I'm B from Pinch Me Living and today we're going

to be talking about 'how to be a

deliberate creator.' So I'm going to give

you five steps for deliberately creating

your life in partnership with the

universe, so that you can make the most

of working with the universe to get the

results that you want. So the first step

is - you want to be creating things that

are deeply meaningful to you and you'd

think that sounds like an obvious thing

but here's the point... There's lots of

things you want to create in your life and

you want to be emotionally connected to

the things that you're creating

sometimes people say well I want more

time, I'm creating more time or I want more

money, that's what I'm creating, I'm creating

more money, I'm creating the abundance

that I want. Or I want a new job. It's

really really common things that people

say that they want. But those are not the

things you want. Those are the stepping

stones to get the thing you want okay. So

the reason it's really important and

I'll step you through those particular

examples, is because those things usually

don't really connect at a deep

meaningful level to you. They don't

usually generate the type of emotional

resonance that you want and need. For

example the reason you want more time is so

that you can be free to do things that

are important and meaningful to you. The

reason you want more money is because of

what you think money is going to buy you

which will be some kind of experience,

which generates some kind of feeling.

If you want a new job it's not really the

job you want it's to feel more purposeful

or it's to have whatever kind

of experience, or to meet whatever kind of

people, or do whatever kind of tasks that

light you up. And so you want to go a

step further than the functional thing

you want and really find the thing it is at

the end, the end result that is

meaningful and emotionally resonant.

The reason you want to do that is because

when you are emotionally invested

and you're really connected to what you want

and it's meaningful, here's what happens:

Your vibration goes through the

roof. You resonate and vibrate on a

daily basis with such power and

positivity, and excitement and

inspiration for that thing, because you're

connected to it at that deep level and that

is what the universe listens to.

The universe ain't listening to what you say you

want it's listening to the vibe that you're

putting out, which is usually the most

easiest way to know what vibe your're putting out

is by how you feel.

Ok so you want to be in that high vibe

feeling state then just get deeply

connected emotionally to the thing you want

and it's got to be something that's

meaningful to you.

Ok the second step for being a

deliberate creator is to - when you go

about creating the thing that you want

you gotta do it for the passion and the

joy of it. You just got to do it for

you.

You want to be realizing in your

creative process whether your doing it for

any other negative reasons, any other

subconscious drivers that might be going

on. For example - needing to prove yourself,

to yourself or other people. Needing to

meet expectations. Wanting to get

recognition or validation from other

people, the world around you. Any of those

things are going to bring a dampener to

your vibe basically ok. Another really

common reason that people go about

creating something that they really want

and they don't realize it's not a very

high vibe motivator is that they're

doing something in order to fill a void

within. So they're missing something,

they feel incomplete, they feel like if

they can get this thing then they'll feel

complete. The problem with that is, if

that's driving you is that there's this is part of you

that knows if you don't get that result

then it's a big threat to you, and it's a big

problem, because you're gonna feel the

continued void, or the continued not

enoughness within yourself or in your life.

And so it's kind of like this,

pressure on you to create, and you don't

need that hand breaking your deliberate

creation process, it's not helping your

vibe when you've got that kind of stuff

going on. So what you want to do is just

understand if you've got any of that

stuff going on in your subconscious mind,

start to clear it away and address it,

become the master of your mind. And go

about creating just for the fun of it!

Just for the joy of it and staying in

that high vibe state.

Okay the third step for being a

deliberate creator and particularly

partnering with the universe to create

the results you want, is that you want to

focus on what you want and you want to

know that the universe's

job is 'how' it's going to happen.

Your job is 'what' - universe's job is 'how'.

Here's what people do, they focus on what

they want and then they get all caught

up like a little kitten with it's claws out

in a ball the wool, trying to figure out

how to create the outcome. Now from

your narrow viewpoint, your little mind,

in this giant universe, you can't see

all the ways that this could come about.

How are you meant to know the most

expedient magical ways that you could go

about creating this outcome. And the

answer is: you can't. You can only see the

initial steps forward so the first few

things you need to do and the bigger

picture, the vision. But you don't

necessarily need to know how to get from

here where you are, all the way to where

you want to be.

You only need to know that first step,

those first few steps and then you need

to trust that the universe has got your

back.

It knows all the paths available to you

and how to reach you, and how to send you

guidance, and how to help you with

synchronicities, and divine timing and

divine order and all those things. So you

need to focus on what, and let the

universe do its job of focusing on how, ok

and then trust that that is true. Trust

in that process. When you put your focus

on what you want, the universe starts to

respond. If you're in that high vibe

state and you're holding your vision, the

universe knows to bring to you guidance,

to bring to you the answers, to help you

step forward. And the fourth step for

being a deliberate creator and

partnering with The Universe is once you

have gone through those first three

steps, you now need to take what I call

the obvious next action. Wherever you stand

with what you want, you're emotionally

connected to it,

it's high vibe state, you're focusing on the what. There

is at least one step that you know you

need to take. Doesn't matter who you are

and what your goal is, there is always

one obvious next step. One practical

thing that you could do right now, even

if it's only tiny,