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  • every Argentine needs the bidet they use

  • the bidet you can't take it away you

  • were to get something on your face would

  • you rather have it wiped off would you

  • rather have it washed off sometimes I

  • wonder if it's a bit of an addiction

  • because it is shocking to see people

  • with the mate all day long it was an

  • acquired taste for sure the ease of

  • making friends here in Argentina they

  • take you in and they embrace you as part

  • of the family and it's like once you're

  • in you're in at the first Sound of

  • Thunder people start running around

  • unplugging all of their Electronics yeah

  • it's almost like

  • time is fluid you don't have to be there

  • on time but you don't have to be that

  • precise

  • well well hello hello guys welcome back

  • to another video good morning how are

  • you all doing uh for this week's video I

  • thought we would try something a little

  • bit different and talk about some of the

  • cultural differences between Canada

  • where Sam and I have lived most of our

  • lives and Argentina where over the past

  • few years we have been spending a few

  • months out of the year and well this

  • time around because we're doing a bit of

  • a longer stay a longer stretch there are

  • certain things that we have been

  • noticing that are very different

  • cultural shocks cultural differences

  • whatever you want to call it so I've

  • been keeping a little list and today

  • we're going to be covering that let's

  • begin so difference and number one that

  • I want to talk about is the meal times

  • here in Argentina which to me are just

  • ridiculously late because maybe I'm used

  • to eating ridiculously early in Canada

  • but basically one of the biggest

  • adjustments has been going out to dinner

  • in Argentina a lot of restaurants don't

  • even open until 8 pm and they don't

  • really get going like they don't get

  • full until 9 or 9 30 onwards I would say

  • 10 p.m is like peak time in an Argentine

  • restaurant and well in Canada I'm used

  • to having dinner at 5 PM I feel like

  • that's the norm for the majority of

  • Canadians maybe five or six which is

  • pretty early 5 p.m here is afternoon tea

  • time or merienda when people will drink

  • like a tea a coffee some media Lunas

  • which are croissants or facturas that

  • type of deal lunch is also much later

  • here I have been invited to lunch where

  • we eat at like 2 p.m 2 30 3 and I'm like

  • really that is my day time I've usually

  • eaten much earlier I'd say in Canada 12

  • noon is the standard but Sam and I are

  • also used to eating our lunch at like 10

  • 30 11 just because we wake up really

  • early so yeah that's been another

  • difference this past week we got invited

  • out to dinner

  • um at 9 00 PM so now we know to have a

  • little siesta take a little nap and

  • obviously eat a first dinner before we

  • go out to the invitation dinner

  • difference number two would be the mate

  • Obsession here in Argentina and what is

  • matter you ask well it doesn't exist in

  • North America we don't drink it in

  • Canada so the best way I can describe it

  • is as a green tea that is very bitter it

  • is served loose leaf in a gourd with a

  • metal straw and this is something that

  • argentines drink all day long like you

  • will see people walking around with

  • their little thermos with hot water so

  • they can make mate any time of day and

  • they even sell mate kits like little

  • materos where you can carry your thermos

  • your bag of mate your gourd your straw

  • it's almost like a little purse just to

  • carry around mate and people do carry it

  • around everywhere like people really do

  • walk around with this

  • um like not just if they're on vacation

  • not just if they're going out for a

  • picnic or to the park like they could be

  • going to work and as they're driving

  • they're drinking mate or they could be

  • in the office and they're sipping

  • and the other unique thing about the

  • mate is that you share it so basically

  • there's one gourd with one metal straw

  • and it gets passed around and shared

  • with whoever's there it's not that each

  • person has their own individual mate

  • with their own straw this is

  • um I would call it like the great

  • equalizer because you just you just pass

  • it around doesn't matter who you are or

  • whatever and you just drink mati

  • together so fun fact kettles in

  • Argentina have a separate setting for

  • mate

  • can you see that there

  • because you don't need the water to boil

  • for mate

  • so there we go

  • it is Mata time friends I'm living my

  • best campho life in Argentina oh

  • Countryside I've got my mate in the

  • gourd uh-huh the bombisa yeah right oh

  • you know the name I know the names I'm

  • surprising are you

  • um it was an acquired taste for sure at

  • first it wasn't like love at first bite

  • like for uh dulce de leche or Asado

  • I mean I've gotten used to this sort of

  • it's it's a very social drink it gets

  • passed around when you meet up with

  • friends you you all share it and that's

  • sort of how uh my taste buds got

  • acquired to it over time

  • oh yeah apparently it's supposed to be

  • an appetite suppressant too so you carry

  • this around and you drink it and you

  • don't have to eat as much food that

  • might be a good thing for me

