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  • I hate it when people chew loudly.

  • You look like a cow.

  • But the sound is even worse.

  • WOULD YOU STOP?

  • Clone: What?

  • Hi I’m Stevie Boebi. I Identify as a Queer Cis Female.

  • I’m between a 5 and 6 on the Kinsey scale, and I’m white.

  • I say that because I am perceived as white so I am priviledged, but I’m actually Cajun. I’m from Louisiana, but now I'm in California.

  • I’m American and I’m a woman.

  • ENTJ- Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging.

  • I'm a recovering Drifter, newly a Resolver.

  • I'm an Athiest!

  • And I'm agnostic.

  • Secularist, skeptic, entertainer, business person.

  • Ravenclaw.

  • Dog lover, cat owner.

  • Youtuber, vlogger, videographer, host, producer, food lover, couch potato, but I love long distance running.

  • Open source enthusiast, technology lover, excellent parallel parker, a friend, a sister, and a lover.

  • I am not married, but I have a wonderful partner.

  • I am also an Orphan, Child Abuse Survivor, and Rape Survivor.

  • There is no way you would know most of those things just by looking at me and even if we were friends you might not know most of them. Unless I really wanted you to.

  • The point of language is to communicate with other people, we use things we identify as so that people better understand us.

  • But even if the label didn’t exist or no one knew what it meant you would still be you.

  • You would still be a mix of all your identities and experiences.

  • I spent way too much time taking into consideration what other people told me my identity was and not enough time telling them to fuck right off.

  • Clone: You can’t hate loud chewers because Felicia told me you chewed your gum loudly around her.

  • What? Um, so? I can still hate loud chewers and you are pissing me off.

  • Clone: Well you at least can’t call yourself a quiet chewer.

  • Get out of my house.

  • Lesbian and Geek are the two things I identify as that are attacked the most.

  • "You aren't really an Android geek because you don't know code. Fake geek-girl famewhore. "

  • Hey why don't you uh fuck off?

  • "Youre not really a lesbian because you or dated a boy so youre just a slutty bisexual."

  • Hey! Fuck off!

  • Those are obviously completely different things but I feel like these people have the same exclusion factor.

  • "You aren’t enough like me or what I think this label means so you can’t be in this club."

  • Yeah, they're probably all slithers.

  • Growing and changing is good and tomorrow my list of identities could be different and thats so okay.

  • The thing that sucks is that some people don’t agree.

  • Which makes it really hard sometimes to be proud of what you identify as.

  • Because people have their own preconceived notions about what each label means.

  • And you have basically no way of knowing what those preconceived notions are for everyone.

  • So my advice is if someone tries to put you under their thumb tell them to fuck off.

  • This video really made me realize how difficult it is to -- I mean I knew it before-- but how difficult it is to like voice your identity proudly.

  • If any of you want to try it out, feel free to post in the comments 3 things...

  • or more if you're feeling risky.

  • ...that you identify with.

  • I read all the comments y'all.

  • A couple announcements!

  • *talking about shirts that aren't being sold anymore*

  • Number Two: I'm going to be one of the hosts for a new show called THE FEELS on Astronauts Wanted YouTube channel.

  • Its also a website and all of their content is super interactive with viewers.

  • We answer your questions about love and relationships and dating and sex in the digital age.

  • Like should I use grinder or..

  • God it's been so long for me.

  • Tinder!

  • Oh my god I'm going to be signing up for all of these things so I can know what they are.

  • So if you see me on one of these sites, know that I am not single.

  • It's just for research.

  • Anyways, the show comes out this September and we're going to be answering YOUR questions so if you want to have your question answered, the sooner you ask it the better.

  • There's a link in the description where you can click that and submit!

  • And there's lots of other lovely ladies that are going to be hosting the show with me

  • And you can always do it anonymously.

  • So go do it, go do it now!

  • I know you're going to press that like button!

  • And I'll see you guys next Tuesday!

  • mwahhh

I hate it when people chew loudly.

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