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  • - [Announcer] Get up on your feet, Gary Vaynerchuk.

  • (cheering and applause)

  • - [Man] Thank you, you changed my life.

  • - [Man 2] I love you, Gary.

  • - Love you back, thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • (cheering)

  • - [Woman] Love you, Gary. (cheering and applause)

  • - Thank you, Vancouver. Thank you very much.

  • Thank you, let's do this.

  • I mean look, we could stay here all day and do that,

  • but I want to bring some value.

  • Yeah, so listen I think we're doing a pretty cool format.

  • We're gonna go 20-20-20.

  • I'm gonna yap here a little bit,

  • then we're gonna do a quick little fireside.

  • Then we'll do some questions with you guys.

  • Thank you for the love.

  • I think that that moment in itself is something

  • that I think everybody should think about.

  • A funny thing happens when you do the right thing.

  • A funny thing happens when you over-deliver

  • to the others and try to take less.

  • A funny thing happens when you deploy patience

  • and run a marathon.

  • A funny thing happens and what happens is you start

  • building equity, you start building legacy,

  • you start building leverage.

  • That reaction I appreciate and I know and have seen it

  • for others.

  • But I know the reason I get that reaction

  • and it's not because of my skill set on a sporting field

  • or how I sing.

  • It comes from the fact that I'm desperately,

  • and I mean desperately trying to figure out how

  • to bring value to you.

  • I've been thinking about it a lot which is like hey,

  • why am I playing this patient?

  • Why am I not looking for anything in return?

  • Why do I like it better if I give you a whole bunch

  • and you never give me anything?

  • And I mean that.

  • And by the way I'm not this great human being.

  • It's not that I'm the nicest guy in the world.

  • There's something behind it.

  • I'm a businessman, I have my own goals and ambitions.

  • So I've been really trying to reverse engineer like

  • why is this my state?

  • What makes me different in this way?

  • And the other people that I see do it,

  • why do they do it?

  • I think it comes up to this, my friends.

  • I think first and foremost, and this is so important

  • for so many of you to hear and I've been saying it

  • a bunch and I know there's by the way a lot of engagement

  • on social so I know a lot of you have context on me.

  • I spend the first 13, 14 years of my career

  • building a business and not worrying about building

  • a personal brand and not having a social media account.

  • I was building an actual business.

  • I think the real reason I give away my content for free,

  • I engage with all of you. I answer, I give love.

  • I think the biggest reason I do that is 'cause I don't

  • need your help or money to accomplish my goals.

  • I have enough talent to build businesses that are not

  • predicated on turning admiration or attention

  • into short-term dollars.

  • I think this is very important because if this conference

  • is positioned as how do we build things

  • and have great impact, it starts with only two things.

  • There's only two things.

  • Listen, my whole talk given the framework

  • that they've created for this conference is actually

  • very simple. I was thinking about it,

  • I'm like okay let's make it contextual.

  • Let's talk about something slightly different.

  • It's actually very easy if you're sitting in this audience

  • to achieve the ambition of the context of this conference,

  • which is to do things that are also then good

  • for humanity. It's actually very, very simple.

  • It's two things.

  • It's intent and this is a big one and we don't

  • talk about it enough in our business world,

  • entrepreneurship, tech, solopreneur, intent.

  • Like what are you actually up to?

  • What are you actually trying to do?

  • Is your intent to actually build a great business

  • and give back to the world?

  • Or is your intent to disguise

  • that you want to make money

  • by saying that every time somebody buys one

  • of your granola bars you donate a granola bar to the hungry?

  • And I'm glad that eight of you laughed over there

  • because I'm going to tell you something.

  • As somebody who was there and saw Blake early on

  • when he formed that TOMS shoes model

  • and as somebody who's an angel investor in 2013 and '14

  • and looking at every single company,

  • I saw an ungodly amount of 23-year-olds claiming to me

  • that because they're Millennials, this was the best,

  • this was my favorite pitch.

  • Because they were Millennials they cared

  • about the world more and so they both wanted

  • to make money but also they cared more about the world

  • than Gen X, which was really cute.

  • Then I would look at their business model

  • and whatever the fuck they were selling that they

  • were then donating one to somebody that was so

  • fucking needy, right?

  • And literally, if you pressed them on why it was going

  • to this country, if you even asked one question

  • why it was going to this country,

  • you pretty much ended up

  • realizing they just threw a fucking dart at a map.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Then I just want to remind everybody I'm a businessman.

  • I understand that I put out content,

  • but I'm a businessman.

  • So it wasn't very difficult for me to look at the P&L

  • and the projections to realize that they were selling

  • this granola bar, or umbrella, or sneaker for twice

  • the price that it needed to be so they could afford

  • to actually give the sneaker.

  • So what you were doing actually was your intent

  • was to look like a good person

  • but still make as much money.

  • Every dollar that you would have if you didn't

  • have the bullshit model that you were donating something.

  • So what you were were completely full of fucking shit.

  • (audience cheers and applause)

  • And I have great news.

  • I searched a lot of accounts on my long-ass flight

  • to Vancouver last night of people using hashtags here.

  • These are wonderful people that are in the audience

  • using the hashtag and they're going to change the world

  • and bring to humanity.

  • And some of you are full of shit.

  • (audience laughter)

  • So if we're going to accomplish something

  • from this conference these two days of inspiration

  • and good stuff,

  • if you're gonna actually accomplish something

  • when you walk out there and go back to your normal lives,

  • I promise you step one of the idea really good part

  • of the strategy needs to be your actual intent.

  • I want to remind everybody that it is very okay

  • to be selfish and build something and do it in parallel.

  • You don't need to disguise your ambitions and wants

  • and needs with horseshit that you're going to donate

  • to the rain-fucking-forest.

  • (audience laughter)

  • You don't have to do that.

  • You're capable of both, and I am that.

  • I live it.

  • I tell you from, I always talk about stuff

  • that's real to me.

  • I am an assassin, killer,

  • ninja, selfish winner

  • in business and I can separate that from who I am.

  • I want to remind everybody my favorite all-time thing

  • of doing good is when somebody called me out on Twitter

  • for not donating to things or doing GoFundMe's

  • on social media. That I was a bad guy.

  • And I literally DM'ed this person and met him

  • at Starbucks where I stopped in between that meeting.

  • This is back in 2011.

  • I stopped at my accountant's, picked up my tax,

  • yeah picked up my tax returns.

  • You like this story, this is a good one.

  • This is my favorite but I don't tell this story very often.

  • But it's good under the context of this.

  • He said, "GaryVee, why don't you donate and do good causes?

  • "You're just selfish, you just care about yourself.

  • "Why don't you do things like your friends on social media?"

  • And he mentioned some social media influencers.

  • I DM'ed him, I said, "Hey fuck face, meet me at Starbucks."

  • (audience laughter)

  • I went to my accountant's, I picked up my tax returns,

  • I showed up to the Starbucks.

  • He walked in, he shit that I was actually there.

  • And then I showed him my tax return.

  • Then I said to him, "Young man here's the difference

  • "between you and I.

  • "You're still of the age where people trick you easily,

  • "where people use social media to PR themselves

  • "and are using causes to build themselves up

  • "that they're good people, and you're confused.

  • "When you do good you stay quiet about that shit."

  • I showed ...

  • (audience applause and cheers)

  • You guys know me, you guys know me.

  • I'm very comfortable to be loud and proud of my vanity

  • and my kind of like accomplishments.

  • And I self-promote.

  • But the things that I'm most proud of you don't know

  • jack shit about, you don't.

  • So I showed him my tax return which you know,

  • shows your donations and how you actually roll.

  • And he was like, "I'm so confused."

  • And I said, "You're confused because you don't understand

  • "what's actually happening."

  • That's the point of this intent talk.

  • Nobody in here is tricking the one percent of winners

  • with their bullshit.

  • So if you want to actually accomplish the thesis

  • of this conference, you need to make sure

  • that your intent is pure.

  • Your intent, the way you make your money,

  • the way you make your money is something you're proud of.

  • That you're not bottom feeding, and most of all

  • if you're going to do good for the world, just do it.

  • Don't use it as your PR engine to make money on the side.

  • Intent. (audience cheering and applause)

  • It's true, and I'm sure you've sniffed it out.

  • Number two, the only other way to do this whole thing

  • is my favorite part.

  • The doing the work.

  • You know, before you can help the elephants

  • and before you're going to help carrots,

  • you actually have to be in a position to help.

  • The way you do that is create the means

  • and the infrastructure to help.

  • Whether that is a voice and an audience,

  • whether that's the financial means,

  • whether that's the relationships, everybody here,

  • and when I say everybody here I don't mean this conference,

  • I mean the whole fucking game.

  • 99% of people are so quick to get to this thing

  • that they don't lay a foundation down.

  • You gotta actually build a business

  • that gives you that air cover.

  • I wanna remind everybody here, and it's really fun

  • because I always love when the mix of the crowd

  • is 18 and 88. (audience laughter)

  • Because if you're under 26 years old, you've not,

  • 27 years old, you've not lived through a tough economy yet.

  • It's been all upswing since you've been in the game.

  • Just has, 2008, '09, like call it what it is,

  • in 2010 it was already on it's way up.

  • Simple as that.

  • So you're looking in seven, eight years,

  • really means you're actually 30

  • and you haven't really played.

  • I look around and I see people more my age and older.

  • We've been through some shit, couple of cycles.

  • We know what happens.

  • Do you know how excited I am for the world to collapse soon

  • so I can get rid of so many of you fake fuckers.

  • (audience cheering)

  • Do you know how pumped I am?

  • I dream at night, last night I fell asleep at two o'clock

  • and I go, one day that kid's gonna have to change

  • his profile from influencer to bank teller.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Can't fucking wait.

  • So, intent, don't be full of shit

  • cause you're tricking the 90% that don't matter

  • and you're losing equity with the 10% that do.

  • Number two, do.

  • You gotta work, you feel super inspired from this weekend,

  • you can't wait, what happens next Thursday?