  • and it would have out the The Taste

  • um yeah it does have a it has sort of an

  • earthy a little bit more of a bitter

  • taste I guess comparable it sort of

  • similar to certain types of green teas

  • but not not really it really does have

  • its own unique flavor

  • um it's very Argentine if you come to

  • Argentina I highly recommend trying it

  • you can also just get it in the tea bag

  • form that's not the the authentic way of

  • having it but if you don't have the kit

  • like we do that would be an option

  • some people like to add sugar to make it

  • a little bit sweeter but I would say the

  • traditional way is just bitter green tea

  • it does energize you and sometimes I

  • wonder if it's a bit of an addiction

  • because it is shocking to see people

  • with the mate all day long I do like it

  • I do find it tasty you can actually also

  • get it in little tea bags so I've been

  • drinking my mate in the morning for

  • breakfast with a tea bag you can add

  • milk to it and then it's known as

  • maticosido but yes if you're ever

  • traveling around Argentina and you see

  • people carrying a little gourd around

  • with a metal straw sipping on it

  • wherever they are that's what that is

  • all about and you'll probably be asked

  • like hey do you like mate I want to have

  • some

  • um because they are very very good about

  • sharing and after you've drank the whole

  • thing they fill it up again and on to

  • the next person okay Point number three

  • third cultural difference I would say is

  • the ease of making friends here in

  • Argentina like people are just so open

  • and so welcoming that they take you in

  • and they embrace you as part of the

  • family and it's like once you're in

  • you're in

  • um and that shocked us because Sam and I

  • made so many friends during our first

  • few trips in Argentina like we would

  • just meet people and we would click and

  • then they would be inviting us over for

  • meals at their home and family outings

  • and like we just immediately became a

  • part of their group in a matter of days

  • and like these are people that we are

  • still friends with to the to this day

  • people that we keep in contact people

  • that we visit uh stuff like that and

  • like even moving here now that we're

  • working on the hotel renovation project

  • we have made a lot of friends in the

  • village rather quickly just with

  • neighbors and mutual acquaintances and

  • things like that and we have a very

  • active social schedule which is really

  • strange for me because in Canada we're

  • not used to going out this much at least

  • us personally I'm sure it's different

  • for other Canadians who are probably

  • super sociable and maybe they just have

  • like specific Circles of friends that

  • meet more often but in our case here in

  • Argentina we get invited out two to

  • three times a week which is unheard of

  • for us like two to three times a month

  • would be a lot of activity but there's

  • always like a barbecue or a dinner or

  • like let's go get down to the river

  • let's do a picnic come on over and watch

  • the football that type of thing so we

  • have felt very very connected in our

  • current Community like we don't feel uh

  • like Outsiders or like we don't know

  • anyone we do feel very connected and

  • yeah it's just it's just shocking how

  • easy it has been to make friends because

  • I just think back to like some of my

  • friendships that I made in in University

  • in Canada so I went to University in

  • Toronto and I went to school with some

  • people for four years like we had

  • classes together for four years and I

  • was never invited over to to their house

  • or like I never met their parents or

  • like we would rarely get together

  • outside of class I don't know if maybe

  • that's because I didn't live on campus

  • so maybe there was that disconnect but

  • yeah it was just very different uh so

  • like here we have people that we've

  • known for a relatively short amount of

  • time and we've met their families we've

  • been to their homes things like that

  • whereas that's not the case in Canada

  • but again that's just been my experience

  • in Canada I'm sure other people have

  • very different experiences but for the

  • most part we've noticed that here in

  • Argentina people are very sociable love

  • getting together and they love inviting

  • people and like introducing you to their

  • friends and like connecting you so

  • that's been really cool okay so since

  • we're talking about getting together

  • with friends going out like continuing

  • along that same train of thought I would

  • say another major cultural difference is

  • the spontaneity argentines are very

  • spontaneous people who will invite you

  • places uh very last minute and we're

  • cool with it we're getting used to it

  • but like it's happened to Sam and I

  • where we'll be like walking through town

  • going for a little stroll maybe like

  • planning to go to a cafe and we run to

  • some friends in town and they're like

  • hey we're on our way to a barbecue are

  • you guys doing anything want to come and

  • we're like no we're free so we'll get in

  • the car and like we'll go off with them

  • or like invitations

  • the same day like maybe a few minutes

  • before the football game is about to

  • start it's like hey are you guys doing

