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  • - "LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM,

  • BUT DON'T GET STUCK WITH THE TAB,"

  • AND IT'S LOVE ADVICE.

  • AND WE ASKED SOME PEOPLE IN OUR AUDIENCE HERE

  • IF THEY HAD ANY QUESTIONS THAT LONI COULD HELP WITH,

  • AND BRITNEY MOLNAR-- WHERE IS BRITNEY?

  • BRITNEY, WHAT'S YOUR... WHAT'S YOUR QUESTION FOR LONI?

  • - HEY. HI, LONI. HEY, ELLEN.

  • - HI. - HEY.

  • - SO YEAH, I'M CURRENTLY KIND OF IN A BEST FRIEND TO FRIENDS

  • WITH BENEFITS TO QUESTION MARK, QUESTION MARK PHASE,

  • AND I'M A LITTLE AFRAID OF THE COMMITMENT.

  • I'VE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP,

  • SO I'M KIND OF--I DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP,

  • BUT I DO CARE BOTH PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY.

  • I DO. I REALLY DO. I JUST DON'T KNOW.

  • I DON'T WANT TO RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP,

  • 'CAUSE THAT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

  • - NOW, DOES HE WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP,

  • A SERIOUS, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP?

  • - I THINK HE DOES, YES.

  • - OKAY, BUT YOU DON'T?

  • - I DON'T KNOW.

  • I DON'T KNOW.

  • THAT'S WHY I'M ASKING. DO I?

  • - OH, OKAY. WELL, HOW DO YOU DON'T--

  • IF YOU DON'T TRY IT-- AT LEAST TRY IT.

  • BUT YOU'RE STILL YOUNG, SO REMEMBER THAT,

  • BUT ONCE YOU GET TO 30, YOU BETTER WATCH OUT,

  • 'CAUSE YOU'LL BE ON CHRISTIANMINGLE.COM, GIRL, OKAY?

  • SO...

  • - OKAY, WELL, WE DON'T WANT THAT, SO...

  • - TRY IT OUT, AND IF IT DOESN'T WORK,

  • YOU KNOW, THEN GO FIND SOMEBODY ELSE,

  • BUT WHEN YOU HIT 30,

  • START GETTING INTO COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS, OKAY?

  • - GOT IT. GOT IT.

  • - REALLY, THE LONGER YOU WAIT, I THINK THE HARDER IT IS

  • TO LET SOMEBODY IN, BECAUSE YOU'RE SO SHUT DOWN,

  • AND YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO SHARE, AND YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO--

  • AND I THINK IT'S IMPORTANT TO AT LEAST TRY IT.

  • - I HAVE WAITED A WHILE.

  • I AM KNOWN AS THE SPINSTER IN MY GROUP OF FRIENDS,

  • SO IT MIGHT BE TIME TO--YEAH.

  • - AT 23. THAT'S SAD. OKAY.

  • - OKAY.

  • - ALL RIGHT, BUT SERIOUSLY, LET SOMEBODY IN.

  • IT GETS HARDER AND HARDER.

  • AND VALENTINA.

  • WHERE'S VALENTINA?

  • - HI, ELLEN. - HI.

  • - HI, LONI. - HEY, VALENTINA.

  • - HI.

  • I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR SEVEN YEARS.

  • I'VE GOT THREE CHILDREN.

  • AND I'M FEELING THE SEVEN-YEAR ITCH.

  • DO I LOVE HIM, OR DO I LEAVE HIM?

  • - GIRL, DOES HE HELP YOU TAKE CARE OF THEM THREE KIDS?

  • - HE DOES THE BEST THAT HE CAN.

  • - MY OTHER QUESTION IS, DOES HE WATCH THIS SHOW?

  • [laughter]

  • - ALL THE TIME, ALL THE TIME.

  • - I MEAN, REALLY.

  • - BUT I MEAN, THIS IS THE-- YOU KNOW, DOES HE WORK?

  • - YES. - DOES HE PROVIDE?

  • - YES. - DOES HE PROVIDE?

  • - YES.

  • - GIRL, DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN WANT A MAN LIKE THAT,

  • AND YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT LEAVING HIM?

  • YOU BETTER LOVE HIM.

  • - I WILL. - THAT'S WHAT YOU DO.

  • - THANK YOU.

  • - OH, BOY.

  • [laughter]

  • LAMYAN. WHERE'S--IS THAT YOU?

  • WHAT'S YOUR NAME?

  • - THAT'S ACTUALLY MY LAST NAME.

  • MY FIRST NAME IS GREENBERG.

  • - WHAT'S YOUR FIRST NAME?

  • - GREENBERG. - OKAY.

  • - OKAY. - I HAVE IT BACKWARDS HERE.

  • OKAY, GREAT, AND YOUR QUESTION IS?

  • - MY QUESTION FOR YOU, LONI, IS,

  • I'VE BEEN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND FOR TWO YEARS.

  • IT'S GONNA BE THREE YEARS THIS SUMMER, THIS AUGUST,

  • AND I JUST WANT TO KNOW, WHEN SHOULD YOU PROPOSE?

  • - IS SHE HERE?

  • - YEAH, SHE'S RIGHT HERE.

  • I'M NOT SAYING THAT I WILL PROPOSE TODAY,

  • BUT WHEN SHOULD YOU KNOW?

  • I JUST WANT TO-- I JUST WANT TO BE PREPARED.

  • [laughter]

  • - YOU ABOUT TO GET YOURSELF IN TROUBLE, OKAY?

  • - OH, MY GOD.

  • - SERIOUSLY.

  • I WAS WATCHING HER FACE, AND SHE'S LIKE,

  • "OH, OH, MY GOD. HE'S GONNA PROPOSE RIGHT NOW."

  • - I KNOW. LOOKIT--NO, NO.

  • LOOKIT. SEE, SHE WAS ALL HAPPY. SHE WAS...

  • - I KNOW.

  • - YOU SHOULD PROPOSE TO HER ON BLACK FRIDAY,

  • WHEN THE RINGS ARE, LIKE, 99% OFF.

  • [laughter]

  • - SOUNDS GOOD. SOUNDS GOOD.

  • - ALL RIGHT.

  • OH, MY LORD.

  • LONI'S BOOK "LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM" IS AVAILABLE.

  • I WISH WE HAD MORE OF THESE QUESTIONS,

  • 'CAUSE THEY'RE QUITE SOMETHING.

  • LONI LOVE, EVERYBODY.

  • WE'LL BE BACK.

- "LOVE HIM OR LEAVE HIM,

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