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  • Well, hello everybody. And, welcome to my kitchen. We all know that guys' body language can

  • be one of the most confusing things. But, if we know the key tricks to reading it correctly, it can

  • actually be one of the most accurate ways to read how he's feeling. Do you guys know what it

  • means if he's sitting on his hands, if he's fidgeting, or if he's standing with his toes pointed

  • toward each other? Well, by the end of this video, you're going to know all of those things.

  • Today, I'm giving you 9 specific things to look for in your crush's body language, so the next

  • time you have a chat with him, you can read him like a book and know exactly how he feels

  • about you. This week, I did a surprise Q&A on Instagram where I answered all of your questions

  • live for 2 hours straight. And oh my gosh, you guys, it was like the most intense 2 hours of my

  • life. So many of you had relationship questions, and it was so much fun for me to get to interact

  • with you guys. If you do want to be part of the next one, be sure to follow me on Instagram and

  • Twitter, because I will be doing more surprise Q&As at any random moment. So, come and

  • follow me over there, you guys. Now, let's get right into the decoding.

  • This is my hubby, Nathan. And, he's going to be helping us out today a little bit by

  • demonstrating some of the body language postures for guys.

  • #1 is that he sits or stands with his toes facing each other. If he sits with his toes pointed toward

  • one another, he's literally closing himself off. Probably, because he feels awkward or insecure.

  • This is probably because he cares a lot about impressing you and probably doesn't feel totally

  • comfortable around you yet. So, if you like this guy, make sure that your body language is

  • reassuring. Try smiling, leaning in, and making eye contact.

  • #2 is sitting on his hands. People who lie will typically hide their hands for fear that their hands

  • will give away the truth. But, if he's sitting on his hands, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's

  • lying. It likely means that he's trying to control what's coming out of his mouth. This guy may

  • be walking on eggshells because he's afraid he's going to say something stupid and mess up his

  • chances of being with you.

  • #3 is fidgeting. Now, we all know that a lot of guys fidget. So much so, that we actually just

  • chalk it up to normal guy behavior. But, have you ever wondered why this is? Fidgeting is a

  • subconscious way to relieve tension- tension in the mind and tension in the body. If he's

  • fidgeting in a conversation with you, it's because he's feeling uncomfortable and likely wants to

  • get out of the conversation that you're having.

  • #4 is a half smile. Now, a half smile is kind of like a little smirk. It's when one side of his face is

  • smiling and the other one is not. And, this usually happens subconsciously because each side of

  • his face is actually giving a different message with a different intension. One side of his face is

  • being honest, and kind, and loving, and amazing, and committed. And the other side is a frikkin

  • little devil.

  • The guy is trying to look sincere, but the little devil's coming through. So, watch out. This guy

  • might not be being totally honest about his intensions. He may be telling you that he wants a

  • relationship, when in reality, all he wants is a little fun.

  • #5 is when he points his chest and shoulders toward you, even if he's actually looking at

  • something else. This is a really good sign, ladies. A guy typically points his body and chest

  • toward the thing in the room that means the most to him. And in this case, it seems like that thing

  • is you.

  • #6 is that he uses his hands. So, one of the most important things to look for in a guy's body

  • language are his hand gestures. Now, a person gestures a lot when they're trying to make sure

  • you understand what they're saying, and when they're trying to hold your attention. And the

  • more they gesture, the harder they're trying to achieve that. So, if a guy uses his hands a lot

  • while he's talking to you, he probably totally likes you.

  • #7 is any stare longer than 3 seconds. 3 seconds may seem really short, but in eye contact time,

  • it's a really long time. Let's give it a whirl.

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  • So, what we do know is that piercing gazes this long just don't happen naturally. So, if a guy

  • does try to hold your gaze for 3 seconds or longer, it's because he's actively trying to get your

  • attention.

  • #8 is that he touches his hair. In your presence, a guy who likes you might start touching,

  • twirling, or playing with his hair while smiling. This indicates that he likes you, but that he might

  • be a little bit nervous. But watch out for head scratching or playing with his hair while he's

  • frowning. Both of these could be signs that he's either bored or frustrated. Hopefully, not with

  • you.

  • #9 is the eyebrow flash. And my amazing Ask Kimberly subscribers already know that this is

  • when he raises his eyebrows up and down quickly right after he catches a glimpse of you. This

  • means he's totally and utterly into you. Men literally shift gears when they see something they

  • like. They go from just being in the world and looking around at things that don't really mean

  • anything to them, to focusing in on something that truly wows them. And in this case, that's you.

  • So, my lovely friends, if you love this video, give it a huge thumbsup. Come and follow me over

  • on Instagram and Twitter. And of course, guys, subscribe to Ask Kimberly for more weekly

  • videos on relationships. Bye, everybody.

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