  • anything are you planning to watch the

  • game want to come over to our place and

  • yeah it's it's like you don't plan in

  • advance it's you plan in the moment

  • um and that's that's very cool but it's

  • different because with a lot of my

  • Canadian friends we make plans well in

  • advance like a week or two or three in

  • advance if like my friends have busy

  • schedules you know with work and with

  • kids and with other commitments

  • um there there isn't that spontaneity

  • that that doesn't exist and here yeah

  • like we get invited places last minute

  • and we've learned to just keep an open

  • schedule and be flexible and not be like

  • oh my gosh but you didn't let me know

  • I'm not ready so yeah now we know to

  • always keep some bottles of wine in the

  • house so that if we get invited

  • somewhere spontaneously we've got

  • something to take as a gift and we're

  • not showing up empty-handed so another

  • little cultural difference between

  • Canada and Argentina okay next cultural

  • difference and this could be because

  • we're in the countryside like this is

  • probably not the case in the big cities

  • but because we have like no doorbell or

  • no actual Bell at our gate at our

  • entrance to the property it's very

  • common for people to clap to make

  • themselves known so sometimes like

  • you'll be sitting in your living room

  • doing whatever like working or watching

  • TV and you hear

  • and at first I was like what's that

  • um and then you go out there and you

  • realize oh it's the neighbor trying to

  • get my attention someone's visiting and

  • this is how they're making themselves

  • known by going

  • you know but it reminded me of when Sam

  • and I traveled in in Jordan and we

  • stayed with the Bedouins for a few days

  • and they were like teaching us about

  • their Customs their way of life in the

  • desert and one of the things they said

  • is like you don't want to just barge in

  • on someone's tent you want to kind of

  • like discreetly make yourself known like

  • hey I'm out here so they would clear

  • their throats they would just go like

  • like just to try and get your attention

  • inside the tent and that's how you know

  • like oh my Bedouin neighbor is is out

  • there calling to me so yeah I just found

  • out interesting how you know in

  • different cultures there's different

  • ways of announcing yourself and well

  • here in the countryside it's definitely

  • the

  • so Samuel is going to demonstrate how

  • you announce yourself

  • not like that

  • not like that it's not like that people

  • are just kind of go like this I think

  • consistent clapping right yes yeah

  • um I had no idea what that was

  • you did but it totally makes sense

  • because you're at the Gate of someone's

  • place there isn't necessarily a bell

  • although in some cases there is

  • but most of the time people don't have a

  • bell at their gate so it's a way of

  • making some noise kind of letting people

  • know oh I'd like to get your attention

  • and then I suppose I'm not sure what the

  • etiquette is where you just go on I

  • don't think you would just go into

  • someone's yard if they didn't respond

  • but maybe you would keep clapping more

  • right

  • yeah you were kind of stay near the gate

  • and like walk in slowly clap clap clap

  • clap clap clap hopefully find someone

  • yes and uh it also yeah you don't want

  • to be lounging around in here no they

  • caught that part no you can tell us

  • you kind of have to be careful with what

  • you're wearing you know so you can't

  • hang out hang out in your undies yeah

  • hang out in your undies or or your slob

  • wear even things you would be

  • embarrassed to be caught in

  • um so yeah you have to be ready for all

  • times of day we've also had people clap

  • at night too so

  • be ready for visits oh okay so another

  • big cultural difference I would say is

  • Siesta time or nap time which I mean we

  • have gladly adopted because the

  • schedules are very different here things

  • do run late and you do need that extra

  • burst of energy that you get from a nap

  • but basically I do find Siesta time very

  • interesting because it does mean that

  • cities and towns basically shut down in

  • the afternoons and each business

  • schedule really varies like people set

  • their own Siesta hours but for example I

  • would say between 1 and 4 pm you

  • shouldn't try to do anything anywhere

  • because you'll most likely get there and

  • find out that you know the corner store

  • has closed or the bank has closed or the

  • butcher is closed like people close up

  • shop they go have their little siesta

  • and then they have slightly longer hours

  • like they might be open from four to

  • eight or four to nine maybe even until

  • 10 in the cities like I said it really

  • varies from business to business

  • but one of the shocking things for me

  • was in terms of banking here that where

  • we are well not even where we are and

  • the neighboring town that actually has a

  • bank the bank is only open from 9am to

  • 1pm and then that's that's it for the

  • day you need to do any banking I'm very

  • sorry but you'll have to return tomorrow

  • so that was a bit of a shock that

  • certain businesses are not open all day

  • long and I kind of view them as pretty

  • essential businesses but anyway we're

