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  • I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.

  • Eh boy, you wanna... you wanna... I got you a present.

  • Good-looking boy, you wanna come home with me?

  • Can I be your mom?

  • Look, I... if I were you mom, I'd shower you with gifts.

  • Come on! Hey, hey, come here!

  • I was talking to a friend the other day, who told me:

  • I have been trying to send him signals, but I just don't think he's picking up on them.

  • Why don't you just ask him out?

  • Good one.

  • Oh, (you're) serious.

  • Oh! No, no, I can't do that.

  • Why?

  • Well, I mean...

  • Now, I've always aggressively chased the boys that I've liked.

  • When I was a kid, I would make it abundantly clear if I like-liked you.

  • [To Devin]

  • [I like-like you. If you like-like me back, buy me a pizza.]

  • As an adult, my habits haven't really changed.

  • That's a cute picture of me, huh?

  • I was a kid, yeah, good-looker!

  • But I've been surprised to find that a lot of my female friends are very reluctant to ask guys out.

  • When I ask them about it, they have all kinds of excuses.

  • I don' know. Guys love the chase.

  • I'm not aggro like you, Anna.

  • I don't think I could handle that kind of rejection.

  • So ladies, I have three very good reasons why you should ask the next guy out.

  • One: What's the worst that could happen?

  • He says "no"?

  • So what? Rejection's not the end of the world.

  • And that kind of pressure is something that guys face every single time they wanna ask a woman out.

  • Two: Time.

  • I don't know about you, but when I'm crushing on someone, I waste so much time fantasizing about what their butt looks like.

  • Just ask him out. Get some answers. Get that butt.

  • Three: Missed opportunities.

  • Look, putting yourself out there and putting your feelings out there is very vulnerable and scary; it's a hard thing to do.

  • But some guys are maybe too shy to ever do that.

  • So imagine, all of the missed loves that you never had because you were both too afraid to approach each other.

  • Plus, think about how much easier this would make the whole dating process.

  • If you aren't asking people out, you're basically sitting around, waiting for someone to come find you.

  • You wanna know how Brad and I started dating?

  • I asked him out.

  • I hit him up on Facebook and I said, "Hey, I think you're cute and I'd like to take you out to dinner." And we ended up chatting about his childhood ferrets 'til 4 a.m.

  • But, I've also been rejected, a lot, throughout the years by guys who, either didn't like how aggressive I was or didn't like me as a person or didn't find me attractive or, I don't know.

  • They don't always tell me.

  • So, who knows?

  • Go out there, lady friends. I implore you.

  • And the next time you see a cutie, hit him up.

  • I'd like to ask you out, um, with this, here.

  • That's a present for you, 'cause I think you're real cute, and I wanna show you that uh... that I like you, and I wanna cuddle.

  • Thanks so much to Loot Crate for sponsoring today's video.

  • For those of you who don't know, Loot Crate creates cool subscription boxes that have a new theme every month.

  • It's like a surprise present to yourself or to your kitties.

  • You have until the 19th of the month to order because they all ship out at the end of the month.

  • And you can order just one crate or subscribe for the gift that keeps on giving.

  • So I got December's galaxy-themed Loot Pets box, which, I've never unboxed anything before, so this is exciting.

  • Aw, that's cute!

  • Uh, it came with galactic snaps, freeze-dried beef liver snacks for dogs.

  • I have four cats, so maybe they can eat that, even though they're not dogs.

  • Oh, they got a pet collar that looks kinda futuristic.

  • We got a new bowl.

  • That's perfect cause we broke a bowl the other day.

  • It's a Firefly Troublemaker ceramic pet bowl. Thank you.

  • Oh, my God, there's a sweater. Is it a sweater?

  • It's a tank top. Oh, my God!

  • They have their own magazine, and it's a Pug!

  • January's theme is invasion.

  • You can sign up by clicking on the link below in my video description.

  • And don't forget to sign up by the 19th at 9 p.m. Pacific to get January's crate.

I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.

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