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  • Hey, do you want something to drink?

  • Uh, yeah -But is that alcohol...- I mean,

  • I'll take coffee with cream. But you have half and half, right?

  • Of course I have "half and half."

  • Thank you.

  • Let me just play some music and we'll get pumped up for this video.

  • Oh, right, sorry. I forgot I'm on the West coast, one second.

  • Is that better?

  • There we go!

  • Hey everybody! Max here again

  • And welcome to another Hapa Hour.

  • Shizuka is still in Tokyo but I'm in LA right now with the lovely, Katie. She's half Japanese, half American.

  • Hi! I'm Katie.

  • So today we just wanted to talk about being American halfies.

  • And I feel like we can relate on so many levels just being half Japanese

  • But actually, when I met Max, we realized that there were a lot of differences

  • between East Coast, and West Coast.

  • So we're going to talk about those differences today!

  • Cheers! Kanpai!

  • The very first thing we want to talk about -- I just want to hear once more about

  • your growing up on the West Coast. Because it seemed very different to me on the East Coast.

  • Yeah, first off, California -- the Pacific in general -- has quite a large population of Asian Americans.

  • And so being half -- just, being Asian -- wasn't that big of a deal.

  • I just know at NC State, where I went to school in North Carolina, it was like 5% Asian.

  • It's probably like, less than 1% Japanese.

  • Oh my gosh!

  • So when we saw like another Japanese or half Japanese person, it was a little bit like a

  • "Wait...really?"

  • Was it your own -- was it your sibling?

  • Yeah, I mean it's just like, there's so few that it felt like --

  • I didn't know that there were other people out there like me.

  • But hearing from you, it's like, there were a lot more half Japanese people around you.

  • Yeah, well, my cousins, who are older than me, so --

  • Being half wasn't something new. It was familiar.

  • Already within the family.

  • And my best friend growing up was half Japanese and my mom also put me into

  • Japanese programs, so I didn't feel alone!

  • You were in Japanese, like, school?

  • I did one class!

  • Yeah, me too! I did it too!

  • Yeah, but you didn't need it! You speak!

  • No no, I learned Japanese a little later, when I finally went to Tokyo.

  • But, that's funny -- like, okay -- We both did that I guess.

  • Well, I did one class, and I know one word. "Nihon Gakkou"

  • But I also went to Kumon. My mom put me in Kumon.

  • Were you in Kumon?

  • No, I was not.

  • Oh, so he's not good at math.

  • No, but she taught me like privately.

  • Oh! She DID??

  • Yeah, I was learning my multiplication tables at like, age 3 or something like that.

  • I think? 4?

  • Wh- Okay. That's next level. You win.

  • So obviously there are still a lot of things that we relate on being half Japanese

  • but there are differences as far as -- like -- being on the West Coast you were just around it a lot more.

  • And I thought, one of the big things that I was surprised at is,

  • You're "Yonsei". 4th generation.

  • Your mom was a 3rd generation Japanese, mine's 1st generation Japanese.

  • I guess you're family was more trying to assimilate into American culture?

  • Yeah, and that was because of the war, so my Japanese family was here.

  • They could have two choices, which was either to relocate, or, be in the camps.

  • And so my mom wasn't taught Japanese because my grandparents wanted their children to assimilate.

  • They were in California, right?

  • Yeah, they were in California. They were in Terminal island, which is -- it's very --

  • If you go to the Japanese-American museum here in LA, they talk a lot about...

  • See, it's just --

  • There's -- I have family in the museum!

  • Yeah, just thinking about like, there's a Japanese-American museum, like

  • in North Carolina, it was sooo rare

  • So, um, there were three of my family members that were put in the camps.

  • And the rest of them all relocated.

  • But they lost their homes, they lost everything.

  • So the government took it all, and then

  • When they went back to Terminal Island which is around Long Beach here,

  • everything thing was gone. So they bulldozed their homes, their schools, the communities -- the

  • The island was razed so there was nothing when they went back.