  • What happens next month?

  • You have to actually work a lot.

  • You know zero people, zero people

  • that have built something big

  • that haven't put in a ridiculous amount of work,

  • and the bigger it is the more they worked.

  • So many of you have your mouth way ahead of your actions.

  • Really, you're gonna own an island

  • and you fucking go to Cochella, fuck you.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Cause it's the truth.

  • It's the truth and the reason you say that

  • is cause you, like me, have been through

  • a couple of these cycles. We know exactly what

  • we're living through. All of my 48-year-old

  • executive employees were trillionaires in 2000

  • cause of the internet and the stock market prices.

  • You know how many people here, have a startup,

  • raised money, and have not had one month in their lives

  • where they were profitable?

  • Let me remind all of you startups that have raised money,

  • it doesn't take a hero to lose money each month.

  • And there's a problem, and I'm coming with you with this,

  • and this is positive fire. I'm not razzing you,

  • I'm trying to give you love because I know what's happening,

  • I live in that world.

  • VC money is clamping up.

  • VC money is clamping up, so I'm sitting here and telling you

  • to do, if you are not making money yet with your business

  • figure out why.

  • Change your model.

  • Cut your overhead.

  • Shit's coming.

  • Practicality is my religion.

  • Practicality is my religion.

  • That's why I push patience on so many of you,

  • 'cause it's practical. It is a marathon.

  • Unless you die it's gonna be long.

  • So why are you running so fast, why do you need it so bad?

  • Let me tell you what really sucks.

  • It really sucks when you bought a $20,000 watch

  • and shit hits the fan and you can't sell that

  • piece of jewelry for $4,000 'cause everybody's

  • trying to get a job.

  • And so everybody is not investing.

  • Let me tell, and by the way, I eat my own dog food.

  • From 20 to 30 I built a business to $45 million a year

  • business kicking real profit, and I was paying myself

  • $47,000 a year living in a one bedroom apartment

  • and driving a Jeep Grand Cherokee, which was nice,

  • but it wasn't a fucking Beamer.

  • And I did that cause I was

  • investing in the business for a foundation.

  • And everybody's trying to make a buck

  • and they're pulling it out.

  • You're making money and you're buying nice suits.

  • Stupid, short term, insecurity.

  • (laughs)

  • (audience applause)

  • People getting naked in the front row.

  • But I mean it, but I mean it.

  • Right, like there's that meme, you know it's funny,

  • it makes me smile and I hope people are getting something

  • out of it. There's that meme from Jay Z on Instagram,

  • right, like two pictures of him, one with a ton of jewelry

  • and then one now with just a black t-shirt,

  • and it shows one, he was like worth a million dollars,

  • and now, but really, that's just real.

  • And the thing that I don't like, and I've been

  • bringing it up here and I'm gonna bring it up again is,

  • people are fronting for people that aren't going

  • to be the impact on them.

  • I met with a kid for 20 minutes today, loved him,

  • he's got it, but he's doing, but, thank you,

  • but he doesn't, but he's doing something

  • that's gonna hurt him.

  • And I told him, I said, "Look, you're doing something

  • "that is not going to win. I would eliminate you

  • "from consideration to do business with

  • "based on this behavior other than I don't think I'm shit

  • "and I shouldn't be judging people, but most of the majority

  • "of my contemporaries are doing that."

  • I'm just confused by the behavior of the current system

  • because so much of it facade, so much of it is short term,

  • so much of it is fake, and I don't know, I just know how

  • I got here today.

  • I know how I got the luxury

  • and the enormous,

  • enormous feeling of admiration,

  • and it came from tried and true.

  • And it comes from tried and true for everybody.

  • And what we do is we sit around and look

  • at the .000001%

  • of a guy that creates Instagram,

  • or a guy that creates Facebook, or Elon Musk,

  • and we start mapping towards these anomalies,

  • yet 99.99999% of people that have been successful,

  • it took them 20, 30, 40 years, tried and true, hard work,

  • and so I try to impose on you here today, my friends,

  • through sheer will trying to force it down your throat,

  • that first and foremost your intent needs to be pure.

  • If you wanna build a good business

  • and you wanna give back to the world,

  • then that's what you actually have to do.

  • You know, you're not gonna trick, right,

  • and then, you know, I don't know, I'm just,

  • I'm just very, very, very passionate about this

  • because

  • you're living through the greatest era

  • that human beings have ever lived through,

  • and I am not confused to the macro political issues

  • that we're living through. And I understand all

  • the scenarios that we're living through across the globe.

  • It's just that humans have never had it better.

  • Like your life is better

  • than your great, great-grandparents.

  • There's a lot of shit going on with political presence

  • and things of that nature, yet it's still better

  • than if the Black Plague was running through us right now.

  • Like, we are so fortunate, the fact that you're even

  • at this conference puts you at this, such a small percentage

  • of people in the world, we have 7.4 billion people

  • in this world, and you have it so good. I am so grateful.

  • I am so grateful, right, I am so aware of what's actually

  • happening here, and I don't mean for me.

  • I mean for all of you.

  • And so, I can't wrap my head around wasting

  • the one at-bat we have, unless somebody here

  • has got some real interesting data, we don't come back.

  • And you know what, I'm super fucking pumped

  • that I ended up being a human being.

  • It's much more fun than being an elephant.

  • And so if you take into account the ridiculousness

  • and the utter quadruple miracle that it is

  • that you're even sitting here in a human

  • and have all this opportunity that you were a human

  • during this era, and you're not willing to deploy

  • the patience, and the work ethic, and the tried and true

  • that it takes to live, you know how many people here

  • want to be a millionaire?

  • Do you know how rare that is?

  • Have you run the math?

  • You have this enormous audacity, you have this enormous

  • audacity, yet you're not putting in the work

  • to get you there because you think

  • somehow you've been tricked

  • by yourself or somebody else

  • that there's some system,

  • that there's some fucking shortcut.

  • There's no fucking shortcut.

  • You've gotta put in the work.

  • Lots of it.

  • And that comes at the expense of golfing all the time,

  • and that comes at the expense of going

  • to every god damn event.

  • And it definitely comes at the expense

  • of watching one more motivational video,

  • and three more books, and seven more pod, you have to do.

  • Doing is the game.

  • (audience applause)

  • The remote control of society.

  • If you sit in this room and you do not know

  • how to make written words, audio sounds, or videos

  • for this device, on the 7 to 10 platforms

  • that dominate it,

  • Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, Snapchat,

  • then you are invisible to society.

  • I'm gonna say it one more time.

  • You know, the first 80% of this rant

  • felt really good for the 50-year-old plus.

  • The next two minutes are not gonna feel so good.

  • (audience laughter)

  • If you live in the world today

  • and you do not, at scale, produce written words,

  • audio sounds or videos for this device,

  • you do not exist,

  • and you need to wrap your head around that.

  • So, the theme of this, in actuality, is the following.

  • The answer is self-awareness.

  • Know who you are, know what you do,

  • and then tell it in the way

  • that comes most natural to you.

  • If you're a writer, great.

  • Start posting on Medium,

  • I've got a great little recommendation

  • that a lot of people aren't talking about.

  • If you like to write,

  • write long posts on Facebook and Instagram.

  • Get in a company picture,

  • and write a long-ass blog post.

  • How many people here are writing a blog right now?

  • Raise your hands high.

  • Tomorrow, write on Facebook,

  • in addition to, or move your blog to Facebook.

  • It will change your world.

  • Tomorrow.

  • Audio, how many people here have a podcast?

  • Raise your hands.

  • Couple.

  • If you don't like to write,

  • and listen, even though I've written four

  • New York Times bestselling books,

  • I can't write for shit.

  • If any of you've gotten an email from me,

  • can't put two sentences together.

  • God bless ghost writers, I love you Stephanie Land.

  • But I can talk.

  • And so, if you don't want to be on video,

  • 'cause your conscious of that, but you can talk,

  • and you're not a good writer, you need to start a podcast,

  • and you need to put your content on SoundCloud

  • and Spotify tomorrow.

  • And, if you've got the gift for gab

  • and charisma, and you like the camera,

  • and it lights you up like it does for me,

  • then you need to make videos tomorrow

  • on YouTube and Facebook and Instagram.

  • Tomorrow.

  • If you do not communicate that intent,

  • and then when I say go do,

  • you've gotta build a business or content,

  • but it needs to live in here.

  • There is no other world,

  • and it is the modern version of this.

  • Affiliate marketing and search and all these things,

  • they don't play the same way on this,

  • and there's nothing else.

  • I don't even have a computer any more.

  • I've lived the last 18 months of my life with only this.

  • I look at laptops like what is that?

  • The world is shifting faster than it ever has before,

  • but the way to win is as old at time.

  • Do the right thing,

  • and put in the fuckin' work.

  • Thank you.

  • (audience applause)

  • - Oh, we're gonna go right up to the front.

  • - I want to get real close.

  • - All right.

  • Shit, look at this. Thank you.

  • - You're welcome. - Thank you, brother.

  • - How incredible is this guy?

  • (audience cheers) Holy fuck.

  • - I'm only incredible because I'm saying the thing

  • that so many of you think, but you do things to cover it up.

  • You know your buddy's full of shit.

  • I just tell my buddy, you're full of shit,

  • and then they have a decision to make,

  • and so many of those buddies are like you know what?

  • I am, and I can deploy this charisma and gift for gab

  • if I just swallow it for three or four years,

  • I can actually be big, bigger than I would have been

  • by selling this short-term bullshit,

  • and feel good about myself.

  • I'm not doing this 'cause this makes me feel good

  • and I'm like ah, ha.

  • I'm doing this 'cause I want you to feel good.

  • I feel good.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - All right, so when I was in New York and we connected,

  • you talked about, you know, business man Gary

  • and then like Batman Gary. - Right.

  • - Right, and I absolutely loved this idea, this concept.

  • So, just for a second I want to talk to business man Gary.

  • When you're looking at investing in a company,

  • like investing in a business that's up and coming,

  • what are some of the key things that you look for?

