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  • - The front door opened and a bright yellow light

  • stabbed the darkness.

  • - I love you.

  • - I love you too, hun.

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  • - [Man] Check this out.

  • (fart noise)

  • (upbeat instrumental music)

  • - [Girl] Okay.

  • - My name is Stella Hockla.

  • - I'm Jason Hockla, and we're married.

  • - We've been dating for like a year and a half.

  • - Together for eight years.

  • - Nine.

  • - Nine.

  • - We've been married for 39 years,

  • 40 years in April.

  • - Yep.

  • We normally go to bed like between seven 30 and eight.

  • - [Man] We usually go to sleep around like midnight.

  • - [Man] Get in bed at nine and then we all probably turn

  • off the lights at 11, so.

  • - [Woman] No, we turn off the lights by like nine 30, 10.

  • - [Man] We like tap into our cell phones.

  • - Why does she have two hearts on there?

  • - It's like a Snapchat thing

  • where you put stuff on your face.

  • - So I am seven months pregnant.

  • I've also, I have a broken ankle.

  • Sleep is okay.

  • - [Man] I'd say we sleep really well.

  • - [Woman] Yeah.

  • - [Man] I sleep with a CPAP machine.

  • I have sleep apnea.

  • It just helps me breathe.

  • - It's kind of weird because he looks like an alien.

  • It's like what the hell.

  • - I'd say we sleep pretty good.

  • We get a good eight hours.

  • - I think it depends on the temperature in the room

  • as to how well we sleep,

  • or if there's dogs, dogs shed in the bed or on the floor.

  • - [Man] Yeah, we got a lot of animals, so.

  • - [Man] A ton of animals.

  • - We have four dogs, us, the baby, and a cat.

  • - It's kind of like Tetris.

  • You've got to kind of move with the dogs,

  • and we do wake up sore sometimes

  • because you're crammed in between like a dog,

  • a cat, and it's kind of hard on the back sometimes.

  • Bailey, our dog, snores really loud.

  • (snoring)

  • - Probably.

  • - Eight.

  • - Eight.

  • - Four to five hours of sleep.

  • - I'm going to say the same.

  • - I sleep like six to seven hours and I'm good.

  • She sleeps 10 to 12 and she's not good.

  • I can sleep 10 to 12.

  • I don't know if I really necessarily do anymore with her.

  • I think part of me never gets to that super deep level

  • of sleep because I'm always like partly thinking about her,

  • and I'm sure that's probably the case for most moms.

  • - She literally wakes up every two to three hours,

  • which is why I check my phone to see.

  • I don't know why I like to know.

  • I guess I'm hoping for that long stretch,

  • that four to five hour stretch

  • that babies are supposed to get to at some point.

  • (coughing)

  • - [Man] I'm usually turned away from her on my side.

  • Every so often I'll turn towards her

  • and put my arm over her or something like that.

  • - [Man] Yes.

  • - [Woman] Yeah, we cuddle.

  • - [Man] We cuddle a lot.

  • - [Man] We've been together for so long,

  • I don't need to cuddle.

  • I know where he is.

  • - She's so cuddly.

  • It's going to be so hard to kick her out of bed.

  • And we're only going to get this for a little while,

  • so we're trying to enjoy it as much as we can now

  • until she gets of age and tells us to get lost.

  • (alarm ringing)

  • - [Woman] I'm kind of a morning person,

  • so I'll wake up anywhere between like four a.m. to seven.

  • - [Man] Normally, three, three o'clock, three 30.

  • - [Woman] Three, yeah, between three and three 30.

  • It's just a habit.

  • I mean if you've done it for so long.

  • We don't even need an alarm clock.

  • - [Man] Nope.

  • - [Man] I feel like I get up earlier than you.

  • - Lately you have been, yeah.

  • Well I'm disabled and pregnant, so give me a minute.

  • - I wake up way earlier than him,

  • and I get a little bit impatient,

  • so I'll usually just like annoy him

  • until he wakes up in the morning,

  • which he's usually not happy about, but.

  • - No, because that's usually my only time

  • that I get to sleep in and I never get a chance to,

  • so I'm basically on her schedule and mine

  • at the same time, so.

  • - [Man] We usually get up around six 30,

  • seven in the morning.

  • This is what our life has been since January 20th, 2017.

  • I wake up and make sure I've still got my rights.

  • - Right.

  • - So like, we're not on social media.

  • We're literally reading articles

  • about what the fuck happened while we were sleeping.

  • - Wow.

  • - That seems kind of weird

  • to not sleep in the same bed.

  • - [Man] I mean he's my husband, so I got no choice,

  • like it's not the 50s where we have separate beds.

  • - I guess we do it because that's what you're supposed

  • to do, but I guess my favorite thing

  • is waking up next to her.

  • Like whenever I get up in the morning and she's not in bed,

  • which is rare,

  • I like, I miss seeing her first thing.

  • Like it's just a good start to my day.

  • - [Man] For me, it's a lot for comfort and security.

  • I do feel safer just being with my family.

  • - [Woman] It's like a comfort zone.

  • You're comfortable with each other, you know.

  • You just sleep.

  • - My human pillow.

  • - Yeah.

  • - [Woman] I think like your bed and your bedroom

  • is the place that you relax and unwind

  • at the end of the day,

  • it's like your comfort place.

  • - [Man] Nothing feels better than when you're exhausted

  • and you lay into your own bed.

  • It's comfortable and your pillow's there,

  • your wife's there.

  • - It's a sacred space that so much happens.

  • Like we eat dinner on the floor,

  • we make love in the bedroom,

  • or you get dressed in the bedroom,

  • or you read a book,

  • or I gave birth to our daughter on our bed.

  • Yeah, it's like a sanctuary.

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