Name: 當你感覺生活總是事與願違的時候... 也許，可以這樣做 ► Marie Forleo 瑪麗·弗里奧（中英字幕）
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When I first started as a business person, I was 23 years old.

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And I was so insecure and I was trying to fit myself into this idea of who I thought I should be and it wasn't working.

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So it wasn't until I actually allowed myself to just be the weird, wacky, energetic, kind of a little bit crazy person that I am that things actually started to work.

And so, now it's been almost 20 years of doing this, and I've seen it time and time again.

Where people tend to feel stuck and stifled, where they tend to feel like their life force is just drained out of them, there's gets to be despair and depression.

They just feel stuck is when they're not expressing the fullness of who they really are. They're trying to fit themselves into a conventional box.

They're trying to live up to other people's expectations. They're trying to be someone who they really aren't because they're afraid that the real them is going to get rejected.

You know, if I ever feel like in any moment life is not going the way that I think it should be going, it's because I'm resisting what is.

So the more awareness I can bring to that and go like, "Is this really how you want to live your life in this moment, Marie?"

Because every single moment, as you know, sets you up for the next moment.

And you string these moments together and guess what, you have your life.

So, every single moment is an opportunity for us to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves.

And so I just try and play the game, if I'm miserable, if I'm upset, if I'm angry, if I'm cranky, it is my responsibility because it's based on what I'm thinking or believing in that moment.

It's not the outside world causing me to feel this. It's what I'm doing up here that's making me have that reaction.

And if I'm the problem, I am also the solution. It sounds so simple, but I think we're all searching for these really complex things and we don't need them.

If you can catch yourself arguing with reality in the moment and realize, "That's not a wise thing to do."

You can then back yourself up and go, "Okay, that didn't turn out right, so what am I gonna do about it?"

Am I gonna be miserable on this moment and let this ruin my night or am I gonna send off the email to say, "Hey, once that work gonna come," and let's readjust our communication plans.

But the argument and the irritation is not necessary to get a new result. I believe our world will transform significantly when every single one of us realizes that the world really does need the special gift that only we have.

So to see people wake up to that, to know that it's already in them, they don't have to do anything or be anyone different, to just express that.

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當你感覺生活總是事與願違的時候... 也許，可以這樣做 ► Marie Forleo 瑪麗·弗里奧（中英字幕）

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