Name: Career Strategy For People With Too Many Interests (The M-Shaped Future )
Uploaded: 2026-01-12T13:52:14.000Z
Duration: 10 min 16 s
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In our last conversation, we talked about the graveyard of hobbies.

We looked at the neuroscience of quitting.

And we laid out a plan to build that muscle of tenacity,

the part of your brain that allows you to push through when things get hard.

But you know, for some of you, a different, more confusing problem emerged.

What if sticking with things is not your issue?

What if your problem is that you have too many things you want to stick with?

You look at your life and see a dozen different paths and they all feel like a part of you.

perfectly captured in the phrase, "I could do anything if I only knew what it was."

They call you a dilettante, someone who is a jack of all trades, but a master of none.

And the anxiety that comes with that label is immense.

Your curiosity is also your biggest career liability.

Today, we are going to dismantle that anxiety.

We will look at the geometry of a successful career

and offer a path for those of us who are never meant to just be one thing first.

We need to understand why the old career advice can feel like a trap.

For the last century, the world praised the specialist.

Society was a predictable environment, almost like a chessboard.

The rules were clear and the path to success was to go a mile deep in one narrow field.

Psychologists call this a kind learning environment.

This is the world of the eye shaped person, the expert with a single deep pillar of knowledge.

But that is not the world we live in anymore, is it?

The world today is a wicked learning environment.

The rules are constantly changing, feedback is delayed and the patterns are not obvious.

Think about the difference between a golfer and a firefighter.

The rules never change and the feedback is immediate.

the rules are unknown and their specialized knowledge might not apply.

The hyper specialists can have blind spots.

Now, to be clear, we absolutely need specialists.

Their deep knowledge is incredibly valuable.

The problem is not that the specialist path is wrong.

The problem is when it is treated as the only path.

When that single standard is used to measure everyone,

it leaves people like you feeling like a failure.

When your brain is simply built for a different kind of world.

you have to stop thinking in terms of job titles and start thinking in terms of shapes.

The opposite is the dash-shaped person, a mile wide and an inch deep.

Knowing a little about everything, but having no real foundation.

This lack of depth creates a ton of anxiety because you feel like you have no ground to stand on.

The most powerful one for a person like you is the M shaped professional or the polymath.

And your horizontal bar is your interest in psychology, history and design.

Suddenly, you are not just a distracted data scientist.

You become the person who can weave complex data into a compelling narrative that a CEO can actually understand.

The tool that allows a polymath to do this is called far transfer.

A specialist uses near transfer, applying a skill to a very similar problem.

They see the underlying structure in one field and apply it to a completely different one.

A person who understands the branching structure of a tree's root system might suddenly see a better way to organize a company's database.

A musician who understands harmony in counterpoint might look at a piece of software code and see a more elegant way to structure it.

It is the ability to see the music, not just the notes.

And all those seemingly random interests you have collected over the years,

they form the very library of metaphors you will pull from to create these kinds of breakthrough insights.

So how do you actually build this M-shaped life?

You cannot build all the pillars at once.

That just leads back to the shallow dash shape.

You must pick one pillar and commit to it for a season, maybe 6 to 18 months or so.

Now the big question is which one to pick first.

The anxiety of this choice is what paralyzes most scanners.

You are not choosing for the rest of your life.

A good first pillar is often the one that creates the most stability.

The one that can become that good enough job we will talk about.

Or it could be the one that simply has the most energy and excitement around it right now.

Pick one and give yourself permission to pour your focus there.

You build one leg until it is strong, until you feel you have mastered the core 80% of it.

This doesn't mean you need to be a world class expert.

It just means you have reached a level of fluency where you can solve most common problems without running back to the instruction manual.

When your curiosity in that area feels satisfied for now, you make a conscious choice.

This is not quitting like a dabbler running from the pain.

You are deliberately choosing to begin building your next pillar.

If your mind is naturally drawn to exploration,

it can be a powerful choice to have a day job that provides stability without draining all of your cognitive energy.

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Career Strategy For People With Too Many Interests (The M-Shaped Future )

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