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Well, hello everybody. And, welcome to my kitchen. We all know that guys' body language can
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be one of the most confusing things. But, if we know the key tricks to reading it correctly, it can
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actually be one of the most accurate ways to read how he's feeling. Do you guys know what it
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means if he's sitting on his hands, if he's fidgeting, or if he's standing with his toes pointed
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toward each other? Well, by the end of this video, you're going to know all of those things.
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Today, I'm giving you 9 specific things to look for in your crush's body language, so the next
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time you have a chat with him, you can read him like a book and know exactly how he feels
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about you. This week, I did a surprise Q&A on Instagram where I answered all of your questions
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live for 2 hours straight. And oh my gosh, you guys, it was like the most intense 2 hours of my
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life. So many of you had relationship questions, and it was so much fun for me to get to interact
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with you guys. If you do want to be part of the next one, be sure to follow me on Instagram and
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Twitter, because I will be doing more surprise Q&As at any random moment. So, come and
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follow me over there, you guys. Now, let's get right into the decoding.
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This is my hubby, Nathan. And, he's going to be helping us out today a little bit by
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demonstrating some of the body language postures for guys.
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#1 is that he sits or stands with his toes facing each other. If he sits with his toes pointed toward
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one another, he's literally closing himself off. Probably, because he feels awkward or insecure.
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This is probably because he cares a lot about impressing you and probably doesn't feel totally
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comfortable around you yet. So, if you like this guy, make sure that your body language is
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reassuring. Try smiling, leaning in, and making eye contact.
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#2 is sitting on his hands. People who lie will typically hide their hands for fear that their hands
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will give away the truth. But, if he's sitting on his hands, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's
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lying. It likely means that he's trying to control what's coming out of his mouth. This guy may
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be walking on eggshells because he's afraid he's going to say something stupid and mess up his
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chances of being with you.
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#3 is fidgeting. Now, we all know that a lot of guys fidget. So much so, that we actually just
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chalk it up to normal guy behavior. But, have you ever wondered why this is? Fidgeting is a
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subconscious way to relieve tension- tension in the mind and tension in the body. If he's
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fidgeting in a conversation with you, it's because he's feeling uncomfortable and likely wants to
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get out of the conversation that you're having.
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#4 is a half smile. Now, a half smile is kind of like a little smirk. It's when one side of his face is
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smiling and the other one is not. And, this usually happens subconsciously because each side of
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his face is actually giving a different message with a different intension. One side of his face is
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being honest, and kind, and loving, and amazing, and committed. And the other side is a frikkin
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little devil.
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The guy is trying to look sincere, but the little devil's coming through. So, watch out. This guy
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might not be being totally honest about his intensions. He may be telling you that he wants a
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relationship, when in reality, all he wants is a little fun.
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#5 is when he points his chest and shoulders toward you, even if he's actually looking at
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something else. This is a really good sign, ladies. A guy typically points his body and chest
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toward the thing in the room that means the most to him. And in this case, it seems like that thing
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is you.
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#6 is that he uses his hands. So, one of the most important things to look for in a guy's body
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language are his hand gestures. Now, a person gestures a lot when they're trying to make sure
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you understand what they're saying, and when they're trying to hold your attention. And the
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more they gesture, the harder they're trying to achieve that. So, if a guy uses his hands a lot
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while he's talking to you, he probably totally likes you.
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#7 is any stare longer than 3 seconds. 3 seconds may seem really short, but in eye contact time,
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it's a really long time. Let's give it a whirl.
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So, what we do know is that piercing gazes this long just don't happen naturally. So, if a guy
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does try to hold your gaze for 3 seconds or longer, it's because he's actively trying to get your
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attention.
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#8 is that he touches his hair. In your presence, a guy who likes you might start touching,
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twirling, or playing with his hair while smiling. This indicates that he likes you, but that he might
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be a little bit nervous. But watch out for head scratching or playing with his hair while he's
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frowning. Both of these could be signs that he's either bored or frustrated. Hopefully, not with
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you.
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#9 is the eyebrow flash. And my amazing Ask Kimberly subscribers already know that this is
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when he raises his eyebrows up and down quickly right after he catches a glimpse of you. This
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means he's totally and utterly into you. Men literally shift gears when they see something they
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like. They go from just being in the world and looking around at things that don't really mean
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anything to them, to focusing in on something that truly wows them. And in this case, that's you.
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So, my lovely friends, if you love this video, give it a huge thumbsup. Come and follow me over
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videos on relationships. Bye, everybody.
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