - Saiyan power, yeah.

  • - Scream, "I deserve this!"

  • Slap yourself, wall flip.

  • - Wall flip, just don't hurt yourself before you go onstage.

  • Wouldn't be good.

  • You'd break your neck before you go up onstage.

  • - Make a tight fist and slam my chest, okay.

  • - Yeah, superhero pose!

  • Yeah, that's okay!

  • You wanna do a superhero pose, and, like that, right?

  • - [Deadpool] She's gonna do a superhero landing.

  • Wait for it!

  • (dramatic music)

  • Woo, superhero landing!

  • You know that's really hard on your knees.

  • - Before you go out on stage,

  • before you step foot on a stage,

  • now just before the power move,

  • you might have other rituals, which I'm gonna talk about.

  • Right, you might have other things.

  • - You've got the music.

  • - I've got the music.

  • There's a certain piece of music

  • I listen to before

  • I go out on stage. - Sifu will tell us

  • not to have anyone disturb him

  • so that I can prepare the green room.

  • He has certain drinks.

  • So that nobody talks to him during that time.

  • - There is a certain piece of music that I listen to,

  • right, there are certain power moves that I do.

  • Right, and I also always do a visualization exercise.

  • So you would see, usually I do attitude, gratitude.

  • So my routine is this, attitude, gratitude.

  • So when I do the attitude, gratitude.

  • So I just kind of walk you through it.

  • I'm gonna close my eyes, I'm listening to my own audio.

  • With the music, attitude, gratitude.

  • Which you've listened to as well, right?

  • Then I would do something like this.

  • And I wanna stand tall, I wanna open myself up

  • because I find that's, I'm gonna open up myself

  • to the audience, right?

  • So I don't wanna be closed like that

  • So I'm listening, listening to attitude, gratitude.

  • Like 12, 15 minutes.

  • I'm doing this usually like that.

  • Relax.

  • And what I do is, I would picture this a little spiritual

  • but actually I find this works for me,

  • and you can try it on.

  • I would imagine like,

  • a white light.

  • Beaming from the universe to here.

  • And then from here, I would visualize.

  • Let's say, I would have saw the room ahead of the time.

  • And this light gets, it's like me

  • getting brighter and brighter.

  • It's like a super bright light ball.

  • And I visualize it.

  • And it brightens the entire room.

  • It brightens the entire room.

  • While I'm listening to my attitude, gratitude.

  • Okay, and I would do that.

  • And what I notice when I do that, my energy shifts.

  • My focus is no longer on myself, it's on the audience.

  • Because sometimes when you're speaking,

  • when you're teaching, things come to you.

  • Things come to me all of the time

  • it's as if, it's not my script, it's not my,

  • what I was planning to say.

  • Just thoughts come to me.

  • So I wanna be able to be open,

  • be able to kind of download the wisdom from here.

  • Brightens the room.

  • Share with the audience

  • and give everything I've got.

  • And you can see just a few minutes of that

  • you can see my eyes change.

  • You can see, right?

  • It changes.

  • It gives you more clarity.

  • Then from there, I listen to my piece of music.

  • My piece of music.

  • I'm walking around, sometimes I jump, I move, right?

  • Deep breath, right?

  • And then from there, put down the piece of music.

  • I do my power move, and then boom!

  • Right then I go onstage.

  • Every single time, over the years,

  • I've conditioned myself to do this, right?

  • So there are days when I feel like (groans)

  • I don't feel I'm on.

  • I do that.

  • Listen to music.

  • I do my power move.

  • And boom, guess what?

  • I'm fucking on.

  • Every single time.

  • So that's my routine.

  • - Yes, even all of the best speakers I've experienced,

  • even musicians, those that are the very best,

  • they do this, they have a ritual

  • in the green room that they do.

  • And the best motivational speakers, they all have this.

  • They set a good intention, they do these different things.

  • Sifu, how about also when you, my personal question,

  • I've always watched you and Jenny travel,

  • you guys have an amazing relationship,

  • there's a whole playlist on YouTube about your relationship,

  • but there must have been times

  • where you guys are driving the car

  • or going to an event,

  • do you guys predetermine that?

  • Like, hey look, I'm speaking today.

  • Let's not get into a fight.

  • Let's not argue.

  • Let's not do anything to upset that.

  • - We don't argue that much, so that rarely rarely happens.

  • Most of the time, Jenny is just focusing on

  • that I'm taken care of.

  • That I have what I need.

  • Like I have the water, I have the stuff that I--

  • - She's coordinating with me.

  • - Yeah, like she's coordinating with the team.

  • Again, over the years, back then,

  • when it was just Jenny and me, same thing.

  • Jenny has always just been very very awesome.

  • Just helping me out.

  • - So if you have a spouse or partner that's not supportive,

  • don't involve them in the process.

  • Like, if you do, then it's good, right?

  • You're lucky with that.

  • - Yeah, Patrick, you can definitely warm up your voice.

  • - Yeah, how do you do that?

  • - So you see I'm still recovering from my little cough.

  • But you can warm up your voice by actually speaking.

  • And you can do some vocal thing where you can like

  • (humming)

  • You can do a lot of vocal different things.

  • You can do that, right?

  • But for most people, don't get too,

  • don't make it too complicated.

  • Drink, by the way, you wanna drink lots of water.

  • two hours, three hours before

  • to hydrate your vocal chords.

  • When you are speaking, when you're drinking

  • hydrating doesn't help.

  • What helps is the two, three hours before.

  • - Got it.

  • - You need to drink lots of water, hydrate yourself,

  • go to the washroom before you go on stage,

  • but that's how you hydrate your vocal chords.

  • That I actually learned from a vocal coach.

  • - I learned a really weird one, Sifu--

  • - Oh yeah, don't drink cold water.

  • Yes, don't drink cold water.

  • Because you wanna warm up your vocal chords.

  • - What about the thing where I heard the,

  • I've seen it in green rooms,

  • the Lay's potato chips?

  • Apparently the oils from that help, you know,

  • - Some people, they would do that.

  • Sometimes they, olive oil. - Olive oil.

  • - Olive oil, yeah, everybody's got different things.

  • Right, I don't.

  • It doesn't work for me, myself.

  • But I know it works very well for some people.

  • - Yes. - Right.

  • - So what if it's an impromptu speech?

  • I saw this earlier on.

  • How do you condition yourself if it's happened

  • to me sometimes?

  • - So if it's an impromptu speech

  • that maybe you're at a wedding,

  • you're at something where you have to,

  • or your friend kind of put you on the spot,

  • and you have to do something, quickly,

  • you don't have time to do the ritual and all of that.

  • Just make a mental switch.

  • - Focus on the--

  • Just focus and boom.

  • Hey, there's a wedding it's my brother-in-law, right?

  • Focus, not on me, not how cool I look.

  • I wanna make people laugh.

  • Boom.

  • And just focus on other people and I can make that switch.

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