  • And they also were tuna fishermen, and when they went back their boats were gone.

  • They had nothing, so they had to start from scratch.

  • And see, that's so weird 'cause I had heard about the internment camps from my mom when I was like, 16?

  • It took that long.

  • You know, 'cause they don't teach it in schools. I think they kind of want to cover that part up.

  • But I still didn't really -- like, could really relate, I guess with that part

  • 'cause, California didn't even seem real to me. Like, it didn't even seem like a real place.

  • I'm real. You can touch me, yeah.

  • I guess that's another thing I wanted to talk about.

  • I grew up in the South. I think since there's a lot less Japanese and Asian people in general

  • Being -- in my school most the time I was the only Asian or half Asian person

  • That's crazy.

  • Yeah, and then finally I go to college, and I've asked other full Asian people the same thing

  • But you start meeting all these other Asian people and Asian communities and people are like

  • "OH!" like,

  • "You're also Asian! Let's be friends! Let's be friends!"

  • And there's actually like a closeness because there's so few.

  • And I wonder like, in the West Coast, it's like

  • You get a lot more individual Asian...groups.

  • Yeah, and halfies especially I think are the ones that more reach out like,

  • "Oh, you're -- you're like my long lost brother!

  • You're my long lost sister! You look like..me."

  • But the Asian communities, we're not Asian enough to be in them because they are such a large population

  • so we're sort of our own entity.

  • You identified as "Hapa"?

  • Yeah, I identified as Hapa. I also had family in Hawaii.

  • So I knew about the term Hapa when I was young.

  • I didn't know about the term Hapa until I was like 22.

  • What!? That's crazy!

  • Like, I still kinda just consider myself half Japanese.

  • Or, because I lived in Japan, "Hafu", the Japanese term for being half.

  • Which, I just learned

  • I actually didn't know the term "Hafu" until I met you.

  • Ohhh, no way!

  • Yeah, yeah! I always, was a Hapa

  • or "Han", which is half, like "ChaHan"

  • But, even in Japan it's becoming a little more common to see other half Japanese people.

  • It wasn't so common I guess 20 years ago

  • but now it's common enough that they could actually make a movie about it

  • and did you see the photo of Miss Universe Japan?

  • I did!

  • She's half Japanese!

  • Half black, Half Japanese

  • Yeah, she's beautiful.

  • Yeah, it's, I think it's also super different growing up in Japan as a half Japanese person.

  • and almost like, tougher in some ways because Japan is so homogeneous.

  • Yeah and I think by her being in the place and the face of Miss Universe

  • is redefining identity and culture and nationality.

  • And is it, "What you look like" or is it "Because you live there."

  • and it's really interesting to see the discussion that's been happening since she is now the face, of Japan!

  • But you can definitely tell that there is a difference that being half Japanese still is not "main stream."

  • as like the West Coast.

  • Yeah, I think it's great. I celebrate her.

  • It's kind of like our Obama? You know, it's a change.

  • You have like a role model.

  • Yeah! And it's nice to see again somebody that you identify with.

  • I don't know if you -- well, you didn't play with Barbies.

  • I don't know you! But maybe you did.

  • I played with Power Rangers...

  • But yeah, there wasn't a Barbie that I could identify with.

  • There was one! Her name was tropical Miko.

  • She was the "exotic" one.

  • The "exotic" one.

  • I know, I hate -- I hate that term. It's like, I'm a bird.

  • So anyway guys, thanks again so much for watching this video.

  • Thanks again to Katie. She's an actress in LA and she actually has her own YouTube channel.

  • That's right it's called Almost Asian.

  • And it features my life, everyday life going through my ups and downs of being half Japanese.

  • And if it wasn't for Almost Asian, I wouldn't have met this guy!

  • So anyway thank you guys so much for watching this video if you wanna leave a comment about

  • your respective half, or you know you don't even have to be half Japanese to leave a comment.

  • But let's just start a discussion.

  • Thanks again so much for watching, and we'll see you guys in another video!

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