  • What's like really important?

  • - Only two things I give a shit about.

  • One, do I believe in your thesis?

  • If you walk in and say I'm building a website

  • that really does well on a laptop

  • and sells ice cream in Alaska,

  • I'm like oh, that's a shit thesis, I'm out.

  • Right?

  • So, I have to believe in your thesis.

  • I believe that meditation over the next decade

  • is gonna be the big consumer space, right?

  • I feel like, thanks Mom.

  • (audience laughter)

  • But what you and I know

  • is that physical health has been a 30, 40 year trend,

  • it is time to talk about the mental part.

  • It's the whole game, it's all I've got.

  • By the way, if you dissect me, I'm so basic.

  • It's just EQ, it's just very basic things,

  • it's self-esteem, it's insecurity, right?

  • It's very simple, what I actually talk about.

  • I update it by the current state of the world,

  • but the thesis is as simple as it gets.

  • So, what you and I know is that

  • I believe every single person here

  • will be spending meaningful money on meditation,

  • whether going to meditation studios, 'cause it's trendy.

  • Whether getting an app so they sleep.

  • But it's gonna be great. I'm really excited.

  • I really, I'm excited to be like 70, 80

  • and see the full cycle of it,

  • 'cause it's gonna help so many,

  • so many people here would

  • benefit from mental games, right?

  • So if you come in and have a meditation,

  • if you came in and said I want to start the clothing brand,

  • like, remember Tap Out for UFC?

  • I want to start the clothing brand for the meditation space,

  • which seems ridiculous,

  • 'cause the meditation space in itself isn't fully baked,

  • and you want to be the clothing,

  • which has nothing to do with it,

  • you know, what is it gonna be, a headband?

  • I'd still be interested,

  • (audience laughter)

  • I'd be interested, because I believe it's gonna happen.

  • Then comma, and equally as important,

  • probably slightly more important to me,

  • is do I believe in her?

  • Can she do it?

  • Can she, when shit is tough,

  • thirteen months in and money's bleeding,

  • and she has to fire her best friend,

  • and she's not doing well, and it's lonely,

  • and she knows that her parents told her to go to Harvard,

  • but she did this, and now she's on the brink,

  • does she have the stomach to get through it?

  • The biggest issue right now, in 2017,

  • is entrepreneurship has become so popular

  • that characters like me take selfies

  • that everybody thinks they have to be one,

  • but it takes a certain kind of makeup,

  • and everybody's about to get punched in the mouth,

  • and most of them are gonna fold

  • like a bunch of fuckin' losers.

  • - All right, that's some real talk.

  • That's some real talk, we'll take it.

  • - So when I invest, I'm like okay.

  • If she walked in

  • and I believed in the meditation app she's building,

  • and I really liked her, I would say okay,

  • shit's gonna hit the fan,

  • probably before meditation gets big,

  • but there's something about her that makes me think

  • that when that shit hits the fan,

  • she's gonna turn it into a cupcake company

  • and we're still gonna make money.

  • That's what I'm looking for.

  • I'll fuckin' sell hot dogs tomorrow

  • if nobody wants to buy social media content.

  • I'm just telling you guys the truth,

  • that's what I would, I mean,

  • better than going out of business.

  • Love it when people are like

  • we're gonna go out of business.

  • I'm like, you're a bullshit entrepreneur.

  • Like, you didn't even try for a second.

  • The second adversity came you folded like a cheap chair.

  • Loser. (audience laughter)

  • - So let's talk about that.

  • Let's talk about adversity, 'cause I think,

  • I think this is something that-- - I love it.

  • - All entrepreneurs can relate to.

  • And I mean, yeah, so how do you deal with adversity?

  • 'Cause it's gonna happen. - Happily.

  • - Yeah. (laughs)

  • Just the one word answer.

  • I love it.

  • - Definitely not complain.

  • I love when people compain,

  • like somebody walked in my office the other day,

  • she's raised $100 million,

  • her company's huge.

  • She sits and complains.

  • I'm like, my friend.

  • I'm like, you've raised $100 million,

  • you've paid yourself a nice salary for the last six years,

  • you've lived on your own terms,

  • you've been on the cover of magazines,

  • I'm struggling to cry for you right now.

  • Like, you made your bed, lay in it.

  • So, I deal with adversity happily.

  • I know exactly what to do.

  • Meaning, you cut your expenses

  • and you maximize your profits.

  • And if you were smart, you knew it was coming

  • and you're not too over bloated in one way or the other.

  • I'm definitely not at the reliance of somebody else.

  • So, no VC's, or I've never raised money for my businesses.

  • I make money,

  • I don't give pieces away of my company for money.

  • Thank you. (audience applause)

  • And so, I don't know, I just like it.

  • I think battle scars are attractive.

  • - Like it. In terms of like building Batman

  • building this like personal, building this like

  • personal brand that you have that you put out,

  • which is why a lot, you know, a lot of us are here today.

  • I'm curious, you talk about document don't create.

  • - Yes

  • - How important is it to have something to create on?

  • Because I think, what you talk about is

  • you talk about a lot of these Millennials

  • and a lot of these younger people who are trying to

  • take the selfies and build an online profile,

  • but they don't have something to actually document.

  • So what does that look like in your business?

  • - By the way, it's not just Millennials,

  • there's plenty of 40, 50-, 60-, 70-,

  • 80-year-old non-executors, too.

  • The reason I came up with document over create

  • is for people that don't have something big already.

  • Like you should document your journey.

  • The first episode should be like,

  • "Hey, it's me, Rick."

  • (audience laughter)

  • Yeah, so, I kinda realized last night that I'm full of shit.

  • And, you know, my t-shirt company isn't fucking Nike.

  • You know, and so I'm just gonna talk about my journey.

  • And I'm gonna go to the gas station and fill up my car.

  • I mean like you... (audience laughter)

  • I think the only thing that really sells is truth.

  • And people always email me when I say that

  • they're like look at this guy they were a scumbag

  • I'm like yes, that person eventually goes to jail.

  • People are just looking, I don't,

  • dude I'm struggling out here.

  • I'm not joking, I'm struggling out here.

  • Like, really we're at a place now where kids think it's cool

  • if somebody goes and takes money out of a bank

  • and puts it on their fucking bed, and takes a picture of it?

  • Like what the fuck is the matter with you?

  • (audience laughter)

  • It's gonna be bad and it's gonna be fucking good.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - Alright, so I wanna back the train up a little bit

  • because meditation is something that

  • I think is really important, that mindfulness

  • in the workspace as entrepreneurs.

  • We had Moment out here which is like a tech company

  • here in Vancouver that represents

  • meditation and meditation in the workplace.

  • And I think it's really important.

  • How do you integrate that with your employees

  • and with your team, I'm really curious as to like how do you

  • build that within like the corporate infrastructure?

  • - Meditation? - Just mindfulness in general,

  • or if you haven't done it yet,

  • do you see it becoming a part of all work environments?

  • - I'm a funny entrepreneur.

  • I'm a bigger fan of capitalism than communism.

  • And so, I tend to like really let my people do their thing.

  • You know, I don't like doing things,

  • you know, I think of myself as the federal government,

  • and I think of my business leaders as like the states

  • using the American system, right?

  • So I don't actually manage, push down a lot of things

  • into my company because you know,

  • I think companies get very politically correct

  • and of the moment. I don't wanna like,

  • now everybody has to meditate, I've meditated once.

  • Because I invested in the company.

  • (audience laughter)

  • And I fucking hated it.

  • Doesn't mean that I don't think it's gonna be huge.

  • You know, I just don't wanna do it!

  • (audience laughter)

  • So, that's the truth like, listen I feel good

  • like maybe if my mental status changes, maybe I'll be like,

  • oh maybe that can help, I don't know

  • right now, I'm actually scared to meditate, bro.

  • I'm so happy I'm like, that meditation shit

  • better not fuck me up.

  • (audience laughter)

  • I think companies

  • do politically correct things and look stupid.

  • I love when big companies thought

  • by putting a foosball table and giving free cereal out

  • that that made them like Google.

  • I'm not a big fan of tactics, I'm a big fan of religion.

  • Here's my religion: I give a shit about my employees.

  • (audience applause)

  • I don't need to give them a foosball table, I don't know,

  • if Rick wants to go on vacation eight times a year,

  • we have unlimited vacation policy, unlimited.

  • Now, if you take eight weeks of vacation,

  • and you're not dismantling it

  • the rest of the year, you're fired.

  • But, unlimited.

  • I don't think Millennials like work-life balance.

  • I have nothing but 22-year-olds who are like

  • "I want more money, dick," I'm like okay.

  • (audience laughter)

  • I'm like work, you know, like you know I love, you know like

  • so I think people impose too much stuff, it's all tactics.

  • It's what I talked about with you guys.

  • The majority of people here that are solving the world

  • are in tactics not religion. They don't mean it.

  • They're posturing, companies do that.

  • They come up with happy hours and foosball tables,

  • and free cereal to make pretend they give a shit.

  • So, I talk about my truths, you know

  • we'll bring in somebody maybe speak about meditation

  • but they can or can't I don't judge on that.

  • I wanna reverse engineer every person one by one.

  • I'm not imposing my will on them.

  • Kid walked in the other day he goes,

  • "Gary, I'm gonna be the CEO of this company."

  • I'm like, bro, good now here's the problem,

  • you've already wasted too much time.

  • So, you know, whatever.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Like you're not gonna be the CEO of this company

  • when you took 4.3 weeks vacation last year, and you're 23.

  • You need to work 19 hours a day and learn.

  • - Yep, it's amazing.

  • - Here's what's fun - Okay, keep going

  • - You know what's fun about it?

  • It doesn't matter what I'm saying up here.

  • Like, all I'm repeating is what the market's doing.

  • Right, this isn't my opinion,

  • It doesn't matter that I'm saying it in a funny way,

  • sitting a funny way.

  • This is what the market does, I'm just saying

  • it's not me, this is what the market does.

