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  • In an era where our needs are easily met, we face a new challenge, addiction.

  • It's not just substance abuse.

  • Everyday things can become addictive, depending on our personalities.

  • And so today, we'll dive into five key addictive personality traits and how to tackle them trait.

  • Number one: impulsivity.

  • Impulsive people tend to act immediately on their urges and desires without thinking about the consequences.

  • In other words, they only consider the short-term outcomes while disregarding the long term outcomes of their behavior.

  • Impulsivity is not necessarily a bad thing.

  • Impulsive people tend to be spontaneous, easy going and fun.

  • However, they are also more likely to engage in immediate gratification and they may find it hard to tend to their responsibilities and have problems with procrastination.

  • If this resonates with you, self awareness is the first step to addressing the problem.

  • You can't fix any problem if you're unaware of it in the first place.

  • The next step is to consciously think about the long-term consequences of specific behavior.

  • One of the ways to do this is to realize that whatever pleasure you gain from a certain behavior is short-lived, while the negative effects can be serious and permanent.

  • For example, eating ice cream while watching TV may make you feel good but inadequate nutrition and lack of exercise will lead to weight gain and potential health problems.

  • The point is that every decision you make has consequences, even though you don't experience them right away.

  • Trait number two: sensation-seeking.

  • Sensation-seeking is a character trait that's closely linked to impulsivity, sensation seekers have a strong desire for new and exciting experiences.

  • This often means engaging in risky behaviors such as drug or alcohol abuse.

  • But it can also take other forms like shopping, video games, et cetera.

  • In essence, any pleasurable behavior can be a potential source of addiction.

  • Every human being naturally seeks pleasure and avoids pain.

  • However, some people simply have a higher baseline for pleasurable experiences.

  • In other words, they need more stimulus to achieve a certain amount of pleasure.

  • People like these often dread boredom and routine and do everything they can to avoid it.

  • This includes engaging in potentially addictive behavior like substance abuse.

  • It's important to note that sensation-seeking is not necessarily bad and not all sensation seekers develop addiction.

  • However, when combined with other risk factors, the likelihood of developing addictive behaviors may increase.

  • If this sounds like you, you must consciously engage in healthy and nonaddictive activities that satisfy your needs for novelty and excitement.

  • Trait number three: high levels of stress.

  • Most addictive behaviors are a form of a coping mechanism.

  • In other words, engaging in certain behaviors is a way to alleviate negative emotions, like stress and anxiety.

  • If you're prone to stress or have a lot of stressors in your life, it's more likely that you'll self medicate with certain substances or use certain behaviors as a form of escapism.

  • While these strategies may work in the short term, they can lead to even more problems down the line.

  • This is especially the case if you rely heavily on specific behaviors to alleviate stress, instead of dealing with the stress directly, this can create a vicious cycle.

  • Something stresses you out which leads to addictive behavior which produces even more stress down the line.

  • This kind of cycle is difficult to break, but it can be done.

  • You can either find healthier coping strategies like exercising, meditating or seeking support from friends and family, or you can deal with the stressor directly.

  • When you voluntarily tackle your stressors, you'll often find that doing so is much easier than a it all together.

  • Trait number four, environmental factors.

  • Aside from certain character traits, your environment also plays a significant role in addiction.

  • Mere exposure to certain behaviors can make you more likely to engage in these behaviors yourself.

  • Social influence can also be a significant factor.

  • Humans are social creatures and unconsciously imitate people we spend time with.

  • For example, you're more likely to drink alcohol in social settings where people around you also drink.

  • Ccultural norms are another contributing factor in developing addictive behavior.

  • Despite its harmful effects, alcohol use often gets a free pass and drinking alcohol is even celebrated and encouraged.

  • Similarly, compulsive shopping is encouraged in a culture that favors consumerism.

  • Some people tie their self worth to their consumption.

  • They see spending more as a way to increase their social status.

  • While you can't completely tune out of your environments, it's essential to be mindful of how it shapes your behavior.

  • Then you can try to structure your environment in a way that's conducive to building healthy habits and avoid places people and other triggers that make you more likely to engage in unwanted behavior.

  • Trait number five: low self-esteem.

  • Some people may be more susceptible to social pressure which can further feed addictive behavior.

  • People with low self-esteem may be more vulnerable to peer pressure and the desire for social validation.

  • They may engage in substance use or addictive behaviors to fit in with a particular social group or to gain approval from others.

  • Even if it goes against their better judgment, low self-esteem can also lead people to believe that they're not worthy of love, success or happiness.

  • They may use addictive substances or behaviors as a form of self-medication to numb emotional pain or to create a false sense of self-worth.

  • One of the ways to cope with low self esteem is to challenge negative beliefs you have about yourself.

  • The trick is treating yourself the way you would treat other people you care about.

  • We're often harsher on ourselves than we are to the people in our lives.

  • You should treat yourself with the same care and compassion you extend to the people around you.

  • If you have addictive tendencies, the first step to overcoming them is self-awareness.

  • You can't change your behavior without being aware of it first.

  • Fighting addiction is a constant battle but you don't have to go at it alone.

  • Social support is the best way to tackle addiction.

  • So don't hesitate to reach out to your friends, family or a professional.

  • If you want to learn more about the topic of addiction, I highly recommend Andrew Hubert's podcast with Anna Lemke, which will be linked in the description box below.

  • Besides that, guys, stay tuned.

In an era where our needs are easily met, we face a new challenge, addiction.

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