Name: Ask A Polyamorous Person
Uploaded: 2015-07-20T09:35:17.000Z
Duration: 3 min 17 s
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- So, is every sexual experience an orgy?

Adverbs of degree

- No, do you know how hard it is to plan an orgy?

I've been to one, and most of the time I spent there

By that logic, you should only have to have one friend.

- I have friends who I'm just Facebook friends with,

and friends who I would pick up from jail.

- What's the difference between poly and cheating?

- The difference between poly and cheating is that

cheating is a violation of the relationship.

- You make out with somebody else, that's part of the deal.

- It's not about betrayal. It couldn't be any different.

- Does it bother you that some people don't know

the difference between polyamory and polygamy?

Polygamy for the most part, one, is more of a legal term,

It's more about the man and some subservient women.

Polyamory is egalitarian, everyone has a voice.

- What's the biggest tool to help polyamory work?

You have to talk about what you think, how you feel.

I think maybe the question really is, is monogamy normal?

just like we can choose to be vegetarian,

It's okay to be non-monogamous as you long as you

do it in an ethical way that doesn't betray anyone.

- In seriousness, jealousy is something we all deal with.

We're jealous of people in our industries,

sometimes we're jealous of people in our family,

but for some reason we consider sexual jealousy

to be this insurmountable problem, and it's not.

- Another thing that can help with jealousy is

meeting any of your partner's potential partners.

We blow up in our mind what they're like.

or they're somebody that's out to get us.

- I want great experiences for my partner,

- Does it bother you that people just don't understand?

I am a bisexual, plus-sized, nightclub entertainer

I find it's best not to worry what other people think.

- Do you have any advice for young polyamorous people?

My advice is to be honest, no matter what.

Don't pretend to be chill with things you're not chill with

Take your instincts past just what you think is right,

- Figure out who you are, and stay true to it.

Don't try to change, and don't try to change other people.