Men are from Mars and women from Venus. Do you feel that you talk and talk and he does

not understand you? .... Just as if you were speaking another language. So, that's the

way it is ...

Recent studies at the University of Sheffield in England discovered that the voice of women

has more complex tones and takes the entire hearing area of ​the male brain, which causes

the man to feel confused and prefers "to turn off". So in this presentation, we'll give

you 5 tips for your man to pay attention when you speak to him.

If you want your man to pay attention, you have to be practical and to the point. Since

his "language" only allows him direct and concise information, sometimes women tend

to give a message by giving too many turns.

1. Eliminate the phrase "We need to talk".

We know that there are times where you can not take it anymore and you want to warn him

that you're going to have a conversation with the phrase "we have to talk", so this is the

worst thing you can do as his brain gets in defensive mode, "locking itself" so to speak

, preventing any information or message to be processed in a positive way, resulting

in the situation not improving or getting even worse.

2. Be clear and precise.

If you want to make your partner understand you, avoid at all costs not being specific

even if you're upset, express yourself brief and direct. The programming of the male brain

works by goals, while the female brain is oriented to processes. For a man reaching

C means getting A and then B, done! For a woman can lead to A1, B, B2, before reaching

C. So when talking, first seek to organize all your ideas to give a direct message.

3. Use the word "us".

If you're thinking about discussing something you do not like in the relationship or his

person, try to always involve both of you. Distributing the sense of the conversation

always works, even if it is a problem about his work, and he will identify with you. For

example, instead of saying "you have to solve this", say; "we have to solve this", and he

will feel included and all the weight won't fall on him.

4. Talk sideways.

Women always talk face to face, but in the male body language, it feels like a direct

attack. Pay a little attention to any man and you'll notice that they always speak at

an angle of 45 degrees. Apply it and see how he lowers his guard. He'll be willing to listen

to you.

5. Use WhatsApp​.

Make sure that the message includes the same information that you would give him in person,

by writing concisely and accurately. Be sure not to use too many smilies, men usually are

not as cheesy.

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