  • Like, that's what people don't understand

  • I have no opinions, I'm just observing the market

  • and just reiterating it.

  • That's why it's fun, I don't take it personal,

  • like, I don't care for the three people that are gonna tweet

  • here, after this conference, tons of good

  • and there'll be three people like

  • I don't like Gary his ego's too much.

  • I'm like I don't care 'cause they're gonna be right

  • or I'm gonna be right. Maybe they're right.

  • Maybe my ego's too much and my head will explode next week.

  • (audience laughter)

  • I have a funny feeling I'm gonna fucking win.

  • (audience cheers)

  • And by the way

  • (audience laughter)

  • We all have it, right? Like we all still have

  • our chips and fun, I'm really enjoying this

  • Planet of the Apps thing.

  • Re/code wrote an article that said, Planet of the Apps coming

  • with Gwyneth Paltrow,

  • celebrity mentors Gwyneth Paltrow

  • Will.i.am, Jessica Alba,

  • and others.

  • (audience laughter)

  • And I was so pumped.

  • Like, I love adversity, My man, nobody in this room

  • you could be tied with me, but nobody in here loves more,

  • losing, adversity, difficulty. I'm a wartime general.

  • I hate this peacetime, these good times, meh.

  • This shit that's about to come, carnage.

  • Oh God, I'm ready, I'm so ready man.

  • - Because you've built your business out of that adversity.

  • - Guys, do you know what I did?

  • Do I have to remind the eight of you

  • that knew me seven years ago?

  • I was at the height, I was one of the 50 most followed

  • people on Twitter when there was no other networks.

  • I had just invested in Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr,

  • I was the guy, I was hanging out with Mark Zuckerberg

  • every week that he was in New York,

  • I had all the relationships, I was this

  • genius predictor of where the world's going,

  • and I started an agency.

  • This is not my words, these are my actions!

  • Who gives a shit what I'm saying, watch what I'm doing.

  • At the height of my career to be fancy,

  • I went and decided to do client services

  • and eat shit and have clients.

  • 'Cause I wanted to built a marketing machine for the future

  • I decided, let me take a step back

  • and build something for ten years, eat shit

  • make lots less money, have lots less fun

  • not cash in on all these great things I did,

  • let me build a foundation for, you know, 50 to 90.

  • So, like, I don't know, like I know I talk a lot

  • but I promise you, I'm doing way more than I'm talking.

  • - How do you, it's interesting 'cause watching your journey

  • it's almost like you have this cognition

  • of what's coming.

  • How have you developed that?

  • 'Cause I think that for a lot of us

  • it's challenging to see what's coming.

  • How do you cultivate that? I think it's so important

  • it's such an important skill.

  • - I got a good answer for you, I lack ego.

  • Let me explain what I mean by that, I know that's funny.

  • (audience laughter)

  • But I'll tell you how it happened.

  • And what I mean by that.

  • I was one of the first top 50 followed people on twitter.

  • Ego, kept a lot of those people staying on twitter

  • when other things emerged.

  • They didn't want Instagram to happen.

  • Do you know how many people in here loved

  • affiliate marketing web 2002?

  • Ego kept them out of social media.

  • Ego, do you understand?

  • I know that I ain't shit.

  • That the market is the king and the queen

  • and I respond to it.

  • So the reason I'm good like that,

  • is when new shit emerges

  • and then I go taste, and I make judgment calls.

  • One thing a lot of you know is

  • I talk about consumer VR being farther away

  • than a lot of people think, Why?

  • Because two and a half years ago I jumped into VR,

  • when I tasted it's beginning, and I used it,

  • and then I watched it and now I'm using my experience.

  • Which is what I love about 40-,50-,60-,70-,

  • 80-year olds, we've seen it.

  • You haven't 27-year-old Pat, you haven't seen it yet.

  • You will, so I saw it and I'm like wait a minute

  • this is internet 1990 the technology's here

  • but the consumer behavior's not.

  • There's not a person in this audience that

  • knows somebody that spends two hours a day

  • consistently living in VR.

  • So, you know, that to me is what's really exciting.

  • Other than people that are in the industry.

  • And so, you know, normal people don't.

  • And so we're still a further way away.

  • And so I taste things and then I make judgment calls

  • And that's why, and it comes from lack of ego.

  • It doesn't matter that you won the last thing,

  • there's a new thing here.

  • Didn't matter that I won email,

  • email wasn't gonna stay at 90% open rates.

  • It didn't matter than I won Google AdWords.

  • Google AdWords weren't gonna stay at five cents a click

  • and be the only thing.

  • And so I just lack, I just don't read my own press clippings

  • I just think I'm as good as my last at-bat.

  • I think I'm super fancy now

  • and that if I make seven bad decisions

  • nobody's gonna give a fuck and say

  • I told you so he was a huckster.

  • By the way,

  • that's how the market does it.

  • - I'm curious, I wanna shift gears a little bit.

  • You're talking about virtual reality.

  • I'm a huge nerd with AI-- - Okay.

  • - and I'm curious how you think AI,

  • we already have A&I here,

  • how do you think AI is going to shape

  • and shift technology in our communities and everything?

  • - It's real.

  • I call it third and half base.

  • Anything that AI and machines can do

  • to get us to third and a half base will be done,

  • and then we're gonna take it home.

  • Anything that's being done now by humans

  • that computers can do will be eaten up,

  • and let me just remind all of you.

  • That's a lot.

  • Driving cars and all sorts of shit

  • that we didn't think about 10 years ago,

  • so I'm a big fan.

  • Every single customer service job

  • that is in the business of emailing back

  • customer service answers is out of business.

  • Over the next three, seven, nine,

  • 12 years, I'm a huge fan.

  • I'm also very fascinated by voice.

  • I'm obsessed with Alexa and Google Home.

  • Listen, we care about time and convenience

  • and that's it.

  • That's it.

  • If I can just be brushing my teeth,

  • remember something,

  • it's quicker for me to say,

  • "Hey Google Home," or "Hey Alexa,

  • "Remind me to buy tomatoes,"

  • than to grab my phone and type it.

  • Just faster. Speed.

  • Speed wins everything.

  • Speed wins everything,

  • speed is absolutely

  • one of my two or three religions in business.

  • Speed. Fast.

  • Everybody's too precious,

  • you're overthinking your content.

  • You're overthinking your decisions.

  • You're better off doing 16 times of being right three times

  • than not doing anything at all.

  • You're pondering.

  • You lack the confidence

  • because you're worried about what people say.

  • I like losing.

  • That's why this is all so easy.

  • I don't give a fuck if you said I lost.

  • - [Man] Woo! - It's true.

  • It's an important thing, bro.

  • - [Man] Fuck yeah!

  • - I love your beard. - [Man] Thanks.

  • - Beard dude there is reacting to the right thing,

  • and I'll tell you why.

  • By not worrying about what other people think,

  • it allows you to do things.

  • By doing things, you either win

  • or you learn from your loss,

  • and it creates speed.

  • It's the absolute mental difference

  • between the people that are executing winning

  • versus the people that aren't.

  • It's the fear of others.

  • I don't want to lose,

  • but I'm definitely more disappointed

  • than your opinion in your blog post about my loss.

  • - I got one last question for you.

  • - Cool.

  • - When we chatted last,

  • you said that your daughter

  • has the edge.

  • She's got the entrepreneurial spark.

  • - No, she has charisma and storytelling.

  • I don't know if she has the entrepreneurial spark.

  • Maybe her environment of being rich as fuck

  • is not gonna let her be that. (audience laughter)

  • I'm serious.

  • By the way,

  • look, she may look at what Daddy did

  • and she's gonna look at that mountain and say, "Fuck that,

  • "I'm gonna give all his money away

  • "to people less privileged,"

  • and I will support the shit out of that.

  • I don't want her to be me,

  • I want her to be her

  • and whatever she does,

  • I'm behind her one billion percent.

  • (audience applause)

  • And I can tell you,

  • and I'm happy 'cause she's gonna watch this

  • one day when she's doing it.

  • She will win because she's got

  • the empathy and the charisma,

  • so whether she's raising funds for the needy

  • or she's trying to climb Daddy's mountain

  • and say, "Fuck you, Daddy, I'm doing it bigger."

  • She will win 'cause she's got it

  • and it's gonna be cool to see.

  • It'll be a fun experiment.

  • Maybe I was me because I had nothing

  • and when I wanted toys,

  • we didn't have the money for that,

  • so I had to go sell,

  • shoveling people's snow and lemonade,

  • and that's what did it.

  • Maybe 'cause she has everything

  • and has already done things in her life

  • that I didn't do until three years ago

  • and she had to be on that private plane with me

  • 'cause we had to go and things like that.

  • Maybe she won't have that hunger.

  • What she'll have,

  • I have gratitude and empathy.

  • Maybe she's gonna have guilt

  • that she had it so crazy good,

  • and that manifests in giving back.

  • I don't mind.

  • If she wants to paint with tomatoes, great.

  • I just want her to be fully pure in what loves,

  • the way I am.

  • Then, it has a funny way working out

  • 'cause I'm gonna remind everybody one more time.

  • Being an entrepreneur was not cool

  • when I was growing up.

  • It was just the only thing I knew.

  • - Amazing.

  • Well, we're gonna open it up

  • to Q&A. - Let's do it.

  • - I'm gonna jet out the stage.

  • I'm gonna leave them for you.

  • I'm just gonna remind everybody

  • that there are 1,350 people in here

  • that wanna ask questions,

  • so try and keep your questions brief

  • because there's a shit ton of people

  • that wanna ask questions.

  • We're gonna have mic runners.

  • I'm gonna leave the stage with you,

  • with these monsters,

  • so good luck. - Let's clap it up.

  • - Thank you. (audience applause)

  • - [Gary] I'm not in control of the questions,

  • people with the mics are.

  • Let's do it, who's got it?

  • Go ahead, grab someone. You're in.

  • I'm not picking.

