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  • "Hello?"

  • "I'm, uh, planning a wedding for next spring."

  • "Quick quote on a venue for a family gathering."

  • "Between 120 and 130 guests."

  • "For 125 people."

  • "We're aiming for April 16th."

  • "The 16th."

  • "That's gonna be a $15,000 food and beverage minimum."

  • "The food and beverage minimum is gonna be $17,000."

  • "OK."

  • This 2,000 dollar difference is what's known as the "wedding mark-up" where some vendors charge a higher price for weddings than for other similar parties.

  • So why are weddings so expensive?

  • The wedding website "The Knot" surveyed thousands of its members and found that the average cost of their weddings was thirty-one thousand dollars last year.

  • That's not including honeymoon.

  • Wedding dresses average at thirteen hundred dollars and catering comes in at $68 dollars per person.

  • And those numbers are a lot higher if you live in places like New York, Chicago, DC or San Francisco.

  • The wedding industry is kinda weird and it's an industry that I have quite a bit of experience in.

  • My wife Isabel and I run a wedding videography business in Washington DC and here's my take on why weddings are so expensive.

  • There's this economic concept called asymmetric information.

  • With most things you buy you have a pretty good gage in what you're getting for what you pay for.

  • You're pretty sure that an 8 dollar avocado is way too much because you've bought avocados before.

  • Familiarity with a market produces balanced information between buyers and sellers and so they can settle on a fair price.

  • This is like Economics 101.

  • But most people shopping for wedding stuff have very little, if any, experience with what they're buying.

  • Cake, dress, napkins, catering, venues, flowers.

  • This is stuff you just don't buy very often so you don't have a very good gage on what you should be paying.

  • This is made a lot harder by the fact that us wedding vendors have a hard time posting prices on our website.

  • You usually have to reach out and inquire to get any sort of pricing information.

  • Imagine if you had to ask for pricing for every item in the grocery store.

  • Shopping would be a lot harder.

  • When I first was starting up my business, I read a ton of blogs about marketing to prospective clients.

  • And overwhelming message that I kept reading is "steer away from talking about price".

  • "We've put together a free report that shows you how to answer the "price question" with those email leads in a way that shift them away from price quickly so you can get them on the phone or to a meeting where you can book them!"

  • And then there's Pinterest.

  • Pinterest can be really useful I think using it as a starting point.

  • It's an amazing tool for wedding inspiration or if you have an experienced wedding planner by your side, but usually doesn't help with the price question.

  • And you see all these like amazing dresses and you can click on it to like get more information.

  • You're gonna get a lot more pictures , but you're not gonna find any pricing information.

  • And of course, there's always the option to "repin" it if you'd like to.

  • If you are like a normal person with on a budget like you're setting yourself up to be let down.

  • Another thing that makes wedding so expensive is the once-in-a-lifetime mentality.

  • The classic line for brides shopping for a wedding dress is.

  • It's the dress of your life, and if there's ever a one picture your ancestors have of you, it's the one in your wedding dress."

  • That's wedding dress designer Anne Barge talking on the plan of money.

  • I'm as guilty as anyone of this.

  • Here's one of our very first ads.

  • It's all about that once-in-a-lifetime feel.

  • It's just really hard not to splurge when you put so much weight into one day.

  • It's easy to look at this and think there's no doubt that wedding vendors are ripping off their clients.

  • But there's another side to the story that I think is important to mention.

  • Corporate flowers for example.

  • There's probably going to be direction but maybe there's a little bit more flexibility where as a bride has dreamt up a certain flowers and she has been pinning it.

  • And she wants to talk to the florist multiple times about the bouquet and the ribbon treatment, and the fact that her grandmother's broach is gonna be on that bouquet.

  • It's a lot of time and energy spent on those flowers and that's gonna be reflected in the cost.

  • The upshot of this is that the emotional weight of weddings usually means more work for vendors, and thus higher prices.

  • And the most demanding clients are the ones that set the prices for everyone.

  • So the best thing you can do to avoid being swindled is to demand the price range before hearing a sales pitch.

  • We vendors might hate it but it's the fair thing to do.


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Why are weddings so damn expensive?

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    Chamber posted on 2020/09/09
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