And as the good manager you are, you give them this compliment,

"I appreciate how collaborative you were on that project!"

First, I want to acknowledge you for acknowledging them.

I want to offer you just a slight change in language to make that compliment even more powerful.

Instead of complimenting from a place of your opinion, "I think," or "I appreciate this about you,"

I want you to make it a statement of fact. "You are..."

Here's how it works: Instead of, "I appreciate how collaborative you are," try, "You are collaborative," or better yet, "You are a powerful partner."

Big difference, right?

Not only will you make that person feel amazing, but you will help them see a truth in them that they may not have seen themselves.

And who doesn't want to give a gift like that?

Here's your challenge: Today - yes, today - I want you to powerfully acknowledge somebody in your life using "You are..." statements and then talk about it in the comments below.

How did they respond, and how did it make you feel?

Acknowledgement doesn't cost a thing, but the impact is so great.

And now it's my turn.

For those of you who are watching right now, you are worth it.

You are a learner.

You matter.

And remember, play fully brave!