  • - [Man 2] I got a question,

  • but before I go into it,

  • I just wanna take a minute and pay tribute to you, Gary,

  • because I think that 10 to 50 years from now,

  • you're gonna go down in history

  • as one of the greatest entrepreneurs in the world

  • like Walt Disney, Thomas Edison.

  • Give it up for Gary.

  • - I really think you're right.

  • (audience laughter)

  • No ego.

  • - [Man 2] My question is,

  • I run a video marketing company,

  • and in a lot of your keynotes,

  • I watch all your keynotes online,

  • you talk about the importance of redefining an industry.

  • What would you recommend

  • for someone like me in that industry

  • as a way that we can redefine it?

  • - Do you wanna redefine it?

  • - [Man 2] Yes. - Why?

  • - [Man 2] Because it's boring.

  • - I think that there's a couple things here.

  • Redefining it is fun for a lot of reasons,

  • mainly because you have the audacity to have legacy, right?

  • That's fun.

  • It tends to make long-term money versus short-term money

  • 'cause if you're right,

  • the video trends are obvious, right?

  • There's 360, it's out there.

  • It hasn't clicked the way people thought it would,

  • but it's still got a long way to go.

  • All the action is gonna be in VR in 20 years.

  • You're young.

  • I would commit my whole world to VR video,

  • wait 'til it becomes a reality,

  • eat the shit over the next seven to 12 years

  • because it's not gonna be there

  • and you're gonna be selling it,

  • but nobody's gonna want it.

  • Do whatever you have to do,

  • sell hotdogs and cupcakes to get there.

  • Then when the market's there,

  • you were a pioneer.

  • Guys, nobody wanted social media

  • when I was talking about it.

  • I just knew it was gonna happen

  • and I was willing to eat shit for a decade to get there,

  • so that's what I would do.

  • Cool.

  • Who's next? How many mics are there?

  • Go ahead.

  • Is there one in the middle?

  • Why don't you go to the middle?

  • Two? Got it, okay.

  • Hey.

  • - [Man 3] Hi, how are you? - Super.

  • - [Man 3] Hi, how's it going, Gary?

  • Thanks for the keynote, great information as always.

  • - Thank you.

  • - [Man 3] I watched your Hamburg keynote,

  • which was just about a week ago,

  • and you talked about,

  • much like what you're saying today,

  • how we've been through a cruel period

  • for the past seven or eight years,

  • and it's gonna come, the time's gonna come.

  • - I've been talking about this for six months now

  • because I feel it.

  • By the way, it still could be two years away.

  • It just doesn't feel like it's gonna 10 years away.

  • - [Man 3] Exactly, and I'm totally on board with that.

  • My question is,

  • for a motivational, inspiration blog

  • which is what I have right now,

  • which is my startup,

  • we have an ever-growing social media presence.

  • We're past that infancy stage

  • and we're starting to really grow,

  • and we doubled down on social media marketing.

  • We're putting out Facebook ads at scale,

  • Instagram, same thing.

  • We're putting out stories, content

  • and I've been doing it all day.

  • My question is, for someone that has doubled down

  • on social media marketing,

  • when that time comes,

  • whether it's today, tomorrow, two years,

  • given the landscape of the market right now,

  • how would you prepare in terms of a contingency plan?

  • - I would do more social media marketing

  • when shit hits the fan.

  • - [Man 3] Awesome. - Because that's what

  • you learned from the first internet bubble.

  • Everybody saw the internet bubble,

  • but it crashed

  • and then people walked away from the internet,

  • but consumers still were using it.

  • Just 'cause the stock market's gonna collapse

  • and then everybody's gonna react to that

  • and the economic meltdown will happen,

  • doesn't mean people stop using Instagram and Facebook.

  • The real question is, are you making money

  • and can you afford to operate during a shit time?

  • Because let me promise you what goes away

  • when shit time comes.

  • Shout-outs.

  • Coconut companies disappear,

  • so they don't have money to give you

  • the fit person $1,000 to post on your Instagram,

  • so the money goes away.

  • Can you make money when the money goes away?

  • 'Cause there's still money,

  • it's just left for the A-players.

  • - [Man 3] Cool, awesome.

  • Thanks, I agree with that so much

  • and you just totally reaffirmed

  • social media marketing for me,

  • so thank you. - You got it, bro.

  • Yo. - [Man 4] Yo, hey, hey.

  • So you've alluded to a healthy body and

  • a healthy mind, but you've also said that

  • you were open to PED use, for, you know,

  • performance enhancing.

  • Have you ever used nootropics? I wonder if you are

  • on any of that kind of stuff to get through those long

  • 18 hour days?

  • - Right, I have no idea what you just said.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Man 4] Well, you were on Joe Rogan

  • and you mentioned--

  • - Oh, so that I know, and Joe Rogan,

  • I don't know what nootronics is, so I've never used.

  • - [Man 4] Nootropics, modafinil, perazitam,

  • any of the things the bullet proof guy talks about taking,

  • to get through those long days.

  • - No, so, real quick just hold the mic,

  • because I want to jam on this.

  • So, it's really funny, how many people here are first

  • generation immigrants? Raise your hands.

  • So, I don't know if you guys have these same things,

  • I grew up in a Russian family where, if you had

  • a fever, you had to go to sleep.

  • Like, that was the answer to fix it.

  • So, it's really funny.

  • My parents, or wife, or sister, if they were here

  • right now, they'd be laughing.

  • I actually get knocked out if I take a single

  • Tylenol. - [Man 4] Okay.

  • - So, what I was saying to Rogan is I'm fascinated

  • in that all, as I've gotten, now that I'm in the gym

  • all the time, I'm fascinated that in 50 year,

  • or 20 years, people will say that steroids wasn't as bad as

  • it was positioned, right?

  • The way marijuana or alcohol, but I'm undereducated.

  • I've never, I don't even take supplements.

  • Because, I always think the people selling it

  • don't fully know. And I'm like, fuck it,

  • like I'm not taking it. So, I haven't.

  • I don't know if that's right or wrong.

  • - [Man 4] It's a dirty secret of

  • Silicon Valley that they all use Piracetam.

  • - Well, you know what's really interesting about that?

  • In these comments on all these videos I put up,

  • everyone's like, this guy's on coke, right?

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Man 4] No, I'm not saying you are,

  • I just wanted to know what your thoughts are.

  • - No, my thoughts are, I don't really judge people

  • for doing shit, right?

  • I don't think that's my place.

  • I don't do anything,

  • but I don't know if that's right or wrong.

  • - [Man 4] Do you know anyone who does it?

  • Have you been around it in that world?

  • (audience laughter) Not coke.

  • - Oh, I know a lot of people that do coke.

  • (audience laughter)

  • I know way more people that do coke than do steroids, bro.

  • I don't, listen I think, listen.

  • Bro, we're living in a school system that is

  • pushing medicine down kids throats.

  • Of course they're gonna be 23 and do shit.

  • They were taught that they were too "ADD"

  • and had to go on fucking medicine, because big

  • pharma figured out their way in.

  • Fuck that.

  • I aint taking shit ever mother fucker.

  • (audience laughter and applause)

  • And so, you have parents that lack self esteem

  • 'cause they worry about what the other parents

  • say about their kids that get D's and F's,

  • and they put their fucking kids on medicine,

  • you fucking loser parents.

  • (audience applause)

  • One man's point of view.

  • I gotta go with the mic, where's the mics?

  • Somebody talk with a mic.

  • Mics, you gotta make decisions here, let's go.

  • - [Woman] Hi. - Hi.

  • - [Woman] Hi, Gary I love you. - I love you, too.

  • - [Woman] What is one thing that you

  • believe to be true that most people think is crazy?

  • - Oh, that's a good question.

  • What do... One more time?

  • - [Woman] What's one thing that you believe to

  • be true that most people think is crazy?

  • - Most of it.

  • That's a really good question.

  • You know, usually can answer these pretty quickly,

  • I don't know, I think that,

  • so I think the truth is undefeated.

  • Like, I actually believe that it all works out in the end.

  • I think people are very cynical

  • and think that a lot of people get away with things.

  • But, I think that people don't understand, like,

  • the macro of things.

  • They might've gotten away with the way you judge,

  • which is they made a million bucks.

  • But, I know they don't sleep at night,

  • and their lives suck.

  • So, I would say that I blindly am optimistic,

  • and I believe that the market is the market,

  • and the truth is the truth, and so I believe

  • in that and I think most people don't.

  • (audience applause)

  • Questions?

  • Mics, only, where are the mics?

  • - [Allie] Hi Gary. - Hi,

  • - [Allie] Down here, straight ahead.

  • Straight ahead.

  • - I see you now.

  • - [Allie] Okay, hi Gary I Allie Davis,

  • lovely to meet you. - Nice to meet you.

  • - [Allie] I wanted to speak to you

  • particularly about family business.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Allie] We've got an interesting

  • and unconventional dynamic evolving.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Allie] I'm the 50-year-old,

  • and I've only just gotten into digital.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Allie] We took our son, who's 13 out of

  • school because... - 1,3? Thirteen?

  • - [Allie] 13. - Keep going.

  • - [Allie] We took him out of school 'cause

  • we don't believe in the system, and we're educating in

  • alternative ways. - Okay.

  • - [Allie] He's starting to get involved in

  • the business doing the digital stuff, which this

  • 50-year-old struggles with.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Allie] Now, so, he's interested in it,

  • he's getting involved, he's only 13.

  • So, we've got this unconventional family business

  • thing evolving with a 13-year-old, and a

  • 50-year-old, and what's most important to me is

  • my family. - Of course.

  • - [Allie] So for you, who's been involved

  • in a family business, for many years, what's the

  • most important thing for me to know and do,

  • as a parent of a 13-year-old, who's already wanted to be

  • involved in business?

  • - That's a great question, thank you for asking it.

  • Hold the mic for a second 'cause there might

  • be a follow up.

  • So, I got involved in my dad's business in a very

  • serious way at 14, probably not as serious as this

  • sounds, because I only worked every weekend and

  • summer vacation, there's a chance he could be

  • involved day-to-day. - [Allie] He is.

