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  • Life lessons are full of wisdom because they often have to be learned the hard way.

  • However, the hardest part about that process is realizing that sometimes not every opportunity

  • lasts forever. You finallyget itlong after the fact.

  • If possible, it's best to learn these things sooner rather than later.

  • 1. If you want todo what you love,” you have to work three times as hard as everyone

  • else. Most people do not get to spend their lives

  • doing whatever it is they love. Instead, they do what they are told they should

  • do, or what their parents or town or friends or peers suggest that they do. Or they simply

  • pursue nothing close to their heart at all. But if you want todo what you love,”

  • you need to see that as a privilege, not an expectation.

  • Those people are not the majority. So if that's what you truly want, you have

  • to put in the work now. 2. Beneath anger is always fear.

  • As the wise Yoda says, “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger, anger

  • leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.” Whenever we suffer, especially for long periods

  • of time, at first we believe it is because of something outside of us — something

  • we hate. And if we make it past that emotion, we find below that hate is a rumble of anger,

  • and certainly something we have held onto for far too long.

  • But beneath all of that is always fear. A fear of loss.

  • A fear of vulnerability. A fear of letting go.

  • But if you can get to the point of acknowledging the fear, you will see its lighthearted shadow,

  • compassion. And you will be able to move forward.

  • 3. Our everyday habits form our future selves. What you do today is one more action toward

  • who you will be tomorrow. When that action is replicated over the course

  • of a week, you begin to scratch the surface of change.

  • When that action is replicated over the course of a month, you begin to notice a slight difference.

  • When that action is replicated over the course of a year, or two years, or five years, you

  • may no longer recognize yourself — you will have changed, in that particular way,

  • completely. Do not underestimate the power of each and

  • every small habit, replicated over time. For good or bad, your habits determine who

  • you will ultimately become. 4. Your emotions take practice.

  • When we think about practice, we often talk in terms of skill.

  • You practice the piano, or you practice playing hockey. But the thing is, who you are emotionally

  • also takes practice. You can practice humility, you can practice

  • forgiveness. You can practice self-awareness and humor,

  • just as easily as you can practice anger, resentment, drama, and conflict.

  • Who you are, emotionally, is a reflection of the things you consciously (or unconsciously)

  • practice. You were notbornupset.

  • You have merely practiced that emotion far more than you have, say, joy.

  • 5. Everyone has his or her own agenda. This is quite a cliché phrase, and is often

  • said in a negative context. But I am using it differently:

  • It is worth acknowledging that, at the end of the day, we all must provide for ourselves.

  • We all have our own dreams, goals, aspirations, families, close friends, and significant others,

  • and we all want the same fundamental things. There are those you can trust, of course,

  • but the best way to keep yourself rooted and at ease is to know that each and every person

  • has his or her own agenda. You cannot control others.

  • You cannot expect them to put you before themselves. And trying to do so may work for a period

  • of time, but eventually, the truth will rise to the surface.

  • Instead, make it a point to address and help others move toward their own dreams, as you

  • request their help in moving toward yours. The relationship will more smoothly move in

  • the right direction this way. 6. Achievement will never be as fulfilling

  • as the journey. It is one thing to set a goal and enlist the

  • help of others to see its achievement through. It is entirely another to sacrifice your own

  • well-being, and the well-being of those around you, for that goal and its achievement.

  • The high at the end is never worth the emotional strain that takes place to get there.

  • If you are not able to enjoy the journey with those around you, then the end goal will become

  • meaningless. 7. Working hard and laughter are not mutually

  • exclusive. Building on the previous point, I never understood

  • why people feel that laughing means not taking the matter at hand seriously.

  • The best ideas come through ease. The best flow happens in moments of joy.

  • The human connection begins with laughter and to laugh while working or solving a problem

  • is to be open to new possibilities. Some people never learn this — they

  • become grumpy and old. But life is about having fun.

  • And to have fun does not mean, by default, that you are notgetting anything done.”

  • On the contrary. You can have fun and get more done than you

  • ever thought imaginable.

Life lessons are full of wisdom because they often have to be learned the hard way.

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