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  • What does childbirth feel like?

  • Well if you get an epidural it feels like you're pooping

  • but in a really weird position

  • 'cause they make you put your legs up and hold them.

  • (springy music)

  • Hi my name's Maddie, nice to meet you.

  • Hi I'm Davina.

  • Do you know why you're here?

  • Yeah because you're a teen mom.

  • Okay, how old do you think I am? Do you know yet?

  • 17

  • I'm 15.

  • Yeah.

  • I had my baby when I was 14

  • and I had just turned 14 when I got pregnant.

  • How old are you?

  • I'm 12.

  • I remember when I was 12.

  • Boys would always like send pictures and stuff.

  • I'm like what was that weird looking worm?

  • (laughs)

  • They don't do that anymore here?

  • Oh well I got one Snapchat about it and was just like

  • just gonna delete.

  • It's really bad.

  • So I kind of got exposed to that early.

  • Then when I got a boyfriend, he wanted to have sex.

  • I didn't really want to but.

  • Tell him to do it himself.

  • (Both laughing)

  • I kinda thought, I love him. This is what he wants.

  • So if want to keep him, this is what I have to do.

  • Which, is not the case. So never..

  • Yeah.

  • Think that, but we ended up having sex and I got pregnant.

  • Did you guys use protection?

  • No.

  • Well!

  • Yeah, but in Texas they don't really teach you

  • about that in school.

  • What would you think if you got pregnant?

  • Oh I feel like I'd get killed.

  • (Maddie Gasps)

  • My parents would be like.

  • No. Yeah.That's what I thought too.

  • Luckily my parents were supportive,

  • but with some people, like, it's not the case for them.

  • And it's really sad.

  • How did you know if you were pregnant?

  • I lost a lot of weight 'cause of morning sickness.

  • Didn't your mom take you to the doctor?

  • Yeah. She thought I was sick.

  • So when I went to the doctor, one of the nurses,

  • she was a teen mom, so she just had this gut feeling.

  • Like I did not say anything. Well she did a pregnancy test,

  • and it turns out I was, I think, 12/14 weeks pregnant.

  • Whoa.

  • So I found out pretty far along.

  • Oh wow.

  • So yeah. Me and her dad had already broken up.

  • I ended up telling him. How do you think he reacted?

  • I don't think he'd want to keep the baby.

  • Yeah. His initial thought was abortion.

  • At three months pregnant, abortion wasn't really

  • something that I thought I should go through with.

  • So, I ended up keeping her. Obviously.

  • But she is the little light of my life.

  • Obviously, you should not be having sex at 14.

  • Well yeah.

  • Yeah, but I mean stuff happens.

  • I can't go back and change it, you know.

  • And even if I could, I wouldn't because I love my daughter.

  • But it's obviously not something I recommend.

  • I don't recommend it at all.

  • Did people feel bad for you being pregnant at 14?

  • Like yes. They also kinda feel like

  • I'm a bad person because of it.

  • I don't think you're a bad person.

  • - Thank you. - Just made a

  • - Bad choice. - Yeah.

  • I agree with that. I took the consequences of my actions

  • and I made it into a beautiful thing.

  • Do you still keep in contact with her dad?

  • Um, I do now but that just happened.

  • He recently started seeing her

  • and I mean he's been really nice.

  • I really didn't expect that kindness from him,

  • but I'm really happy that she gets to have a father

  • in her life because even though I'm a young mom,

  • I wanna try to make her life as normal as possible,

  • and as good as possible. Do you wanna meet her?

  • Yeah

  • She's so cute. This is Everly. Everly, this is Davina.

  • Ah she's so cute. I love babies.

  • Do you want to try to hold her?

  • I'm scared. I think she is gonna yell.

  • You can shake hands. Everly shake hands.

  • Oh wrong hand. Okay. Okay. Oh she's so warm.

  • (giggling)

  • What's your favorite part about

  • Just the bond.

  • My mom would always talk about it.

  • I was just kinda like oh yeah so its basically a bond

  • you would have with a sibling, but it's

  • so much more than that. It's just like.

  • I don't have a good bond with my sibling.

  • (everyone laughs)

  • She's just like "go away". I'm like, "I'm in the hallway".

  • (laughs)

  • High five. Oh nope. Not with that hand.

  • (laughs)

  • Bye it was so nice to meet you.

  • Bye.

  • Everly you want to shake hands too?

  • Oh it's the slobber hand.

  • Oh that's okay. It's a cute slobber hand.

  • Okay bye.

  • (Clapping)

  • Okay. She's happy. I'm gone.

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  • (baby babbling)

  • Oh my gosh.

  • Bye.

  • (Laughs)

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