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I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.
Eh boy, you wanna... you wanna... I got you a present.
Good-looking boy, you wanna come home with me?
Can I be your mom?
Look, I... if I were you mom, I'd shower you with gifts.
Come on! Hey, hey, come here!
I was talking to a friend the other day, who told me:
I have been trying to send him signals, but I just don't think he's picking up on them.
Why don't you just ask him out?
Good one.
Oh, (you're) serious.
Oh! No, no, I can't do that.
Why?
Well, I mean...
Now, I've always aggressively chased the boys that I've liked.
When I was a kid, I would make it abundantly clear if I like-liked you.
[To Devin]
[I like-like you. If you like-like me back, buy me a pizza.]
As an adult, my habits haven't really changed.
That's a cute picture of me, huh?
I was a kid, yeah, good-looker!
But I've been surprised to find that a lot of my female friends are very reluctant to ask guys out.
When I ask them about it, they have all kinds of excuses.
I don' know. Guys love the chase.
I'm not aggro like you, Anna.
I don't think I could handle that kind of rejection.
So ladies, I have three very good reasons why you should ask the next guy out.
One: What's the worst that could happen?
He says "no"?
So what? Rejection's not the end of the world.
And that kind of pressure is something that guys face every single time they wanna ask a woman out.
Two: Time.
I don't know about you, but when I'm crushing on someone, I waste so much time fantasizing about what their butt looks like.
Just ask him out. Get some answers. Get that butt.
Three: Missed opportunities.
Look, putting yourself out there and putting your feelings out there is very vulnerable and scary; it's a hard thing to do.
But some guys are maybe too shy to ever do that.
So imagine, all of the missed loves that you never had because you were both too afraid to approach each other.
Plus, think about how much easier this would make the whole dating process.
If you aren't asking people out, you're basically sitting around, waiting for someone to come find you.
You wanna know how Brad and I started dating?
I asked him out.
I hit him up on Facebook and I said, "Hey, I think you're cute and I'd like to take you out to dinner." And we ended up chatting about his childhood ferrets 'til 4 a.m.
But, I've also been rejected, a lot, throughout the years by guys who, either didn't like how aggressive I was or didn't like me as a person or didn't find me attractive or, I don't know.
They don't always tell me.
So, who knows?
Go out there, lady friends. I implore you.
And the next time you see a cutie, hit him up.
I'd like to ask you out, um, with this, here.
That's a present for you, 'cause I think you're real cute, and I wanna show you that uh... that I like you, and I wanna cuddle.
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Uh, it came with galactic snaps, freeze-dried beef liver snacks for dogs.
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