  • working with their schedule we're

  • adapting but definitely if we ever need

  • to run an errand here like we do check

  • the schedules before heading out and we

  • know that doing things in the morning is

  • always best because you can guarantee

  • that a place will be open in the

  • afternoons not so much all right I

  • thought I would set you up here next to

  • the flowers next to the blooms because

  • they really are beautiful and it smells

  • so nice these white flowers

  • have such a nice sense such a nice Aroma

  • I love it I don't know what they're

  • called

  • um but anyway next cultural difference

  • is in regards to the existence of the

  • bidet have you heard of the bidet why

  • are we in the bathroom

  • good question why are we in them why are

  • we in the bathroom what are you going to

  • demonstrate apparently I'm going to be

  • demonstrating the bidet yeah which is

  • how you clean yourself here and

  • um the best way I've heard someone

  • explain this is if you were to get

  • something on your face would you rather

  • have it wiped off would you rather have

  • it washed off and so that's a another

  • bad framework of thinking about how

  • things work here you can do both systems

  • but I think most people do both systems

  • but uh this is the bidet down here okay

  • so you have hot and cold water why do we

  • have three knobs

  • well I mean just hot and cold water

  • uh-huh so let's let's do this

  • turn it on see yeah oh it sprays quite

  • well yes you can regulate you maneuver

  • yourself as such and when you have the

  • Caliente the cold so free

  • a little too excited so this this

  • adjusts the the spray yes so let's do

  • that let's open hot cold and then adjust

  • open a little bit okay open a little bit

  • uh-huh

  • see how that changes

  • and what's that for

  • what

  • what's that

  • this yes

  • I don't know what do you do that's the

  • soap for your bum you can't be using the

  • soap for your hand of course

  • there you go special soap we don't we

  • don't have any right now empty

  • and you would have a special towel as

  • well right everyone has their own bum

  • towel bum towel yeah

  • you get used to having a bone towel here

  • indeed thank you for the demonstration

  • you're most welcome anyways in Argentina

  • every single bathroom has a bidet next

  • to the toilet and it's basically this

  • this system of washing your your bum

  • with water after going to the bathroom

  • you can regulate the water temperature

  • hot cold adjust the the height of the

  • sprinkle the spray

  • and yes like without fail there's a

  • bidet in the bathroom and for me like I

  • had never seen a bidet outside of

  • Argentina until Sam and I traveled in in

  • Japan and like Japan is renowned for

  • their futuristic toilets I mean

  • you can do all sorts of things in there

  • like control the temperature for the

  • seat control the temperature for the

  • water you can play music if you're

  • feeling shy so yeah the first time we

  • went to Japan we definitely tried their

  • their futuristic toilets their bidet

  • they're spray

  • and here as well it's actually it's nice

  • once you get used to having a bidet it's

  • very very nice and I've noticed in like

  • in Canada and North America in general

  • they're trying to promote the the idea

  • of a bidet like I'm seeing the ads I'm

  • seeing the commercials

  • um but it's the spray kind so like not

  • uh like a separate bathroom fixture

  • let's say but it's like this hose that

  • you connect and it's got like a spray

  • but because in Canada we don't use the

  • bidet and like we don't have all the

  • connections all the installations

  • generally it's just cold water and it's

  • really nice to have warm water so if you

  • do decide to get a bidet and try that

  • out definitely connect it to the the

  • warm water so you can like regulate but

  • yeah bidets are popular here oh and

  • because we're renovating a house and

  • we've got the hotel to renovate and all

  • that the other day I was asking an

  • Argentine friend of ours like hey like

  • what do you think of me removing the

  • bidets from the bathroom just to make

  • them more spacious more open and he was

  • like no you cannot do that here like

  • every Argentine needs the bidet they use

  • the bidet you can't take it away so it's

  • like okay it's part of the culture I

  • think it's a good thing to be honest it

  • is clean it is hygienic we should have

  • it in more parts of the world but well

  • that is the situation okay so another

  • major difference here in Argentina is

  • that at the first sight of lightning or

  • at the first Sound of Thunder people

  • start running around unplugging all of

  • their Electronics all of them all of

  • them and I used to think like this is

  • overkill like what's what's going to

  • happen what's the big deal I've never

  • run around on plugging things back in

  • Canada

  • but since we've arrived

  • how long have we been here now we've

  • been here about two months we've had two

  • internet modems get fried from the storm

  • Electronics really do get cooked here

  • and I'm not entirely sure why I don't

  • know if it's like the old electric

  • sockets that don't have that third

  • grounding prong or if it's just the area

  • we're in like we do got some crazy

  • electric storms here there have been

  • Storm Chasers to come and study it but

