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  • - When I went out on my own and became my own boss,

  • every insecurity that could come flooding in did.

  • I didn't feel like I was enough.

  • I didn't think I was strategic enough.

  • I didn't have the right answers.

  • I didn't have enough education. I wasn't-

  • I didn't look the part,

  • like all the different things came up.

  • - Hey, welcome to our YouTube community.

  • Today I am honored to bring you

  • a very powerful interview with Amy Porterfield,

  • who's been called the Queen of Online Marketing.

  • She's the New York Times bestselling author of the book,

  • "Two Weeks Notice: Find the Courage to Quit Your Job,

  • Make More Money, Work Where You Want, and Change the World."

  • She's the host of the "Online Marketing" podcast

  • with almost 50 million downloads,

  • and she's taken over 50,000 students

  • through her online courses.

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  • Let's go to the interview now with Amy.

  • Well, Amy, I've been waiting to have you on for a long time.

  • Welcome to the podcast.

  • - Well, thanks so much for having me, Craig.

  • It's great to be here.

  • - It is an honor to have you,

  • and we're gonna talk more about your new book.

  • I'm gonna go and hold it up for now.

  • "Two Weeks Notice: Find the Courage to Quit Your Job,

  • Make More Money, Work Where You Want, and Change the World."

  • Congratulations on your new New York Times bestselling book.

  • - Thank you so, so very much.

  • It's been a wild ride.

  • - Well, I can only imagine,

  • and I want to ask you about the book,

  • but I wanna dive in and first get a little bit

  • of your leadership story because what you've been able

  • to accomplish is quite profound.

  • Your influencing a lot of people.

  • And I kind of wanna start, Amy, at the beginning,

  • and this definition's not original to me,

  • but someone said that leadership is influence.

  • At its core, at the very root, that's what leadership is.

  • I'm curious, when was the first time

  • that you recognized that you actually had influence

  • in the lives of other people?

  • - Ooh, such a great question.

  • You know, I always felt like I was born to be a leader

  • and I don't think I was born to be a lot of things,

  • but to be a leader, yes.

  • And so in high school, I really actually felt it.

  • I was a cheerleader, captain of my cheerleading squad,

  • and I was involved in leadership in high school

  • and I always have been drawn to inspire

  • and empower and get my voice out there.

  • So I think that's when I kind of started honing in on it.

  • I wouldn't have known it was leadership back then.

  • But looking back, it definitely was.

  • - Right. So, in the early years,

  • probably when you started to recognize

  • that you had some leadership gifts,

  • I'm also guessing that you had some insecurities as well,

  • because almost all of us do.

  • Can you tell me, because this might help some people

  • that are listening right now,

  • how did you work through some insecurities

  • to grow in your confidence as a young and aspiring leader?

  • - You know, I have been very insecure

  • for a lot of my journey, to be quite honest.

  • It ebbs and flows for sure.

  • And I think where I really started to notice it

  • is when I started to build my own business.

  • And so I was in corporate for many, many, many years.

  • And definitely the insecurities came up there,

  • but I wasn't in charge of really big projects.

  • But when I went out on my own and became my own boss,

  • every insecurity that could come flooding in did.

  • I didn't feel like I was enough.

  • I didn't think I was strategic enough.

  • I didn't have the right answers.

  • I didn't have enough education. I wasn't-

  • I didn't look the part,

  • like all the different things came up.

  • And so I've navigated those for a really long time.

  • And in my book I talk about this difference

  • between confidence and courage,

  • and I didn't have a lot of confidence,

  • but I don't think you start out with a lot of confidence.

  • I feel confidence is earned,

  • but courage is that faith that you have

  • in a higher power or in yourself.

  • And so I've had to rely on courage

  • a lot of the way through my journey.

  • And it's absolutely been something

  • that's helped me immensely.

  • - That's an interesting perspective.

  • I haven't heard someone share kind of that contrast

  • before between courage and confidence.

  • And to me it's almost like,

  • you need confidence and a little stupidity, right?

  • When you're starting out,

  • just like you don't even know what you don't know.

  • And so you would say that confidence is earned.

  • Can you take me through, and I'd love to know,

  • you mentioned a couple of insecurities,

  • that you're not enough, you weren't strategic enough.

  • Could you pick one of those,

  • maybe one that stands out to you the most,

  • and tell me how you actually earned the right

  • to be confident in that area?

  • Because I think Amy, as you know, we're, you know,

  • we have so many in our leadership community

  • that just feel inadequate.

  • Most of us don't feel like that we're enough.

  • And you have overcome,

  • you started from scratch and built something really special.

  • I'd like to know that journey of how you built confidence,

  • what it took, and do you own it today?

  • Are you always confident or do you still backslide

  • into some of the insecurities?

  • So if you can just walk us through that, that'd mean a lot.

  • - Okay. So when I talk about this idea

  • of confidence is earned, what I mean by that is

  • when you start to put yourself out there,

  • and in my case start to build a business,

  • and I do my first launch and it doesn't work out,

  • and then I do another launch and I make a little money,

  • and I do another launch and I start to grow it,

  • that is where the confidence comes in.

  • I have a proven track record.

  • It might be small, but like inch by inch,

  • it's starting to work.

  • So my confidence starts to grow.

  • I'm earning it, I'm putting in the time,

  • I'm putting in the work, but before it starts to work,

  • and it took me a good two years

  • before my business really started to work,

  • that's where I had to rely on the courage

  • because the number one insecurity I had

  • is that I wasn't good enough.

  • I've always struggled with my weight.

  • As a woman, this is kind of a big through line

  • that we see a lot where I didn't wanna get on video,

  • I didn't wanna show my face.

  • I didn't wanna put myself out there.

  • So I felt like I wasn't good enough to be on camera

  • or I wasn't strategic enough in the sense of

  • I didn't have a business degree.

  • I didn't know how to build an online business.

  • I was making it up as I went.

  • So it just came back to I am not good enough.

  • And so every time something didn't work,

  • I would reinforce that.

  • But here's how I came out of it.

  • And why today I think I absolutely have a lot of confidence

  • and I absolutely backslide at moments,

  • but then can catch myself pretty quickly,

  • is because I got clear on what I wanted.

  • It all comes down to your why.

  • And for me, this is something I teach to all my students.

  • And that is, what do you want? Why do you want it?