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  • -"Am I the one?"

  • Me and Joey were one in a million, I think.

  • We just bonded so well.

  • -But we was only actually officially together for a few months.

  • I think we split up because we rushed into things a little bit too much.

  • I got scared of the commitment and pushed her away.

  • -Things were difficult between us, having distance between homes,

  • different lives, work, friends, family.

  • Thank you.

  • Oh, look at that!

  • -Thank you.

  • Ah... (HE CHUCKLES

  • "Were we too different to be together?"

  • SHE CHUCKLES NERVOUSLY

  • -Yes, I think. -Difficult to make time for each other -

  • different like that, ain't we?

  • Different backgrounds, different where we live.

  • Like, your social life and your work life...

  • When you say "social", what do you mean?

  • -Like, you go out a lot and, like, just see your mates,

  • put them first over everything.

  • -No, I... No, I don't. -Yes, you do.

  • -Like, you'll say... "I'm going out with the girls tonight."

  • And then it'll be nine o'clock and you'll be like,

  • "Oh, the girls are busy. Do you want to come round?"

  • And be like, drop of a hat, "Do you want to come?"

  • -When...? -Rather than make time.

  • It was your choice at the start, to split up,

  • and...here you are today... -I guarantee...

  • -She likes to click her fingers and hope I'll come running,

  • and that's not always the best things for a relationship.

  • Spending time with her is difficult to come by.

  • Do you think that, 'cause you live an hour and a half away,

  • -it's difficult to have a relationship? -100%.

  • -Rianna lived quite far away from me,

  • so I'd only really saw her at the weekends.

  • - It was kind of like a one-way thing where he'd make all the effort,

  • and I did feel bad,

  • which probably made it harder, as he probably thought

  • he was pulling his weight a lot more than I was.

  • How many times you driven to me in three years?

  • Despite you saying, "I want this to work."

  • -I'll count. -Go on, then.

  • -Four times. -So that's once a year, basically.

  • Don't make it out like it's just all me. It's not all me.

  • He thinks that it's sort of all my fault, why we didn't work.

  • I felt like he threw that at me a lot.

  • -"And what are my best qualities?"

  • -Your best one's probably you are a caring person, deep down.

  • You're quite bubbly, as well.

  • Like, I'm quite just laid-back and chilled, whereas you're very...

  • -You're laid-back and chilled? - I think I'm quite laid-back.

  • - I feel like you don't know yourself. - Yeah, I do know myself...

  • and you're quite bubbly and crazy and mental.

  • -I do fancy Joey because he has got this personality, for one,

  • that draws me right in.

  • I think you're funny. -Do you?

  • You always say I've got terrible banter.

  • -You do have terrible banter, but you are funny.

  • I could probably rely on you on a bad day.

  • We've always just had this thing where we find each other back again.

  • I don't know how it works, or what makes it work,

  • but we just have that contact and that friendship

  • that we just can't let go.

  • I would say it's love. He might say it's different.

  • -Cheers. Thank you. -Thank you.

  • -"Am I the one?"

  • Don't choke on your cheesecake. SHE LAUGHS

  • -I want this meal to be an opportunity

  • for me and Joey to have closure.

  • We either need to be together, or not be together.

  • Um...

  • -Yes, I think you are. -Really? -I don't want to be with anyone else.

  • Does that make sense?

  • Because I know it's here already. -Right.

  • I'm not trying to be cheesy- I'm just saying.

  • (THEY LAUGH)

  • Am I the one?

  • (HE LAUGHS)

  • You're taking a bit long to answer, so...

  • Despite being on and off, I still have strong feelings...

  • Oh, don't say that, don't say that...

  • I don't know how I feel about her, that's the problem.

  • Don't want to pour my heart out on telly.

  • She was the first person I proper had feelings for,

  • so even though it's three years on, I still...like speaking to her.

  • See, I don't know, 'cause nothing's perfect.

  • I look for everything to be perfect,

  • and if it's the one, everything will be perfect.

  • If you was the one, you'd live near me and then...

  • it would all be fantastic.

  • You'd be attending everything with me and we'd be an item.

  • Would you move closer to me to be the one, or...?

  • I want to say yeah... Mm.

  • ..but I don't know if I'd be able to go through with it.

  • It is a big commitment, obviously, if I was to move down with you...

  • ..and I'd think mainly, for me, it'd be work, 'cause it'd just...

  • Like, it would just be a bit of a nightmare.

  • 'So if she made time for me, things would probably work.'

  • I don't know, maybe now we've grown up, things might change.

  • "What's next for us?"

  • I don't know.

  • You're still my best mate, and we can carry on like that...

  • or what you want to...see each other more.

  • I haven't seen you for ages, so...

  • Is that you saying... No, I'm asking you. ..I'd like to see you?

  • I'm asking you. I'm not telling you.

  • I think I'm going to take up the offer. I'm going to see you...

  • -Who's offering? -You so was.

  • -That was not offering. -You so was. -That was a question.

  • I was questioning your question. Do you want to see me more?

  • -I was answering your question with a question. -Yeah...

  • Nowadays, we both worked very hard, we have to...

  • make the effort to see each other as much as possible.

  • Like, I'm willing to...to, you know, try again.

  • -To make a bit more effort, yeah? -Yeah.

  • And you know I will. I told you. I've just grown up so much.

  • -Yeah, I'm just saying, I haven't really got time.

  • -To what, see me? -Yeah.

  • not see you, but before, I'm not going to come running,

  • but if we plan ahead for weekends or things, I can see you more.

  • I'll put in the effort, as well, obviously...

  • just to see how things go.

  • Like, see if we could get back to where we was...

  • rather than just friends.

  • -Great. I'm fed up of being your friend. -Fed up of being my friend?

  • But, um, yeah...

  • -Did you get your lashes done? -I did, I did.

  • Leaving with Joey today makes me feel...

  • butterflies inside, I suppose,

  • just to see what the future can hold for us.

  • -Leaving with Rianna today,

  • it'll be nice to take things to the next level.

-"Am I the one?"

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