Name: Amanda Cerny - "How to Be Attractive To Women" - with TrippAdvice
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Hey, what's going on. This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and today I have a very special guest. This

is Amanda Cerny and she has been on covers of fitness magazines. She's one of the top

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Vine-rs - is that the way to say it? - Vine-rs. Yeah, Vine-rs. Check her out. I've put a bunch

of links in the description below. You can find her on Vine and Twitter. She does all

these hilarious videos. So we're talking today about how to be attractive to women. Off the

top of your head, give us like the first thing that comes to mind in terms of what a guy

can do to be more attractive to a woman. I would say have a good outfit going on or just

have yourself put together. Groom yourself, that's important. Number one. Okay, so let's

go deeper into that. You say groom yourself and be more put together, what's some practical

example, practical advice you can give these guys to be able to do that. Okay, so like

going out into public and you have your hair all crazy and you haven't shaved in a year,

to me, that's important, so if you don't care about yourself, why should I care? You know?

It's the same. Exactly. So it's like guys who are going out, doesn't matter if it's

at night or during the day, always make sure that you're put together, because it's those

little things. I even say that to guys. One of the things that you have to pay attention

to in terms of your fashion is your shoes. The shoes is such a little detail that most

guys look over, but it's that little detail that will almost subconsciously tell a woman,

like oh, I actually care about my lifestyle. I care about what I look like. And if a guy

pays attention to those little things, then that also shows he's paying attention to all

the other little things in his life. Like you said, that kind of makes it so you're

like more put together. Okay, what is another tip for guys in terms of being more attractive

to women? I would say, of course, personality. It sounds cliche, but it's true. Some people

can be just so in their own shell and it makes you very bland when that happens, so say you

go up and talk to somebody and you're all excited to meet them, like "Hey, I'm Amanda.

Nice to meet you," and the person's like shy, all in their own world, but it's nice when

somebody's just themselves and just open and willing to talk and carry on the conversation

and it's fun. I don't know, I personally like somebody who can make me laugh, so that's

part of my world, so it's important to me. I mean if you can make me smile, you're in.

Besides that, what is one of the most important part of a guy's personality that you're looking

for? Thoughtful. Like a guy that you're going to date. Thoughtful. He has to be very thoughtful.

That's a new one, I've never heard that. Thoughtful. So give me some examples of being thoughtful.

So for instance, I had this horrible carry-on bag. I was walking around on a date with this

guy but I had my carry-on with me because I'm always traveling all the time, so I was

like, all right, gotta get this bag to a hotel room and lugging this thing around. And dating

this guy a couple of times. I just put it in my hotel and went on a date and he remembered

that and then he remembered the purse I had too. And so then what he did later on dates

down the line, he surprised me with a roller, like this awesome carry-on bag that I love

now that matches my purse. So like this guy thought of everything. He thought okay, this

girl is killing herself, like breaking her back walking around the airport with this

bag, let me help her there. She travels all the time so she'll love this. It matches her

other stuff, so she's a girl, she'll be all excited about this. I was. So thoughtful.

That is going like a step further. That's you being the exception to all the other guys

because you're just taking it a little step further and paying attention to those details.

Yeah, and even like some guys are really like, I'm not going to buy this girl a piece of

luggage to match her purse. It's expensive. I don't want to do that. But let's say the

guy bought me a diamond ring, right? I would be way more impressed with that piece of luggage

than that diamond ring he could have bought me just because the thought behind it. And

I'm not just saying that because obviously it's stuck in my head and I'm telling you

guys now these little details really do stick with us. I guess another big thing would be

to have a little bit of...and I hate using this word, but swag. Okay. So... It's a little

broad. I think I know what you mean. Let's go deeper. What does swag look like to you?

Okay, so it's a sense of confidence. Okay. I think it's very important to be sure that

you're not overly confident, because that can be a little much, like guys who walk in

with their muscle shirts coming up, like yeah, this is me. Like that's a no. But just like

be sure of yourself and don't double guess and question things you're telling me because

you're afraid I might not, may not like it. This could be another topic, but don't try

to please me with your answers. Oh, that's a good one. Don't try to please you with your

answers. So it's almost like don't be too agreeable with everything you say. Don't say,

"Oh yeah, that's the best. Oh yeah for sure. Oh no, I don't like that either. Oh yeah,

I totally agree with you." Like cutting that out. I've met so many guys that would just

be like, I...for example, this is random...I hate pineapple. And I'd be like, oh, I love

pineapple. Pineapple's awesome. And then they'd be like, oh, I like pineapple too. Pineapple's

okay, but it's not that bad. But you just said you hated pineapple, and then they're

like, oh well I like it. I'm like okay...who am I talking to, you know? Right, so I think

what we're saying here is like if you're too agreeable with a woman or you're just doing

whatever she says, then you're actually not showing your personality. You're actually

just creating this fake whoever it is, this fake persona to be able to attract that girl

when she really just wants to be talking to you. She wants to be talking to a human person

who has all kinds of interests and all kinds of opinions and getting to know you rather

than just some guy who's obviously faking it who's being agreeable or disagreeable with

everything that you're disagreeing and having this fake personality. Don't be afraid of

what type of guy you are. Just be confident with who you are because if you're faking

it in the beginning anyway, it's going to be hell down the line with this girl because

she's going to find out who you really are and then it's not going to work. It's going

to be a waste of time. Yeah, absolutely. So I mean almost just sum everything up, what

I think I'm hearing is at the end of the day, you've got to be you, you've got to be authentic

and be like the best version of yourself that you can be and be real, but meanwhile, you've

got to work on some of the other things, like being thoughtful, being...paying attention

to detail and being confident and being sure of yourself while also working on growing

and working on your appearance, and if you can combine all those, you will at this point

have a much higher success rate of attracting more women into your life and maybe even women

like Amanda Cerny. Guys, thanks so much for watching. Don't forget to subscribe to the

channel. I'm going to put a button here so you can subscribe and get more videos just

like this every week, and of course, do not forget to find Amanda Cerny. She's on Vine,

she's on YouTube...Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter. She's everywhere. I'll make it easy

for you guys. I'm going to put all the links in the description box below so you can see

that. She puts up hilarious Vines, she puts up sexy pictures on Instagram, you really

just can't lose. So check that out and I'll see you on the next video. Bye guys.