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  • If someone asks me if I want to do something, I say "yes" if I want to do it, and I say "no" if I don't want to do it.

  • There are, however, other ways to say "yes" and "no" in English.

  • Now, I must tell you this: "Yes" and "no" are the most common ways to say you want to do something or to say you don't want to.

  • But these other ways of saying "yes" and "no" are also quite common.

  • They're not some crazy words that we never use; they are words that we actually use every day.

  • So, in this English lesson, I'll teach you a few more ways to say "yes" and a few more ways to say "no".

  • One of the first ways of saying "yes" in a different way is to say, "Of course."

  • But I do need to explain when we use this.

  • We use this when we want to say "yes" to someone in a situation where we would never think of saying "no".

  • A good example would be this:

  • If a friend of mine was going on a trip, and if they said, "Bob, can you pick up my mail and water my plants while I'm gone?"

  • I would say, "Of course."

  • I could just say "yes", but I would say "of course" because I would never say "no" to that.

  • If a friend of mine was going on a trip, I want to do whatever I need to do so they have a good trip.

  • So, I would say, "Of course, I would totally pick up your mail and water your plants when you're gone."

  • But there'd probably be no guarantee that the plants would survive, but I certainly would water them.

  • Maybe I would bring Jen with because she's better with plants than I am.

  • Another way of saying "yes" is one that we use in a situation, again, where someone is asking for help and it's the phrase, "No problem."

  • If someone said to me, "I can't lift this box. Bob, can you help me?"

  • I would say, "No problem. Let me grab the other end and help you lift it."

  • So, notice, this is a way of saying "yes" in a certain situation.

  • It's a situation where someone's asking you to do something, and you can respond by saying, "No problem."

  • They're not asking if you want a candythen you wouldn't say, "No problem;" it wouldn't make sense.

  • But if someone says to you, "Hey, would you be able to bring me home after work today? My car is broken."

  • Instead of saying "yes", I could say, "No problem. Where do you live? I'm happy to give you a ride home."

  • Another way to say "yes" if someone asks you to do something is to say, "For sure."

  • Now, this is, I think, a little bit like slang.

  • It's not pure slang, but it's certainly a quick way to say that you'll help someone do something.

  • If someone said to me, "Bob, I really, really need money; can I borrow 100 dollars?"

  • I'd probably say, "No."

  • But I might say, "For sure," depending on who it is.

  • Sorry, I had to correct what I was thinking there in my mind.

  • If one of my children really needed money, and they said, "Dad, can I borrow 10 dollars?"

  • I would say, "For sure," but if some random person oryeah, I don't give away money very easily.

  • Anyways, if someone asks you to do something and it's something that you don't mind doing, you might say, "for sure," and then do that thing for them.

  • Another way of saying "yes" is to say, "Sure thing."

  • And, again, this would happen when someone asks you for something.

  • If someone said to me, "Bob, can I borrow your car?"

  • I might say, "Sure thing; come over and get it."

  • Of course, if they don't have a car, they might not be able to.

  • But I would certainly want to say "yes", and I would probably say, "sure thing."

  • We have a lot of tools and equipment here on the farm, and sometimes, my friend wants to use something to do some work at his place.

  • When he says, "Hey, Bob, can I borrow your tractor?"

  • I usually just say, "Sure thing; when do you need it?"

  • And then, we arrange a time for him to pick it up.

  • So, another way to say "yes" is to simply say, "Sure thing."

  • OK, here's one more way to say "yes" before we move on to talking about ways to say "no".

  • If someone asks you if you want to do something and you really want to do it,

  • you can say, "I'd love to," or "I would love to" would be the full version of the sentence.

  • If someone said to me, "Bob, do you wannna go out for dinner? I'll pay."

  • I would say, "I'd love to," because I love it when people take me out for dinner and then they pay for it.

  • That's an awesome thing.

  • So, if you're ever in a situation where someone's asking you if you want to do something, and it's something you would really like to do, you can respond by saying, "I'd love to."

  • OK, let's talk about how to say "no" using different words or phrases.

  • And I'm going to use my "jumping out of an airplane with a parachute" example.

  • If someone said to me, "Bob, do you want to go up in a plane and jump out with a parachute on?"

  • I would say, "No way."

  • So, I would use the word "no", but I would add the word "way".

  • We use this form of saying "no" when there's no way we're ever going to say "yes"; I just used the phrase right there.

  • If someone asked me to do something like that⏤I'm afraid of heights; I've told many of you that before.

  • If someone asked me that, I would simply say, "No way."

  • It basically means there's nothing you could do to convince me to do that activity.

  • No way.

  • There are times when someone might ask you to do something and you don't want to do it.

  • And instead of saying "no", you can just say, "Forget it."

  • Basically, when you say "forget it", you're saying that you don't want to do that thing.

  • I've heard my children say this before sometimes.

  • One of my children will say to another one of my children, "You need to help me clean up the kitchen. Dad said so."

  • And my other child might say, "Forget it; I have other stuff to do. You do it."

  • Then, usually, I step in and kind of make sure everyone is happy and doing what they're supposed to do.

  • But, yes, sometimes, in certain situations, if someone tells you that you have to do something, you can just say, "Forget it."

  • Sometimes it's a little rude, but it is something we sometimes say.

  • Sometimes you wanna say "no", but sometimes, you want to word it a little more strongly.

  • And in that situation, you could just say, "Never."

  • If someone said to me, "Bob, you should eat these hot, spicy chicken wings; they are the hottest wings on earth."

  • I would say, "Never; I'm never going to do that."

  • So, I'm not just saying "no", I'm saying "no from now until the end of time".

  • I am not going to eat super, super hot chicken wings.

  • I do like hot food, but when things get to a certain level, that's when I start saying "no".

  • And when the things get really, really hot, I just say, "Never; I'm never going to eat that. It's just too hot for me."

  • This last way of saying "no" is also a very strong way of saying "no", and it's the phrase, "Not in a million years."

  • If someone came to our school and it was someone who owned lots of snakes and they came to a science class to show the students snakes.

  • If they said to me, "Bob, hold this snake."

  • I would say, "Not in a million years."

  • Basically, it's the same as saying "never"; it's the same as saying "no", but much, much, much stronger.

  • I would⏤I don't like snakes.

  • If someone had pet snakes, I'm not even sure if I'd be comfortable visiting their house.

  • And then, if someone asked me to hold one, I would certainly say, "Not in a million years."

  • Or I guess I could just say "no".

  • So, I'm sitting here checking over the clips that I just recorded for this lesson and realized I didn't record an outro, so, I'll do it now.

  • Thanks for watching.

  • I hope you're having a good day; I hope your English learning is going really, really well.

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If someone asks me if I want to do something, I say "yes" if I want to do it, and I say "no" if I don't want to do it.

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