  • - There's one thing my dad and I did, that in hindsight

  • I can't believe most family businesses don't,

  • my dad and I loved each other more than the business

  • by one quarter of a thousandth of an inch.

  • (audience laughter)

  • So, your answer's very simple,

  • no matter what, no matter how big it gets,

  • you just need to actually back up your words,

  • if you actually just love your family more,

  • then it should be very easy.

  • - [Allie] It will be easy, because you're right,

  • I'm dedicated to my business, but I'm devoted to my family,

  • they'll always have the edge.

  • - Now, I'll say this and I love this,

  • it gets hard, because what happens is

  • people don't realize, it's not about the money

  • after a while.

  • It's about respect.

  • And that gets blurred.

  • Like, me and my dad, both sort of stunningly

  • don't give a shit about money.

  • But, respect, and honor, and who did it,

  • those things can get blended and that's where it gets hard.

  • So, keep an eye out for that, because that bleeds

  • more into family, 'cause people think it's a

  • money thing/family thing, it's not,

  • the money's completely not the factor.

  • It's the way you guys interact.

  • And by the way, your relationship with your

  • son, will never be the same, you know that right?

  • - [Allie] Yeah.

  • - When you go into business with somebody,

  • it changes everything forever.

  • You'll have a different relationship.

  • And by the way, my dad and my brother,

  • both my partners in my two businesses,

  • we have phenomenal relationships,

  • and I would never do anything different.

  • But, it is different.

  • And it's gonna change.

  • And, so you need to be prepared for that.

  • - [Allie] Thank you, and I see it

  • changing already, and him being the leader,

  • because he looks over my shoulder when I'm

  • watching some of your videos, and this whole

  • digital thing, 'cause I'm from a conventional

  • business background, has been quite scary for me.

  • And, one day he looked over my shoulder while I was

  • diddling about, oh god, (mic cuts out)

  • and he says, Gary Vaynerchuk would say,

  • just fucking do it.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - I love it.

  • Amazing.

  • Next question, yep.

  • - [Elijah] Hey Gary. - Hey.

  • - [Elijah] My name is Elijah, I too, ate shit.

  • So, we've got that in common. - I love it.

  • - I read a story about you when you were young.

  • One of the first, kind of, engagements you had

  • with Ricky Henderson. (Gary laughs)

  • And, how you kind of described it as you changed from

  • being a fan to being a fanatic.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Elijah] I wondered if you could

  • kind of describe that, as well as like,

  • what does it translate on a day-to-day basis,

  • with what you're doing today? - Got it.

  • So, you've got me completely pegged.

  • It's one of the signature moments of my career.

  • I went to my first baseball game in 1985,

  • Ricky Henderson was an outfielder for the Yankees,

  • he was coming off the field and he winks at me.

  • Now, important part, the crowd's big,

  • like watch this, 40 people think I just winked at them.

  • (audience laughter)

  • So, I'm hoping he winked at me,

  • but, I'm not completely sure.

  • Here's what happened, basically, for the next seven years,

  • I bought all his baseball cards, it was the t-shirt that

  • I bought. I talked about him, I became his biggest advocate.

  • In the same way as me growing up listening to

  • Richard Pryor, and Chris Rock, and Eddy Murphy,

  • has clearly affected the way I communicate on stage,

  • (audience laughter)

  • I do believe that somewhere, and when I wrote that article,

  • that you're referring to, it was when I realized,

  • holy shit, the way I'm treating social media,

  • is probably because ...

  • All I'm trying to do at this point, besides operate,

  • when I do the GaryVee thing, I'm trying to figure out

  • why I did it, how I got there, and then I'm trying

  • to tell you, so you can do it too, right?

  • So, I'm really getting in myself, really.

  • Like, I'm starting to hit up high school friends,

  • junior high friends, grammar school friends, lately,

  • on social and try to ask them if they remember anything.

  • Like, I'm really trying to bring out more stuff.

  • You don't need to hear the same shit over and over.

  • I'm trying to bring value.

  • Yeah, there's a big reason I'm liking everybody's comments,

  • and replying and DM'ing you randomly.

  • I think it's impactful. I think it feels nice,

  • if Randy "The Macho Man" Savage in 1992,

  • liked one of my tweets I would have lost my fucking mind.

  • - [Elijah] Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah.

  • - [Elijah] A follow up to that,

  • or just expanding on that,

  • what did, I know you described it, I don't know if

  • there's a difference in Canada, what's the greatest

  • arbitrage in social media today, and I'll let you go.

  • - Oh, it's the same in Canada.

  • Facebook ads, Instagram influencers,

  • there's nothing close.

  • You should spend all your money on it,

  • if you're marketing, to anybody under the age of 65.

  • Like 50 to 80-year-old Canada data on Facebook is crushing.

  • Like, you can reach most 72-year-old Canadians,

  • on Facebook.

  • At the cheapest price.

  • It's not that you're going to reach all of them.

  • Not all of them are on there, but if you

  • actually want to get to the most, at the best price,

  • it's called Facebook.

  • - Cool, who do we have?

  • Awesome, let's do it.

  • - [Man 5] Yo, what's good homie?

  • So my question is, how do you know when

  • your ego's in the way of things your doing?

  • - I'm not sure, like for every individual person.

  • I would say that,

  • I would say that if you're allowing your ego

  • to get ahead of your humility and

  • self-awareness it's clearly going to be in the way.

  • I think you need to pull very hard from both sides.

  • They both matter tremendously.

  • And it's just, you can't believe how truthful

  • it feels in my heart and stomach

  • when I say, I aint shit.

  • And I agree with the kid that says

  • I'm gonna be one of the greats.

  • I just believe in both of them, I just do.

  • I just do.

  • I also think that if you're one of the great

  • entrepreneurs of a generation doesn't

  • necessarily mean you're so special.

  • It means you were good at that craft.

  • What I'm trying to do is be a little bit special.

  • Nobody goes to somebody's funeral 'cause

  • they made $40 billion.

  • They go to the funeral because

  • that person did something that made them

  • feel like they should have went to the funeral.

  • So I'm trying to do both.

  • And so I would say,

  • that ego gets ahead of a lot of people.

  • But I think it's really hard to analyze that from afar.

  • Here's what I would say,

  • if you aren't 100% happy,

  • something's wrong so start auditing everything.

  • Cool.

  • Yo.

  • - [Man 6] Hey Gary, first of all

  • I just wanted to say, when I first heard you,

  • man, I thought you were a snake oil salesman.

  • - I get it.

  • - [Man 6] And I'm so glad

  • I didn't give up on listening to you because you're...

  • - Why didn't you?

  • - [Man 6] You know it was when you

  • started talking from the heart that really it,

  • something about it touched me and

  • I just really appreciated what you were saying.

  • - So wait in the same video, you're like

  • fuck this guy he's a snake oil salesman and wait a minute.

  • - [Man 6] You know what?

  • The first video I stopped watching and

  • then somebody I know posted a link and

  • I followed that one through and

  • loved what you said on that one and

  • since then I've just gone down the rabbit hole.

  • - Let me talk about that for a second.

  • - [Man 6] Yeah.

  • - That's what I mean by the truth.

  • It doesn't hurt me if people think that

  • because I know my personality and

  • it makes sense to me why somebody would think that.

  • It also doesn't bother me because

  • I know how it's gonna end up.

  • Go ahead. - [Man 6] I'm not even sure

  • why I started that way other than

  • just to tell you how much I appreciate what you're doing.

  • - I appreciate it man.

  • - [Man 6] I'm working on an idea right now.

  • - Actually watch this, how many people

  • in this audience started off not liking me?

  • (cheering)

  • Stand up, I want everybody to see it.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Let me tell you what that is.

  • That is either very quick consumption where they just

  • caught one sound bite where I was being

  • my ego self, and/or, they didn't want

  • to face their truth and I was suffocating them.

  • Go ahead.

  • - [Man 6] So I guess I'm asking

  • you this question cause I know

  • you get a lot of ideas come your way.

  • - By the way I'm never doing that again, that fucking hurt.

  • - [Man 6] Yeah sorry, buddy.

  • (audience laughter) - It still hurts.

  • - [Man 6] I didn't mean to hurt you.

  • - Still hurts, Jesus.

  • - [Man 6] Everybody in here loves you now though.

  • - I get it. Go ahead.

  • - [Man 6] All right so, I'm looking

  • for a way to use fitness tracking

  • to create monetary opportunities for people.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Man 6] Like to raise money

  • with your running, your walking,

  • your cycling though pledging.

  • - Interesting. - [Man 6] I'm just curious if

  • you've seen anything come across your desk

  • like that or if you've?

  • - Sure.

  • I've seen a ton of things that are, do this action

  • and that action will create the funding.

  • - [Man 6] Right, I'm looking for the unknown unknown.

  • Like what should I be looking at to figure out

  • where I need to go with this thing?

  • Like I'm pretty early in my hustle on this.

  • - First and foremost you should get very serious

  • about B-to-B not B-to-C. - [Man 6] All right.

  • - So big companies like to support shit like that

  • 'cause it makes them look good.

  • - [Man 6] Yeah. - Right?

  • Most people don't give a fuck.

  • Right? - [Man 6] Yeah.

  • - Like I mean, but there's one place I would look.

  • Go reverse engineer and study everything

  • about what Charity: Water did

  • when they did donate your birthday, right?

  • They found something there technology-wise

  • and theme-wise, right?

  • So I would say two things, case study on

  • Charity: Water donating your birthday.

  • Know everything about the psychology of why that worked.

  • And number two realize that the only way

  • you're gonna get past the first inning

  • is get corporations to subsidize the donations,

  • 'cause most people won't do it.

  • - [Man 6] Right on, thanks a lot Gary.

  • - Cool, you got it.

  • Hey.

  • (audience applause) Can I go late?

  • Can I go late?

  • (audience cheering)

  • I can go late a little bit.

