Name: 【TED】Brené Brown: Listening to shame (Listening to shame | Brené Brown)
Uploaded: 2013-04-17T12:31:22.000Z
Duration: 20 min 39 s
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I woke up the morning after I gave that Talk

The first time I left was to meet a friend for lunch.

And when I walked in, she was already at the table.

At what point did I think that was a good idea?"

And she said, "I saw your Talk live-streamed.

It was a little different than what you usually do.

YouTube, they're putting this thing on YouTube.

And we're going to be talking about 600, 700 people."

And she said, "Well, I think it's too late."

And I said, "Do you remember when we were in college

And I said, "Remember when we'd leave a really bad message

Then we'd have to break into his dorm room

So of course, the only thing I could think of to say at that point was,

"Brene, what are you doing? What are you doing?

Why did you bring this up? Have you lost your mind?

And I said, "I'm just thinking about it a little bit."

She said, "You're like the worst vulnerability role model ever."

And then I looked at her and I said something

but ended up being more prophetic than dramatic.

I had no contingency plan for four million.

And maybe the hardest part about my life ending

is that I learned something hard about myself,

about not being able to get my work out to the world,

there was a part of me that was working very hard

But I want to talk about what I've learned.

There's two things that I've learned in the last year.

so if you could just raise your hand that would be awesome --

when you're thinking about doing something vulnerable

think, "God, vulnerability's weakness. This is weakness?"

How many of you think of vulnerability and weakness synonymously?

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【TED】Brené Brown: Listening to shame (Listening to shame | Brené Brown)

vulnerable

absolutely

privilege

vulnerability