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  • (Applause)

  • My name is Aisha Chaudhary and I'm 15 years old.

  • I was born with an immune deficiency,

  • with a life expectancy of only one year.

  • I had to undergo a bone marrow transplant

  • at the age of six months.

  • Recently I've developed a serious illness

  • called Pulmonary Fibrosis - a hardening of the lung,

  • as a side-effect of the transplant.

  • And due to my illness, my life has been full of challenges.

  • And I've often felt like I'm in the middle of a shipwreck.

  • And today I'd like to share with you,

  • Five important lessons I have learnt

  • through the ups and downs of my journey.

  • The first lesson, is to Believe In Miracles.

  • Miracles are good things that are unlikely to happen.

  • The chance was one in a million

  • that I would be born immune deficient.

  • And I was.

  • But then, a miracle occurred.

  • Where there was only 30% chance

  • that I would survive the bone marrow transplant.

  • And I did.

  • But then, there was less than 10% chance

  • that I would develop lung issues post the transplant.

  • And I did.

  • And now there's only a 40% chance

  • that my lungs can be cured.

  • And I believe that they can be.

  • Because I believe in miracles.

  • (Applause)

  • The second lesson I learnt,

  • was- You should always live in the moment.

  • This is a picture of me, about six months ago.

  • You can see that I had an oxygen tube in my nose.

  • Despite it all, I have a huge smile on my face.

  • All because I'm holding my new puppy, Rolo.

  • Each moment I spent cuddling with him,

  • I'd be bursting with joy.

  • And all the pain and the sadness that seemed so overpowering,

  • in that one moment just seemed to melt away.

  • If you look at your whole life ahead of you,

  • You will find endless problems that you eventually have to face

  • But if you start to look at life

  • day by day , hour by hour or even moment by moment,

  • you will find that your happiness will just begin to multiply.

  • When I was just stuck in bed, unable to move,

  • or even go to school,

  • I thought hard about the things that I was able to do.

  • I could sit and I could put a smile on my face.

  • I wanted to model.

  • I wanted to see what it was all about,

  • to have my pictures somewhere out there.

  • You can see in this picture, I'm all dressed up -- ready for a photo shoot.

  • Even though I'm sitting on that wheelchair

  • and inhaling oxygen.

  • As I sat there and I posed for the camera,

  • it made me forget about all the things that I was incapable of.

  • It was a fun thing for me to do.

  • And it was great to see what goes on in a photo shoot.

  • What I've learnt is that you should do what you can.

  • Instead of feeling bad about the things that you're unable to do.

  • The third lesson I've learnt

  • is that in every difficulty, one can always find an opportunity.

  • For the past few years, I haven't been able

  • to attend school regularly like the rest of my friends.

  • And this year, I'm taking math and art as subjects,

  • leaving me with a lot of free time.

  • But in this difficult time, I have managed to find the opportunity

  • to pursue my passion for art.

  • In fact, I found that I've sketched and painted more

  • during my illness as compared to the time when I was well.

  • On this slide are two pieces that I've done recently.

  • Here's a portrait of a baby. Done with dry pastels.

  • It's actually from a photo I took myself at a family gathering.

  • On the right, is a piece I have done

  • for the album art for the music that my brother has composed.

  • And his song is called, 'Drowsy Elephants'.

  • The fourth lesson I learnt,

  • was - Never forget to dream.

  • This is a picture of me in my wheel chair,

  • back when I couldn't even walk two steps.

  • Each night, I would dream.

  • I would visualise what may seem like the smallest of things.

  • I'd imagine myself walking around the market,

  • in London with my friend.

  • I'd dream of dancing endlessly at my cousin's wedding.

  • I'd visualise things down to every little detail.

  • The colour of my outfit, which song I'd dance to,

  • The setting of the stage, and my family celebrating.

  • I dreamt of running around the garden with my two dogs.

  • I wished that I'd get out of that wheel chair,

  • and actually walk to my bathroom.

  • I'd play a movie in my mind of all the things,

  • that seemed completely impossible, in that one moment.

  • And guess what?

  • I did walk around the market in London with my friend.

  • And I did dance at my cousin's wedding.

  • And I did get out of that wheel chair.

  • And now I get to stand here and talk to you !

  • The power of the mind is limitless.

  • Remember, that all things happen twice.

  • Once, in your mind, and once, in reality.

  • (Applause)

  • Finally, the last lesson I learnt,

  • was that - If everything else seems to fail,

  • Get a dog.

  • Pets are truly the best medicine.

  • They are known to be extremely therapeutic.

  • I found that Koby, the labrador,

  • was extremely empathetic towards my situation.

  • Back in January when I was unable to walk,

  • Koby himself became very unwell.

  • His legs trembled, and he couldn't walk.

  • I felt that he was mirroring what I had been going through.

  • I was devastated to see him in this way,

  • and I thought something terrible would happen to him.

  • I pleaded with Koby to walk.

  • And I told him that if he did, then I would try

  • and walk a few steps as well.

  • And by the next day, Koby was up and about,

  • running around me happily.

  • And I was so delighted to see him like this.

  • Because in my heart, I knew, that I would get better,

  • just as he did, some day.

  • So as we now know, there's always something in life to sing about.

  • Something to be grateful for.

  • I am grateful for my loving family,

  • my friends, my dogs.

  • In fact, I am even grateful for the challenges

  • that life has thrown at me,

  • for which I have experienced life

  • with a much greater intensity than I would have otherwise.

  • And I do believe,

  • that my soul would have no rainbow if my eyes had no tears.

  • Thank you for listening.

  • (Applause)

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