  • basically

  • the weather here is crazy and it Cooks

  • your electric appliances

  • it's happened twice in the last two

  • months as well that we have been in the

  • house and we have seen electricity shoot

  • out of the electric sockets like what is

  • going on like just this like flash of

  • light and yeah I used to not get it at

  • first like why why this fear like why

  • this phobia even and like the need to

  • like run around right away but now I get

  • it and now we do the same we hear

  • thunder and it's like

  • we need to start unplugging and there we

  • go like computers modems

  • camera Chargers anything like that it

  • gets unplugged so yeah save those

  • Electronics that's a tip for anybody

  • who's planning to travel in Argentina

  • good for you to know unplug your stuff

  • during a storm okay Point number nine

  • another Argentine cultural difference

  • for somebody coming from Canada would be

  • of a punctuality or a lack thereof

  • things are different here they're a lot

  • more relaxed and yeah it's almost like

  • time is fluid you don't have to be there

  • on time you don't have to be that

  • precise uh so yeah there's been a few

  • times where I've had to go to um

  • meetings and I've been told a certain

  • time and I arrive early like I will get

  • there 15 minutes early I do not like

  • being late so I will get there and I'm

  • waiting I notice no one else is here

  • early and then I noticed no one else is

  • here on time it's usually a bit later on

  • that people start showing up

  • so the same thing goes for like since

  • we're in construction doing renovations

  • right now sometimes people will tell you

  • like oh yeah I'll be there tomorrow but

  • no they do not come tomorrow they come

  • later in the week or yeah yeah I'll be

  • there at 5 p.m

  • um some people are good about it I'm not

  • saying everybody is like this uh yeah

  • but it it is different I am adapting and

  • I am learning that if somebody tells you

  • 7 PM it could be 7 15 or 7 30 and just

  • gotta be flexible go with the flow and

  • last but not least

  • this might be actually one of the the

  • bigger cultural shocks that I had to

  • adapt to cultural changes let's say is

  • um

  • it's in regards to WhatsApp and sending

  • audio messages

  • so in Canada I'm very used to texting

  • unless I'm like chatting with like my

  • best friends like closest to friends

  • like then yes we'll send each other

  • audio messages but for the most part you

  • text people you don't typically call and

  • you don't typically send audio messages

  • because it almost feels like an

  • imposition to the other person if you've

  • sent an audio they have to reply via

  • audio and I don't know like maybe you

  • just feel a little nervous about

  • chatting on the phone I know when I was

  • younger like even in my 20s

  • um if I had to call any place to do like

  • some kind of errand or a bureaucratic

  • stuff or whatever I would have to write

  • down what I had to say because I would

  • get so nervous on the phone that

  • everything would just go out of my mind

  • and like I I couldn't speak I couldn't

  • verbalize what I needed

  • um so yeah maybe that's another thing

  • another reason why I find uh audio

  • messaging

  • um different but something that I've

  • definitely gotten used to but here to

  • communicate people use WhatsApp a lot

  • and they send audio messages like well

  • they'll just talk to you like

  • no texting and I've asked why and they

  • just said well it's so much easier why

  • would I want to sit there typing when I

  • can just uh tell you so At first I felt

  • very awkward sending audio messages on

  • Whatsapp it was just weird to be talking

  • to myself but sending an audio message

  • to someone it just didn't feel the most

  • natural but well every everybody does

  • that you just send audio notes all day

  • long to everybody to your friends to

  • your workers to whomever so yes I I am

  • getting used to that I think my my audio

  • notes are starting to sound more natural

  • it's just like talking to somebody but

  • man at first that was weird that was

  • different but I guess it shouldn't

  • really surprise me that people do audio

  • notes a lot here because I would say

  • argentines are very chatty they're very

  • outgoing people I would say for for the

  • most part they love to talk so yes why

  • wouldn't they love to talk on the phone

  • so yeah that's that's another thing I've

  • gotten used to WhatsApp I am becoming

  • the queen of communication on WhatsApp

  • but definitely a big change from

  • Audrey 10 years ago let's say or maybe

  • 15 years ago who used to hate picking up

  • a phone couldn't imagine having to send

  • somebody an audio note it was all just

  • text or email but well coming out of the

  • show here we are growing

  • um so yeah I think that's where we'll

  • we'll end the video those are cultural

  • shocks cultural differences

  • I've noticed in in Argentina as a

  • Canadian I'm sure there's going to be

  • more so if you enjoy this type of video

  • uh let me know and I I can make more

  • videos in the future as we continue to

  • adapt to to our new home so yeah again

  • if you enjoyed this video feel free to

  • give it a like subscribe and we'll be

  • seeing you next weekend with more videos

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