  • Yeah? Yeah, cool.

  • Hey. - [Laura] Hello.

  • - Hello, hey.

  • - [Laura] What's up? - All good.

  • - [Laura] Okay, I'm gonna come up closer

  • just cause I want to speak to you face-to-face.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Laura] First of all I gotta say

  • this feels like being at a wax museum

  • when you see those famous people in person.

  • Yeah, except you're much better looking in person.

  • - Thank you.

  • I thought you were calling me waxy.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Okay. - [Laura] My name is Laura.

  • Just to give you a little bit of context

  • before I ask my question, what really resonated

  • with me a lot about your life

  • is that I'm a first generation immigrant.

  • And when you said that you couldn't afford

  • a Jets jersey and that's your dream

  • to own New York Jets.

  • For example, myself, I never owned

  • a single brand name handbag in my life.

  • - Right. - [Laura] Up until last year

  • when I got to manage

  • the number one top volume handbags floor

  • in one of the top department stores in North America.

  • - That's awesome.

  • - [Laura] So from there, currently aside

  • from managing the handbags floor at a department store,

  • because we are a public company I can't share that.

  • When I get off my work I work for the VR Association

  • 'cause you touch a lot on virtual reality.

  • So I spend about 15 to 20 hours a week

  • unpaid marketing work, doing marketing work

  • for VR Association and I just recently got a job,

  • another job, my third job, at a VR company.

  • And I kind of want to see, my job,

  • my goal is

  • to connect retail experiences with virtual reality

  • and for you before, within your lifetime

  • for myself to come up with a solution

  • that you don't have to go into a store--

  • - Okay. - [Laura] To shop for clothing,

  • and my question for you is,

  • so I come from a family background, as an immigrant,

  • where it's been tough financially.

  • And I'm at a place where I'm making my own money

  • but my parents have a lot of debt.

  • So for me to start my own business my family

  • thinks that it's very selfish.

  • - Okay - [Laura] I get it.

  • I went through the traditional route where

  • I went to a credible post secondary school.

  • I paid, well my parents paid $25,000 a year

  • on top of my brothers tuition, which was

  • another $30,000 a year.

  • That's reality.

  • - So what's the punchline?

  • - [Laura] I'm just saying,

  • is it selfish for me, for example...

  • - Do your parents want you to get a job and pay them back?

  • Let me understand what you're saying.

  • - [Laura] I'm just thinking,

  • I take that as my own burden as well and

  • do you think that that's something that

  • my parents should deal with?

  • - [Gary] Well did you guys discuss it before it happened?

  • - No, but it's just.

  • - Are you asking me if you should pay your parents back?

  • - [Laura] Yeah. - Yes.

  • - [Laura] Well in the long run yes,

  • but it's just. - Yes.

  • But if you decide to take, do I think you should

  • get a job and pay them off slowly

  • while the interest compounds versus

  • taking the risk to build something big?

  • - Well in terms of short run,

  • for example my mom works right now.

  • She's like 55 years old, 57 years old.

  • She makes $10 an hour and every now and

  • then I'm trying to make my own money and

  • trying to build money to start my own business.

  • Where every now and then she'll ask me,

  • hey can you pitch in for my rent?

  • And I've been paying for her rent and it's hard.

  • - Look, I'm not here to give people family advice

  • 'cause it's hard. - [Laura] Right.

  • - I think you need to, so we can move on here,

  • I think you need to answer one question.

  • What's gonna make you feel good about yourself?

  • That's what you should do.

  • If it feels better, to me this should not be very difficult.

  • You should pick and choose different moments

  • when you feel like you want to pitch in on rent,

  • pitch in on rent.

  • When you feel like, fuck that I want

  • to save so I can do my thing, do that.

  • - [Laura] Okay. - Awesome.

  • - [Laura] I just have one more question.

  • - No way, not with that fucking long question.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Hey.

  • - [Simsai] Hey Gary, Simsai here.

  • I just want to say that unlike half the room here

  • I fell in love with you when I read

  • Crush It! many years ago.

  • - Thank you. - [Simsai] Totally connected.

  • Before I ask my question I want to thank you

  • for liking my Bret Hart comment on YouTube

  • at 2 A.M. yesterday. (Gary laughs)

  • My question is, you always talk about the long game.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Simsai] And it's worked for me.

  • - Go figure.

  • - [Simsai] I did 11 years of

  • paycheck to paycheck and my 12th year

  • I became a great success.

  • - Good.

  • - [Simsai] Unfortunately, a lot of my clients,

  • family and friends in the same space

  • are struggling and they have the same hopes

  • and dreams that I do. - Okay

  • - [Simsai] And many of us, a lot

  • are talking about depression and suicide earlier.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Simsai] And I struggled with it.

  • It almost cost me my marriage.

  • - Yes. - [Simsai] And what can you tell

  • to others because you are the influencer of influencers,

  • what would you say to this room?

  • Because I have a lot of friends here

  • who struggle with it or have struggled in the past.

  • - Listen man, everybody's struggling with something.

  • My mom loves to tell the story about her dad,

  • who I met but I don't remember because

  • he died when I was like two and a half.

  • That he'd, basically the Russian term

  • would say like everybody's got their problems

  • in their rooster hen.

  • Like basically everybody's got shit.

  • What I would say is this,

  • you know this is the reason I don't like

  • fake entrepreneurship.

  • Because I think it leads to people feeling down

  • on themselves in a game that they were forced into

  • by the narrative when they weren't cut out for it.

  • So what I would say is like, most people

  • get depressed because they're worried

  • about external factors not internal factors.

  • And I don't know a lot about psychiatry and

  • all that stuff but people need an outlet

  • to get their poison out of their stomach.

  • So the only tangible thing I feel comfortable saying is,

  • if you're struggling, you need to communicate

  • that to somebody who isn't one of your

  • three closest family members 'cause you're

  • just putting your baggage on them.

  • That I believe in.

  • And so they need to find that outlet.

  • - [Simsai] All right, thank you. - You got it.

  • (audience applause)

  • - We staying here, where we going?

  • Thanks brother, nice shirt by the way.

  • Purewow's a company I invested in.

  • I'm giving Ryan a shout-out.

  • He's very happy right now watching this.

  • - [Woman 2] Hi Gary. - Hey.

  • - [Woman 2] So you said earlier that the truth

  • is what sells.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Woman 2] My question is, is there such thing

  • as being too honest?

  • - No. - [Woman 2] Okay well.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Woman 2] I know you don't like hypotheticals.

  • - Is it a hypothetical or are you disguising?

  • - [Woman 2] So I'm going to go.

  • I have a background and I've been an entrepreneur

  • since I was 19.

  • I've worked for myself since I was 19.

  • - Okay.

  • But my background is in the adult entertainment industry.

  • - In the what?

  • - [Woman 2] Adult entertainment.

  • - Adult, porn?

  • - [Woman 2] No.

  • - I'm sorry, adult entertainment.

  • - [Woman 2] Dancing and escorting.

  • - Respect.

  • - [Woman 2] And then I now own an online virtual

  • assistant service to high-end escorts

  • where we do, or basically female CEOs

  • as I communicate with them. - Okay.

  • - [Woman 2] But my concern is I'm making the transition

  • into a more public, I have an alias there

  • and my real name,

  • blah-blah-blah, everything's legit.

  • My concern is you know you say the truth sells.

  • I'm concerned about being really honest.

  • But what happens when I work with clients?

  • I'm transitioning into coaching.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Woman 2] Working with women and people.

  • When I share my story they have breakthroughs.

  • But my question is more in social media.

  • Where is the agreement reality in the marketplace

  • and the trend for that type of truth?

  • Yeah so look, I think that it's crazy.

  • There are people that will judge you and that won't.

  • I just think you just got to roll with your truth.

  • It would be insane, if you were pitching me

  • a business right now, that wouldn't even run

  • through my mind as a negative.

  • And somebody sitting next to me would think

  • that's the worse thing that they've ever heard

  • and never want to talk to you.

  • You're going to have to play out and let the chips

  • fall where they are, right?

  • Meaning you don't even need that on your head

  • and on your chest worrying about people finding out.

  • It's just better for you to own it than to let somebody else

  • own it above you.

  • (audience applause)

  • - [Woman 2] Thanks. - You're welcome.

  • Let's do it.

  • You're about to, I think.

  • - [Braxton] Okay, Braxton. - Braxton.

  • - [Braxton] Yeah, so I'm starting an energy drink

  • with a strong point of differentiation.

  • I'm just sort of, it's got a dilemma if I should

  • develop the brand as itself or if it should have

  • a strong personality behind it, like with your brand,

  • for example.

  • You're inextricable from your brand.

  • Not least of which your name is in it.

  • But when I think of your brand, VaynerMedia, I think of you.

  • Right? - I'm listening.

  • - [Braxton] Same with Steve Jobs with Apple.

  • Whereas if you've got like Google you don't think

  • of Larry Page or Sergei Brin.

  • I'm curious if you have a preference?

  • - Notice how both work.

  • - [Braxton] Yeah, but I'm wondering if you would think

  • that one or the other would be better if it was

  • different than how it is and what your general

  • explication on that would be.

  • - Nope, so both work.

  • Both have worked forever.

  • There's plenty of quadrillionaires

  • that you've never heard of and you don't

  • associate them with.

  • I think your bigger dilemma is you're going

  • into the beverage industry.

  • (audience laughter)

  • I'm not, meaning you know how hard that is, right?

  • - [Braxton] I will I guess, yeah.

  • - Well let me give you a preview.

  • You're going up against the biggest companies

  • in the world who basically have the best model down

  • which is they pressure any retailer when any drink

  • gets any leverage to kick them out

  • or then they don't subsidize the trade dollars.

  • They've basically, it's really one of the most gangster

  • businesses in the world.

  • - [Braxton] I see with like Richard Branson,

  • they did that with his Virgin Cola.

  • - Yeah, and I feel like he had a better start than you.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Braxton] It's possible.

  • - But you know what's awesome about the market?

