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  • Hey, Psych2Goers.

  • Is your friend acting a bit more than friendly?

  • Do you feel they might actually have a crush on you?

  • You may think it's weird, but it's not unusual for people to start liking their friends.

  • You became friends because you liked something about the other.

  • And those feelings can sometimes cross the line between friendship and romantic love.

  • But when you suspect that, it can be a confusing situation.

  • Maybe you feel it would be too awkward to ask them directly.

  • Here are six signs your friend actually wishes to be your lover.

  • Number one, they wanna be near you all the time.

  • When you hang out in a group,

  • do they pull you aside to talk, sit next to you every time or walk next to you only?

  • Or do they try to find ways to hang out with you without the group?

  • Spending time with someone you like quickly becomes a priority.

  • You always wanna be near them.

  • Even sitting in silence is exciting if your crush is next to you.

  • If your friend is trying to spend more than usual time with you as much as they can,

  • it could mean they wanna be more than friends.

  • Maybe they also text you more than they text others

  • and they don't seem as interested in them as they are in you.

  • And they might seem a bit jealous when you have plans with someone else.

  • Number two, they want to take pictures together.

  • Do they constantly take out their phone to take a selfie with you?

  • When they wanna create a deeper connection with you,

  • they won't seem to care about groupfies much.

  • Their phone gallery might be full of pictures of just the two of you.

  • This could be a sign that they're so head over heels for you,

  • that they spend their days looking at your pictures and dreaming of what could be.

  • Number three, they're always there for you.

  • Do they blow off everything just to spend time with you?

  • Are they willing to get halfway across town just to meet you for a quick coffee?

  • When somebody has deeper feelings for you,

  • they're ready to go far and beyond.

  • So, half hour walk in the rain just to see your loved one doesn't seem so bad.

  • They listen more closely to what you are saying in order to understand you better.

  • And most importantly,

  • you're sure they're not gonna abandon you when you need them the most.

  • Do you know anyone else who will always be there for you?

  • Well, it's Psych2Go.

  • With so many people confused about their relationship troubles these days,

  • we're more committed than ever to making relationship content more accessible to everybody.

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  • may make that special someone want to be more than friends with you?

  • Just kidding, but still it would mean a lot to us.

  • Number four, they notice changes in your appearance.

  • Did they compliment you even when you only trimmed your hair?

  • Or when you wore that extra nice shirt for the first time?

  • They are quick to notice every little tiny detail you thought no one would notice.

  • If that description fits them, it means they're paying attention.

  • And paying attention to someone is usually a clear sign of attraction.

  • They probably can't take their eyes off of you

  • And noticing small things, like that hat,

  • also gives them the opportunity to sneak in a compliment.

  • Number five, they're nervous around you.

  • Are they suddenly seeming nervous or awkward around you lately?

  • Being next to your crush can feel so exciting that you temporarily forget how to talk or walk.

  • They may touch their hair or fix their clothes while anxiously looking your way.

  • They probably feel like they need to be perfect around you and they're scared to mess it up.

  • They want you to think they're the best, so they're trying to be the best when around you.

  • So sweet.

  • And number six, they avoid the topic of love.

  • It can hurt seeing your crush fall in love with another.

  • If your friend is interested in you,

  • they'll be hesitant about the topic of love around you.

  • They avoid talking about love life altogether,

  • be it yours or theirs.

  • They change the topic or act nervous when someone asks about love.

  • It's quite possible that they don't have the courage to be open about their feelings towards you.

  • So, they would rather stay in their little bubble, hoping you'll notice their affection.

  • Love is complicated.

  • You can never know for real what makes a person's heart beat faster.

  • Try hanging out with them as you always did.

  • If you like them too,

  • you can encourage them to make the first move.

  • Even if you're still confused about their feelings,

  • time will tell for sure.

  • Or maybe they'll tell you themselves.

  • Who knows?

  • So, what do you think?

  • Could there really be some sparks there?

  • Do you know about some other signs that weren't mentioned?

  • Feel free to leave a comment with your experiences, feedback or suggestions.

  • If you found this video helpful,

  • be sure to hit the like button and share it with others too.

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  • Thanks for watching.

Hey, Psych2Goers.

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