  • You might be that one,

  • but I think before you worry about

  • should I build my personal brand and coinciding with that,

  • you need to realize you're going into a gunfight

  • with a pebble.

  • - [Braxton] I'll aim well.

  • - And that's right, so you should be spending zero time

  • on that which clearly has been historically played out

  • that both work, and you should do you.

  • And you need to figure out how you're going

  • to distribute and make this product profitably

  • in a world where you're going up against very difficult

  • political infrastructure.

  • - [Braxton] Cool, thanks.

  • (audince applause)

  • - [Mary] Hello Gary. - Hello.

  • - [Mary] Hello, I'm Mary, I'm really glad to meet you

  • and I'm really nervous right now.

  • - Don't worry, I'm super far away.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Mary] Now that they're all looking at me.

  • I'm a marketing consultant

  • and I help clothing stores.

  • - Okay.

  • - [Mary] So clothing retailers and I'm going to ask

  • a selfish question. - They normally are.

  • - [Mary] Do you have any ideas or tactics on how

  • I could reach them and give them value?

  • - So reach them and give them value so they hire you?

  • - [Mary] Eventually yeah.

  • - Do you know the names of the people that would hire you?

  • - [Mary] Yeah.

  • - Great, so I would follow them on every social network.

  • Figure out what they care about outside of their job

  • and then I would talk to them on social networks

  • around their interests, not their job.

  • Don't talk to me about social media,

  • talk to me about the Jets and Bret Hart

  • and you'll get to me quicker.

  • - [Mary] All right, thank you very much.

  • - You're welcome.

  • (audience applause)

  • By the way, that tactic I just said, everybody should do.

  • Anybody that you're trying to sell to you need to follow

  • on every single platform.

  • Know who they are, and then exploit that to get their money.

  • - [Beard Dude] Hey Gary. - Hey man.

  • - [Beard Dude] Beard Dude.

  • - Beard Dude, I'm glad you came out.

  • - [Beard Dude] Thanks, so my question is the reason

  • I love you is because you talk about eating shit.

  • - Yes.

  • - [Beard Dude] And it's the hardest thing to do.

  • - That's why so few people win.

  • - [Beard Dude] Exactly, and you talk about the joy,

  • you love failing.

  • You love losing and that's a mentality that's so important.

  • So I was wondering if you could just spend a little

  • more time talking to us about what it takes

  • to re-engineer our neural relationship to pain and losing?

  • - I don't know, I think that's a really

  • interesting question. I don't know how to create that.

  • I don't know why any time I watch a sport

  • that I root for the underdog, every time.

  • I make fun of all my friends who are fans

  • of the best teams because I'm like really?

  • You need to jump on a

  • bandwagon to feel better about yourself?

  • Like, you're really wrapping your self-esteem up

  • into a team that you didn't care about

  • but they just won and you bought their t-shirt?

  • You're the ultimate loser.

  • So I don't know why I do that.

  • I don't know how that happened.

  • I do believe some of that is upbringing.

  • I do think that's the underdog entrepreneur,

  • immigrant thing.

  • I do think that's there.

  • I definitely am not the person that knows how

  • to engineer that, but I do think that I'm adding

  • to the conversation.

  • There's not a lot of people out there right now

  • that look like me that are talking about

  • the love of losing.

  • Then if you capture admiration maybe then

  • they think that's good.

  • I'm very driven by Steve Jobs' narrative.

  • I just want everybody to know.

  • Him becoming the famous person of Silicon Valley

  • when I was really deeply in it and the narrative

  • that he was tough on his employees

  • and treated them like shit.

  • I watched smart, nice kids start treating their employees

  • like shit because they looked up to Steve Jobs

  • and they thought that was the right thing to do.

  • The reason I'm talking about all these true things

  • is I hope there's a 15-year-old girl that's looking

  • up to me on the internet right now

  • and she tries to treat people better because she thinks

  • I'm cool and that's my system.

  • (audience applause)

  • So I don't know how to do it,

  • but if I'm actually going to be influential

  • and if I have a big responsibility with all the

  • attention that I have right now, I think just in the fact

  • that I'm talking about it has already impacted

  • others to think about it.

  • Thanks man.

  • - You're kicking me off, huh? Can I get one more in?

  • - One more. - Alright, cool.

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Man 7] Hi, I'm--

  • - You know I'm going to get more than one, right?

  • (audience laughter)

  • - [Man 7] (laughing) I was able to.

  • I am very thankful to be able to speak with you

  • and thank you for being here.

  • I got this ticket because, I'm going to ask you a

  • question that in a sec, but I have to thank you

  • because two years ago, I was paralyzed

  • and I couldn't walk.

  • (Gary sighs)

  • I am actually still walking with a brace.

  • (audience applause)

  • No, it's (laughing)...

  • (audience cheering)

  • I've been training martial arts for 21 years of my life

  • and to have lost everything and my ability to walk.

  • Man, there was three people who helped me, my family,

  • close friends and your videos, man.

  • (audience cheering)

  • - Thank you, man.

  • - [Man 7] Yeah, fuck.

  • And (clears throart) it was a video actually you were

  • talking about, you know, what are you 20, 30-years-old,

  • like what are you going to do with the rest of your life?

  • You still have time, do something

  • and honestly, it was so motivating.

  • So thank you man.

  • - Thank you man, means a lot to me.

  • - [Man 7] Thank you, my question is,

  • is now I started a company for self-defense

  • because there was a lot of sexual assaults

  • that was happening in and around UBC and SFU

  • and I was tired

  • of people being a victim like I was, I guess.

  • - Sure.

  • - [Man 7] And I wanted to do something about it.

  • So, I made this self-defense company

  • and I have a great deal of students and one of things,

  • one of the challenges that I face all of the time

  • with some of these students is anxiety

  • and how I can help them--

  • - Yeah.

  • - [Man 7] See that they are, you know,

  • they can do more than they think

  • and that they're stronger than they know.

  • How would you, hiring someone who is new, say,

  • and you see that they have this talent

  • and potential, how would you articulate

  • or explain to them--

  • - You know how I'd do it. I'm doing it.

  • I'd put pressure on the true answers.

  • I'd ask them why, did their mom fuck them up?

  • I'm being serious.

  • Insecurity is the seed that creates all these issues.

  • - [Man 7] Absolutely.

  • - And so I'm trying to figure out why

  • they didn't build self esteem,

  • who didn't build self esteem.

  • And the reason I bring up mom, is like, Jesus,

  • it's such a big percentage of it.

  • Mom or dad, is like 80% of it.

  • It's just, you know, I do this a lot.

  • Listen, my dad, listen, I don't talk a lot about this,

  • that's what happened to my dad.

  • My dad, I am so impressed by him.

  • The way my grandmother parented my dad,

  • it's unacceptable. That's the only word I can think of

  • and not only that, they did it and then,

  • you know I have a lot of empathy for my grandma.

  • They did it in the worst place in the world, Soviet Russia.

  • So, I'm fascinated by it because I had the reverse.

  • I'm so perfectly parented by my mother, I'm unstoppable.

  • So, I look at that and I'm like, how, like, I feel,

  • I,

  • I feel guilty that I'm so emotionally grounded

  • and strong, that's why I'm giving it to you.

  • What do you thinks happening up here?

  • I feel guilty that I have it so good mentally.

  • There's nothing anybody can do to my mental state.

  • It's insane.

  • I am so weird, guys.

  • (audience laughter)

  • Nothing hits, it's like I'm numb

  • and so I go right to the core.

  • I do it when I see it sometimes.

  • I'm like, hey, you are unbelievable

  • and you think you're shit, that's bad.

  • We need to talk about this,

  • tell me everything about your childhood.

  • (laughs) Like, you know, and I just go there

  • and you know sometimes you get a little break,

  • but what's really fun is they start thinking about it

  • and it changes behavior.

  • I get an email every day that says

  • that they disconnected from somebody

  • in their inner circle and for the last six months,

  • they're breathing for the first time in their lives.

  • It is not easy to break up with your brother.

  • It is not easy to break up with your spouse.

  • It is not easy to break up with your father,

  • but that's actually the binary move,

  • if they're the poison of your life.

  • And we don't talk about that, none of us,

  • but it's the truth and we all know it.

  • So, A, if that's your reality, you need to think,

  • 'cause guess what you have one life and you don't want

  • to be 73 when your parent passes away

  • and finally start breathing.

  • B, if that is not your life,

  • you need to drive home right now

  • and kiss your parents in the face.

  • So that's what I do.

  • (audience cheering)

  • - [Man 7] Thank you, man.

  • Thank you, man, thank you.

  • - Thank you, man.

  • - Alright. - Alright, one more.

  • - I got to rope you off. - One more, one more.

  • - I got to rope you off, man. - One more, one more.

  • - I got to rope you off. - No, no, no, no, don't.

  • - I got to rope you off. - No, no.

  • - I got to rope you off. - Okay, fine.

  • - These people got to go. - Thank you.

  • - They got to go, give him a round of applause.

  • Stand up, stand up.

  • (audience applause) Stand up.

  • - Thank you

  • (audience cheering)

  • - Thank you

  • - Got the selfies, oh my god, the selfies.

  • Holy smokes.

  • It's like the bomb rush.

  • Okay, hold on, hold on, before like sheer chaos ensues.

  • Before sheer chaos, oh my god.

  • We got something for you though.

  • - [Gary] Thank you. Boom, there we go.

  • - [Gary] Alright.

  • - We're going to have time, don't worry, don't worry.

  • - Bye guys.

  • - Alright, I got something for you.

  • - Okay.

  • - I got something for you, hold on.

  • Remember those nice kicks that you liked?

  • - Ew, these are fucking fly.

  • - So that's from 604, I know how much you love kicks.

  • - Yes.

  • - From 604, a local company.

  • - Amazing.

  • - Got them done up for you,

  • a limited edition from a local artist.

  • - Fucking rad, thanks so much.

  • - Awesome, thanks brother. Thank you.

  • - Thank you guys for your attention.

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